Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

so, i know my parents are going through a tough time. my dad's job is on strike and my mom is med. disabled. income is low, and my dad's parttime job isn't cutting it. they can't pay the bills (and won't let me send money) and try as they might they can't sell their house. i know they're going under, but my mom takes it out on me. every time i call with good news she seems to care very little. and when i ask her about it she throws up in my face that she's obviously not in a happy mood with everything that is going on. i feel bad for my parents but if they don't let me do anything how can my mom keep yelling at me about things i can't control? i just feel like not calling anymore because all of our conversations end in an argument. she's even started calling me stupid! mind you i'm a college student and an armed forces veteran. i don't percieve myself as being stupid, and i'm sure most others wouldn't. i'm just at my ropes end and don't know what to do anymore.

2007-08-28 07:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by User Name 5 in Family

so a while back i bought my fiance and i a 12 pack box of condoms. my fiance HATES condoms, but we had to use them because i was switching birth control and wanted to be sure we wouldn't get pregnant.

anyway, we only used about 3 or 4. i looked in the box this morning and there's only 4 left.

i keep telling myself that he hasn't cheated on me....he's not that type of guy and he would NEVER do that to me. he's very big on trust. but what else could it be?? how else could those condoms have gone??


p.s. i AM going to talk to him about it today whenever i get a chance. it's just kinda driving me crazy. there has to be some other explanation, but i can't think of any.

2007-08-28 06:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by Kristabella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone in a relationship where you know that this person is right for you, your soul mate. But the Sex is a C- grade. I mean she is the woman I want to Marry...

2007-08-28 06:52:27 · 26 answers · asked by Take G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have booked a cruise for my girlfriend, me, her parents, and her brother and am planning on asking her to marry me in front of them all. After i get her parents permission of course. We have been dating for over 4 years now and it is time. I need some ideas on how to ask her. please help

2007-08-28 06:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

date- sex- marriage- sponsor +work harder- find out about cheating on you- divorce- give her everything- find real women out of USA

2007-08-28 06:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 06:50:09 · 2 answers · asked by Desert Sienna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i think it would

less wars for one

2007-08-28 06:49:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Between
Known-Acquaintance
Friend-Buddy
Buddy-Intimate
Intimate-Fiancé(e)
Fiancé(e)-Marriage

2007-08-28 06:48:13 · 1 answers · asked by Cranberrydude 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 06:46:34 · 3 answers · asked by Desert Sienna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this has made me very upset

2007-08-28 06:45:47 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole H 1 in Friends

2007-08-28 06:45:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 06:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by kick it 5 in Friends

My husband and I are trying to spend more QUALITY time together. We are looking for more unique things to do than just the typical night out to dinner and movies. We want to keep it semi cheap, (with the winter close approaching we have to consider the heating bill) but we also want to have fun!! Any suggestions.....?

2007-08-28 06:43:06 · 10 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A MOMMY 3 in Marriage & Divorce

had quite a time on my watch, haven't you?" What does it mean when a husband has "quite a time" on his wife's watch?

2007-08-28 06:43:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys, when you're in the middle of having sex what can or does a woman do that just drives you over the edge?

2007-08-28 06:41:58 · 1 answers · asked by Meichelle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know everyone has their thoughts on what's sexy. Does the thought of her leaving her heels on do it for you?

2007-08-28 06:41:19 · 31 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

So it really bothered me because she was suppose to be in the wedding. She is not happy at all instead she went into a drinking depression. I feel bad for here. I don't know what to do? Can you give me some advice. Now she says she didn't call because she was drunk and didn't want to bother me on the day, but everyone else called asked how it happened and what does the ring look like?

2007-08-28 06:35:36 · 21 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

2007-08-28 06:35:08 · 1 answers · asked by DWay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am new to this board. This one I fell really hard for, he says he has feelings for me but with everything going on in his life, he just can't give me the relationship that I deserve or should have. Wants me to still be his friend and still see each other, and talk on the phone. What he doesn't realize is that everytime I see it just about kills me. What do I do should I just chalk it up to lession learned, or should I give time and space to get his life straight (going through a divorce with two small children) and be patient. I am so confused. He says he doesn't want me out of his life just can't give me 100% right now.

2007-08-28 06:34:19 · 12 answers · asked by alwaysbroken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel as though my husband is terribly insensitive and doesn't understand any of the words coming out of my mouth. The ironic thing is that he feels the same way about me. We can't communicate without arguing and never see the other person's side. We are going to begin counseling soon (it takes a while to get an appointment), however what can we do in the mean time to help?

2007-08-28 06:33:47 · 19 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I sharred an apartment then we got into a fight and she took her stuff and left and after talkin a little it we came to a conclusion sayin we were done. Well a day later i brought a girl home just to watch movies and stuff and stayed up all night with no kissing or sex whatsoever. Well later on in that same day me and my ex were talking and came to an agreement sayin that we didn't break up at all. So i'm wondering would that be considered cheatin or because of the circumstances it's not?

2007-08-28 06:24:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...my dad hasn't been in my life growing up nor the rest of my siblings. Since my sister is 9 years older than me he treats her like a freaking queen in terms of buying everything for her. In short, to explain how he is, he has told my oldest sister that if he could do it all over again he wouldn't have kids, he has come into her work with me there and not seeing me for a year and walks right past me, but explaining later that he doesn't know what to say to me so he'd rather not say anything. He is very pyshco ( he'll call the family seprately trying to figure out what everyone is doing to see if he can catch someone in going to a party). See my mom lets him come to family functions: parties, christmas, etc...but us kids don't care if he comes because he is, seriously, pyscho. He just does random things that you wouldn't think a stable person would do....So anyways moving on to my question: (wait I have to go to add more details..)

2007-08-28 06:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i was a kid i knew things that a 8 year old shouldnt know i knew what sex meant,when i was 11 my sis told me that my father had a another son before he got married to mom (he didnt marry the other women he just had sex),when i was 6 i saw my father and mom fight hit each other,then my mom and sis used to fight my sis used to hit my mom and mom wouldnt hit back because she didnt want to i used see them fight and i cryed but i couldnt do anything,my father was an abusive man i hated him very much but he changed a bit after that but i couldnt think of a way to forgive him whenever i thought of forgiving him i remembered the another child the fights the way he treated my mom and sis mom siad that dad scolded sis for throwing a tennis ball in the neighbours yard that too in front of my whole family my uncles my aunts

this memories keep coming back again and again i stop think about itm helpp me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-28 06:16:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 45 and my boyfriend is 31 and very mature for his age. He is a teacher and a musician he is everything that i want in a man, but i can't help but think that one day he will realize that i am too old for him.

2007-08-28 06:14:16 · 51 answers · asked by lightbrownsuga2002 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 06:12:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the bride. My parents haven't offered any financial help. I guess I will have to ask them if they are planning to help? Any ideas of how to do this? I am prepared for either answer from them. It is hard to plan without knowing if they will be helping.

2007-08-28 06:11:44 · 20 answers · asked by akira 1 in Weddings

I can never tell

2007-08-28 06:09:22 · 17 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 06:07:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that all the guys I meet just wanna get in my pants, then after we do it, they never call me again. It's happened about 80 times now. What am I doing wrong?

2007-08-28 06:06:00 · 18 answers · asked by Daddys Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I am stuck! We are trying to plan our wedding location but I can't figure out where and how many people to invite. We have a very small budget and we live in Southern California. All of my family except my dad live in Northern California. I really want to just go to Vegas and have something small, fun and affordable. I figure since my close family has to fly here why not Vegas. But I know his parents want to invite certain friends and family. This will cost more for the reception, etc. I guess my question is, how much should you accomodate who parents want to invite? I really don't mind all those people, but I am thinking about money and what I really,really want. I know my fiancee wants to accomodate his parents for respect to them. But I also know he wants something small to. My 2nd choice for a wedding is on the beach, which is very affordable and maybe just a dinner afterwards with a small crowd.

2007-08-28 06:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings