he doesnt want to commit and he says he doesnt see the point of having a relationship.
but i think we are seeing each other although we have never even held hands or kissed.
i feel he doesnt like me that much and he doesnt take that much time off with me. but he is keeping me around so that he could be seen by his friends to have a date. like he is inviting me along for this vacation on the west coast with his pals and their wives and girlfriends. and ive gone along to dinners with his pals too and they all think that i'm his girlfriend.
i dont know if i should continue with this. the more i am involved with his life, the more emotionall vest i become in him. i feel that he doesn't like me enough and its bad that he doesnt want to commit. but what if i am wrong about him. i do like him quite a lot.
2007-08-28 01:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get away from the user
2007-08-28 02:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out for sure is to ask him, Tani, whether directly or roundabout, so that he can either allay your fears or confirm them. Not knowing more about how he treats you I can't really form an opinion but if you're unhappy, you should air your concerns with him instead of letting them fester and rot you from the inside. Hell, he may be thinking along similar lines and not know HOW to move any further. You should make it your mission to find out BEFORE you go out west. Good luck babe,
askaman
2007-08-28 09:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay, and you might be his "cover" to family & friends. He's not leading you on because he's told you that he doesn't want a relationship. This is something that you have to decide for yourself. Can you remain "just friends" and enjoy his time and company? If yes, great! If you're looking for something more, then you have to start breaking away from him. Besides, if you are looking for a boyfriend...being with him will keep other potential boyfriends away!
2007-08-28 09:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by M. Rod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know and tell him that you do like him but if you are being "shown off" to his pals then you want something more out of the relationship if he is not willing to commit at this time don't force him but also don't put up with it either MOVE ON
2007-08-28 09:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump hm. if he wants to have somebody just for show, he can just hire from an escort company or something. you are at the losing end here. soon, you'll be the only with a bleeing heart and bruised ego.
2007-08-28 09:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Eds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
Relationships are all about mutual commitment. Without that, you are just a gal pal.
I think you want something more than that.
2007-08-28 09:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of this situation before the emotional attachment gets too great for you. tagging you along is unfair and cruel. he is selfish and obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings.
2007-08-28 09:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by sasha98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your feelings, and if you want a relationship tell him that too. you need an answer for your own feelings, and if he just wants a date friend then maybe you should reconsider.
2007-08-28 09:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he's footing the bill and you're not having sex, take him for all he's worth 'til you find someone better. The jerk deserves it.
2007-08-28 09:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want more from the relationship & he doesn't want to give, then its time to move on
2007-08-28 09:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Aziz A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋