this has made me very upset
2007-08-28 06:45:47 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is called growing up.......when i started to date my husband my friends went onto the back burner until i got him right where i wanted him to be........you already know that your friends are good friends but you really dont know yet if this man is a good man until you spend time with him.......so its called jealousy that you are going through but be a good friend and it will pass over time.
2007-08-28 06:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well it depends on how often and why she's doing it. I had a gf in college that before graduation started to ditch her friends to hang out with me more often. She told them that is was because we "were starting on the road to a life long relatonship". Now at the time yes I thought she and I would be together forever. So her ditching her friends for me upset not only her friends but me as well. All her friends I should add wouldn't be graduating with us and were going to be on the other side of the state where we live. So I thought she should spend more time with them because she wouldn't be able to see them every day.
I guess you could say the moral of the story is find out her reasons and go from there.
2007-08-28 06:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it continuously occurs that way. I misplaced my superb buddy because of the fact of a girl. It wasn't the girls fault, she had continuously instructed him to call me, or flow draw close out with me, she only became the midsection of his international. i became the wonderful guy in his wedding ceremony, and have not talked to him in very just about a three hundred and sixty 5 days. I call approximately 2 to 3 circumstances a month, just to assert I attempt, yet i understand he won't answer. i do no longer understand why I call, i do no longer understand what i'd confer with him approximately. Now I actual have some associates who're married, engaged, stay with their different, and that i nonetheless get an prolonged with them large, yet some human beings do only no longer comprehend the magnitude of friendships, and those human beings, i think sorry for. I won't end speaking to you any much less
2016-12-12 13:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL women do this. Then they're suprised when they:
1. Don't have any friends who can serve as bridesmaids.
2. Invite co-workers that they barely know to serve as bridesmaids.
3. Get pissed off when those "friends" don't want their lives to revolve around her stupid wedding.
4. End up losing even those marginal friends before or after the wedding.
Guys are like dogs in a lot ways. One of them is loyalty to their friends.
2007-08-28 11:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kirk S 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If it continues to happen on a regular than sit down with her and explain that she is friend that means something to you, that you can see you guys falling apart - and that's not something you want. From there, if she decides to still be around him and not spend time with you, then you know she doesn't value friendship and you shouldn't be wasting ur time on some1 who doesn't care about you anyway! Find a new friend or a guy to keep you entertained in the inbetween! Good luck!
2007-08-28 06:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't take ur anger out on her...it will only push her away from you and more towards her boyfriend. her bf will more than likely be her top priority, and as her friend u need to accept that and be there for her. granted, it's not cool for her to continue ditching u, so if it continues, let her know that u don't appreciate it. tell her that u understand her wanting to spend time with her bf, but it's not right for her to constantly ditch u.
2007-08-28 06:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kristabella 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to continue to be nice and remember her actions. She doesn't value your friendship over the boyfriend. This will change when the breakup. Then she will be back. What you need to do is just be nice but find yourself another new best friend. She isn't really your best friend. At least, in her mind. A good thing to remember that my grandma told me is:
A good boyfriend is easy to find but a good girl friend is hard to find.
2007-08-28 06:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Julie H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to do. If you two make plans, and she ditches you for her boyfriend, next time tell her you won't make plans with her because you can't trust her to keep them. If she gets mad, oh well.
2007-08-28 06:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up. It happens so often, that it really doesnt matter. People get to a point to where their need to pair off is greater then their need for the complacent. Dont take it serious and enjoy your OWN life! You may just do the same one day.
2007-08-28 06:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone you have to find a way to be her friend and also allow her to have her boyfriend. Maybe just tell her how you feel.
2007-08-28 06:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by jeff_andrews99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋