I’ve liked this girl for some time now, and it was recently her birthday and I went beyond what normal people would do (like write on her myspace blog) and I sent her an ecard. She wished me happy bday 3 times (text/wall/free gift) so I thought this would be okay. I haven’t told her directly I like her but she did tell me few months ago that she just wanted to hang out as friends, but even then I sometimes got the feeling she may be interested, even a tad…or it was friendly. I rarely see her.
I sent her a great ecard for birthday last week but I haven’t heard from her, and I think she is ignoring me now due to this action. I heard actions speak louder than words, is it real bad that she knows that I most likely like her now? Some people tell me if she never knows you may regret it later. Thanks.
Ps we went 1 month without talking before her birthday so its not like I’m ‘chasing’ her like I’m obsessed, I’m just attracted to her personality.
2007-08-28 03:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not bad.
2007-08-28 04:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be fine. Just give her some space. Maybe she is finally coming to the realization that you do like her and she probably needs time to sink that information in. IMHO, I dont think you went beyond what you should. I would have gone overboard on the other hand - mail out a an actual card, get her an actual gift AND maybe taken her out to eat and what not...
But take it easy - if she has already indicated that she just wants to hang out as friends, well thats where you should start. You start slow and work your way up.
2007-08-28 04:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by localdeejay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you be scared if someone who didn't talk to you for a month suddenly lavished you? I'd be scared, and I'd want to know why. But to answer your question, I don't see anything you did as wrong; though you lavished her (which is not good), it was all in a friendly way. And it's not wrong for her to know you like her (and yes, she probably does know), as long as she knows you aren't acting on it by trying to make moves on her or something. Sounds to me like she is only interested in you as a friend. But if she ever likes you, it is up to her to tell you because you've already tried reaching out to her and she gave a negative. Good luck and God bless.
2007-08-28 04:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that she is ignoring you because u sent her an e card. people send other people birthday cards all the time. maybe she just needs some time. or maybe she doesn't take interest in you but she doesn't want to tell you she wants to ignore you as a way of showing you. but maybe you should ask her if shes ignoring you.
2007-08-28 04:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be really busy.. if you havent talked to her in about a month its probably why she didnt respond right away. Try waiting about a week and then sending her an email or something just saying hi, havent chatted in a while, just writing to see how your doing... ect...
2007-08-28 04:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should pick up the phone and call her. I don't respond to men when they email or text me. I think it's weak. If a guy wants to ask out a woman and he has her phone number he should be a man and call her. If he has my phone number and starts texting me right away, I'm done before it has even began. Just be a man and ask her out already either to her face or pick up the phone and call. Say he do you want to meet for coffee on this day at this time and place. Done and done. Simple and easy.
2007-08-28 04:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you really like her, you can do better than this...like sending ecards for a few times isn't sincere enough to get girl's attention. Good luck.
2007-08-28 04:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Back in the day" we used to actually TALK to people we liked! Imagine that....maybe you should call her or see her face to face, try to "personalize" the meeting by actually doing it in person instead of electronically....you may be amazed at the response!
2007-08-28 04:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by american_woman37 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you should just call her and ask her out to a movie or to dinner... and maybe then tell her how you feel. You dont want to miss out not telling her your feeling you will def regret it believe me i know
2007-08-28 04:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by CantonMommy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She probably knows but is choosing not to say anything.
2007-08-28 04:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by swimmergrl95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push it it sounds like she doesn't feel the same way. don't make things awkward.
2007-08-28 04:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋