Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

We broke up two days ago. He stilll loves me and we still communicate with each other...It wasn't really on bad terms. I think some of it was contributed to my actions while around him. I think he got tired of the ways that I behaved. I had made changes before the break up but we had a arguement and that is when he broke it off...I am willing to make changes because those changes will be good for me, rather or not he and I get back together..but I love him and am willing to do what it takes to have a successful relationship with him. Should I give him some time or should I still communicate with him so that he can see the changes I have made in my life?

2007-08-28 04:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by amack00 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 04:35:15 · 21 answers · asked by Ryan I 1 in Singles & Dating

wot if you were one of the last people on Earth, who would you want for company, and where would you be?

2007-08-28 04:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by lostworldforever 1 in Singles & Dating

i always feel uneasy around lots of people, i just listen to my ipod and keep myself to myself, i wasnt aware i looked mean, if i tell him he would laugh. any tips to apear more approachable??

2007-08-28 04:29:43 · 20 answers · asked by pink 2 in Friends

ok my boyfriend and I talked ok on saturday, but on sunday he didn't call me at all I would call him up and all i would was the ringing thing ok then I called him back at 11 at night and I would just get his voicemail yesterday called him and heard ringing he got me a cell phone and it was working till yesterday at 8 he suspended it....I don't know if that counts as canceling....because if he did wouldn't it say "sorry but this number is not a working number?" well I was worried so I talked to his cuz and his mom, but they wouldn't get a reach of him...i called his mom and she answered her house phone and asked her if she know's whats up with him she kinda sounded like if she did know, but she told me not worry he will come around he needs to cool off....oh and before all of this on sunday he always plays baseball and this past sunday there was no game at all....so I don't know what to think he just stoped calling me..didn't brake up didn't give me any reasons!!! What should I think??

2007-08-28 04:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad lives in riggings but while he comes here to visit me he usualy goes out and partys and gets wasted and stays the night there...I don't think he even cares about me i think he just comes here to stay the night.....I am 10 years old

2007-08-28 04:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-28 04:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to date this girl, she was super uber hot, but then dumped all of a sudden. Everybody says i was too nice to her. Then I received advice from a player-pimp-womanizer type of guy, he told me If i treat a girl like crap, she will love me for it. IT REALLY WORKS!!!! :) Im dating a super hot hot girl now, I answer her calls when i want to, i yell at for no reason, but i will never lay a hand on her, cuz shes mah baby. Basically im an ****** to her, but she keeps coming back for more loving. Lol women can be dumb sometimes, and yes i have come to believe that nice guys do finish last. So i am just askin if this advice works out there for you guys?

2007-08-28 04:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by xcuriousjorgex 1 in Singles & Dating

What's even more strange is that my bf had a dream of his past. A girl was trying to take him away from me, and he kept saying no.

In my dream his xgf (who used to be a best friend of mine) took him away from me.

I keep having dreams like this. She'll be kissing him in front of me and he's willingly kissing her back. I'll push her away and hold on to him and he's like a rag doll he won't do anything to hold her back.

Why am I dreaming about the past?
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Lemme provide you with a little history. I've known my boyfriend 8 years. He and I went out for a few months in high school and we broke up when I went off to college. My best friend went out with him after me.

Now 5 years later, he's out of the Army. We've been together 3 months now. We're inseperable, always spending time with one another. Let's just say we are very much apart of each other's lives, and plan to get married in the next year.

2007-08-28 04:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for 5 years and we were supposed to talk about how our relationship needs to be improved and he completely stopped talking to me, this has never happened before. I used to not pick up for him for weeks when I was mad at him, but he's never done this to me. We had plans to talk on Wednesday so it has been a week since we talked. I called him 4 times throughout the week and I left a message asking him to call me back on Sunday. He still hasn't. Do you think he's over me?

2007-08-28 04:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by JTOdapizzLE 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm the last to know that my boyfriends has been cheating on me, his parents knew all long.should i tell them they have also disrespected me?

2007-08-28 04:17:06 · 16 answers · asked by redbutterflyliz 2 in Family

i need help....my grandma is in the hosipatal and she's 10% out of 100% that she'll make it...she has a infection in one of her kindneys and lunG AND also her knee....bt before that she had problems wit her heart!! i really dont kno wat to do im scared of losing her i lov her so much....im afraid if sum thing did happen ill do sum thing stupid!!! i wish for god not to take my only grandma i got...she means the whole world to me....
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2007-08-28 04:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by boobshley 1 in Family

2007-08-28 04:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by mitch m 1 in Singles & Dating

I try so hard to make my marriage work, read my other posts thats proof. The thing is when my husband and I are happy we are happy. that is until he doesn't get his way. I work full time and attend school full time. He works one full-time job thats is "Come-in as you please" based. Saturdays I get b*tched at for sleeping in. Sometimes during the week he will go through a half-as* cleaning frenzy and kind of push around the dirt. I come home at 10 be with my daughter, CLEAN my house, do laundry and occasionally cook dinner. Everything we do is on his terms. Even when we fight. Its always his fault and he will come apologizing telling me he is so stupid and sorry. But besides the fact that he keeps apologizing its reoccuring, ALL THE TIME, he says mean things when we fight and I get worked up. he's told me he pushes my buttons on purpose. (Wait for additonal details please)

2007-08-28 04:13:25 · 21 answers · asked by jmalin04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey Ive liked this gal for the past 4 years we have been good friends but we just tease each other alot as in hell alot and she likes stepping on my toes......
then i played truth or dare and found out she likes some chinese named bastard but have nt met him for like 2 years and running.......
I dont know what to do.... somtimes she come over on mons and fris and im going to join her tennis lessons on sats....
i realy like her... i tried to get over it but i just cant!!
She invites me over to her birthday every year and starting from this im gonna invite her EVERY YEAR!!!
is she the one for me?? or izznt she.... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!
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im losing it.................................

2007-08-28 04:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One that takes more than an hour to drive to?
One that takes more than half an hour to drive to?
One that you cannot see someone on a regular basis?

Just out of curiosity...

2007-08-28 04:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that goes to a different school than me. He gets bullied terribly! People call him names, and tease him. One girl on his bus hit him with a glass pop bottle. She has also put makeup on him, kicked him, and punched him. Others have punched him and kicked him. Other than call him names. He WILL NOT tell anyone or fight back. He sits up front on the bus, but it doesn't help. He is a BIG kid. Not some shrimpy little boy. He is about 6 foot tall, and is big. He has told his mom, but she won't do anything. He won't either. What can he do??? Or what can I do to help?

2007-08-28 04:07:04 · 17 answers · asked by ♪♥♫♥~Misty Shadows~♥♫♥♪ 2 in Friends

And I mean really over, not just when you started dating again, because that doesn't mean you're over it.Just when you got over the person who you've had the most meaningful relationship with to the point where it didn't affect you and you really thought to yourself 'Wow, it is better now."

2007-08-28 04:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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amayseng
S How do i reconcile?
i am meeting my wife tonight to talk about the marriage. we have been separated for 10 weeks with no progress, no moving forward, at times we both want to , and at times we are hesitant to try. i have been willing to try, she seems she wants me to put in all the effort without her giving any...asking me for more, but then not allowing me to give her more, just as in the marriage. we separated originally because i asked her to leave, she told me for months i was not in her heart, she couldnt be intimate with me and i tried for three months to work things out...she declined and wouldnt budge, telling me she hated her life and was unhappy ...therefore i told her to leave....any suggestions???

2007-08-28 04:04:00 · 18 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is my teacher flirting with me?!?

1. At school in geography my male teacher opened the door to let us in the room and i was stood with my friends and as we walked in i looked at him and said 'hi' and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and said 'hi' to me, i smiled at him and he smiled back.

2. Me and my friends were stood in the dinner line and my male technology teacher walked past and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and smiled at mme so i smiled back.

I do like them a lot - they are very good teachers, but are they trying to flirt with me or something?!?
What are they trying to mean? Whats happening? lol

I do get along very well with these two teachers and i am very good at those subjects. I am 13 and slightly confused. I would never do anything stupid with them because i know the consiquences and what would happen if i did, so i wouldnt do anything stupid.
Thanks for your help..x

2007-08-28 04:03:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres how it happened. I met my wife-who has 2 kids from previous abusive-type relationships. Everything was great. We moved in together-got married. Slowly but surely her real personality came out. I got called ugly, disgusting, she no longer initiated sex. Even our wedding night-she sat with a calculator counting the money. How romantic. I'm 25, shes 26.
She used to apologize, now, she could care less. She is always depressed and never wants sex. If we have sex-I have to promise her a backrub or something-and its obvoious she's not into it. The verbal abuse gets physical sometimes. I am fed up-my patients for ''the girl who got a raw deal by assholes''is gone, and I see her true colors. I've pulled away from the kids and her. We pretty much sleep seperate. Its still our first year of marriage. I have tried everything. Counseling, patients, romance, housework, more time with the kids. Nothing helps. Also-she was spoiled by her Mom her whole life, still is.

2007-08-28 04:03:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have made dr appt.s for him but he want go

2007-08-28 04:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son had 2 cavities. I took him to my dentist and as soon and as he got in the room they strapped him to a papoose board and 4 ppl worked on his mouth. No one tried to comfort him. They just held him down with the papoose board which looks basically like a strait jacket. It made his arms and legs immobile and his head was between two boards. When we left he was hysterical. His lips were bruised & he cried in his sleep that night. I did not sign any consent form. I decided I was not taking him back to get the other cavity filled there. So I began calling other pediatric dentist and found out they all use the papoose boards. Well atleast the ones that accept my insurance. A friend of mine recommended www.smiles4keeps.com but they use the board too. I think maybe they would be a little more compassionate since they are geared towards kids and the other dentist wasn't, but honestly I don't want to take him anywhere. Should I take him the the new dentist? What do you think of their site?

2007-08-28 04:02:26 · 10 answers · asked by tjshoney4ever 1 in Family

I am married ... a few months ago I was at a family party. My moms boss kissed me and I kissed him back.... My hubby does not know. Since the kids are going back to school I needed a job and hubby suggested that I work where mom worked because they would give me the best hours and money. I couldn't say no cause i'd have to tell him what happened. I am happily married mind you. It was just a kiss and not a long one at that.
I start this job on tuesday and I don't know what to do. I am attracted to the boss but I am married. How do I not recreate the kiss? I did not come on to him, i swear!
There were a bunch of us playing a game, no just me and him till we seemed to leave at the same time. Hubby had already took the kids home. He came up to my truck and leaned in and kissed me. I kissed back and left. HELP

2007-08-28 04:01:59 · 24 answers · asked by avon guru 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you love your family or do you just pretend for others

2007-08-28 04:01:59 · 1 answers · asked by colb08 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I’ve liked this girl for some time now, and it was recently her birthday and I went beyond what normal people would do (like write on her myspace blog) and I sent her an ecard. She wished me happy bday 3 times (text/wall/free gift) so I thought this would be okay. I haven’t told her directly I like her but she did tell me few months ago that she just wanted to hang out as friends, but even then I sometimes got the feeling she may be interested, even a tad…or it was friendly. I rarely see her.

I sent her a great ecard for birthday last week but I haven’t heard from her, and I think she is ignoring me now due to this action. I heard actions speak louder than words, is it real bad that she knows that I most likely like her now? Some people tell me if she never knows you may regret it later. Thanks.

Ps we went 1 month without talking before her birthday so its not like I’m ‘chasing’ her like I’m obsessed, I’m just attracted to her personality.

2007-08-28 03:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do other husbands out there feel about being sandwiched between a possessive wife and a sister (single 45yroldmaid). my wife does not like my sister to call me every day and details her daily events to me. she doesnt approve of my financing her although she is self-sufficient. any advice? any one else has any similar stories to share?

2007-08-28 03:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by noelle12345 1 in Family

2007-08-28 03:53:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i found 7 texts on my husbands phone, in his sentbox, they were basically rude texts to another woman, saying what he cant wait to do her, etc etc. he says he hasnt slept with her, he was going to but he backed out at the last minute (more like she did), anyway the question im asking is? do i believe him and or forgive him?

2007-08-28 03:52:51 · 63 answers · asked by Ottilie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy but he lives like two states away from me. I think about an 8hr car ride away from where I live. I don't have his e-mail (I want it) and I only get to see him once a year? But I want his e-mail now! Will I have to wait?

2007-08-28 03:52:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating