2007-08-28 01:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont' look for a problem where, obviously, there isn't one. If it's right for you and your boyfriend, why should it matter what others think. Enjoy your relationship that works for you!
2007-08-28 01:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There must be some reasons why this is happening. Have you look for answers ? A man 51 is not that old.He should still be enjoying sex. It's not because of his age,there are many health reason while he would be feeling this way..There are plenty of products on the market that can help. I suggest he see a doctor. Companionship in a relationship is important but you are missing out on a fulfilling sex life.
2007-08-28 09:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Problem. You are just coming into sexual maturity and he is way, way past it. I married an older man and altho I'd like to think I'm smart and mature, he liked to treat me like I was young and dumb. That started after the I dos. I know that people say that as you get older, there isn't as much difference in the ages but, speaking from experience, there is. He turned into an old fogey and while it was nice for awhile, I really got bored. He was always slow and tired and I was always waiting for him. It only got worse as the years passed. He could sit and drink coffee all day and just waste an entire day and still be sitting there. Now that I am the age he was, I can just sit here all day, typing away and drinking coffee. Here's my best opinion-at 38 you need to be dating a younger guy. Women are much younger at 38 than men are so you don't need an older guy. Time is marching on for you and you are settling for comfortable. Be sure that is what you want and that you will want it forever.
2007-08-28 08:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why would there be a problem? According to whom? Specially if you two are happy???
People know what they need, and it's not anybody else's business to dictate what should happen in someone's bedroom, let alone a couple's!
You're old enough to know your own mind and what works for you. So, if you are not into sex big time and neither is your partner then fine!!
I guess that you haven't reached 38 without having a taste of what it could be like if you were really into it.
Honestly, you're old enough to make your own decision on your own!!!
2007-08-28 08:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I was 28 and married a 43 year old, and 3 years into the marriage he lost all interest in sex. Be prepared to buy stock in batteries.
2007-08-28 09:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both love each other, it dosent matter, im sure you both are mature enough to understand. It is common these days for couples with big age gap. So it shouldnt be a problem.
2007-08-28 08:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Eslaena G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Too many people base their relationships on sex. It's refreshing to hear about somebody whose main goal in life is not sex.
2007-08-28 09:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beth if you're both happy with the relationship and what you share between you, then I don't see any issue. Be happy to be loved and cared about, and return it.
Hugs from Minnesota
2007-08-28 08:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem at all if you both agree and are happy with that. Older men are better. Good luck.
2007-08-28 08:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Abigail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,because true love is a true love and does not depend on the age difference no matter what
2007-08-28 08:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by HUMAID FOX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋