Anyone in a relationship where you know that this person is right for you, your soul mate. But the Sex is a C- grade. I mean she is the woman I want to Marry...
2007-08-28 06:52:27 · 26 answers · asked by Take G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't base a great relationship solely on sex....sex isnt everything.People who say otherwise are in for a big surprise as they mature.
When the sex tapers off...you will have a much more meaningful relationship [from the heart]to cherish.
Marry her :)
2007-08-28 06:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty? 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Well, there are some things I would need to know. Like how long have you two been dating. My fiance and I have great sex now, but when we first started dating I was like a dead fish!!!! I was embarrased a little, have no idea why. I wouldn't make a peep, the light's were always off, and it took me 2 1/2 years before I let him see me totally naked. What I am trying to say is it takes time. She will get more and more comfortable. If you guys have been dating a long time and it is still the same then you might have to get used to it or end it. Your last choice is talk to her about it. Let her know what you like and ask her what she likes. Tell her when she does something that feels good and ask her to keep doing it. Make sure she opens up too. Good luck.
2007-08-28 14:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by lovely_kelly2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you say that the person is your soul mate how can you grade their sex with you when you are with a person sexually the hole experience is based on mood an how you fell about that person so if you heighten the mood more then likely your hole sex life will change so try something different for a change an after all that you an your partner will enjoy it more.
2007-08-28 14:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in one for 34 years I married my soul mate...Great sex doesn't just happen over night you have to work at it. Talk about it find out what she likes or dislikes and you be open and do the same. You may be surprised how much talking will help...
2007-08-28 14:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a sex therapist or you need to go to a neutral place not your home. Maybe a secluded park and have a heart to heart. Tell her that he is your soul mate and you love him but your sexual needs are not being met. If he truly loves you he will learn and step it up. I am not necessarily in favor of pornos but he could learn from some sex guides, romance videos and so forth.
Talk to her of what you really like, want and need. Lingere, dance club, romantic get aways, etc. It could be something that your not doing as well. Communication is so important.
2007-08-28 14:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My soul mate husband and I have out of body experience type sex.... If this isn't an important part of your life then marry her, over time it will get even less good than it is now...remember that if you marry her, that someone warned you ahead of time (me) that you will be missing out on great sex for the rest of your life and you have chosen to live that way.
2007-08-28 13:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is a c- in your opinion, then she is not your soul mate. The person that you love more than anyone in the world, the person you will love forever, the person that will be there no matter what, is the person whose touch is so soft and powerful she make you feel like a tremor just hit you.
2007-08-28 14:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes true intimacy grows from really getting to know the person...are you certain she is not also grading you as a c- ? The best way to get what you want is to remember this old adage....you teach others how to treat you. Maybe you concentrating on being more of what you want from her will awaken the same in her! Worth a try right?
2007-08-28 14:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is going to tell you that sex isn't everything, but believe me, if the sex is not good it will lead to problems in the relationship down the line. I would seriously consider my options in a situation like this.
2007-08-28 13:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I"m in one like this. My GF of 5 years is great. W have so much fun together, but we just can't get things right in the bedroom. We only do it about once a month, and we both want it more than that, but we both know that even if we do it, it wont make us happy, because we just can't please each other. Someday it might be the death of us, but until then, we're haveing a great time togethter.
2007-08-28 13:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by workin man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I found give more get more. Ask your self how creative am I? How playful am I?.How spontaneous am I? You don't need to say anything to your partner, just start doing things yourself differantly. Be bolder. I think your partner will follow suite, but give yourself 3 or so months before you expect to see results on the other end. If you see no results then talk about it. But for now be spontaneous, silly, and HAVE FUN. .
2007-08-28 14:02:53 · answer #11 · answered by Brenna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋