i'm the last to know that my boyfriends has been cheating on me, his parents knew all long.should i tell them they have also disrespected me?
2007-08-28 04:17:06 · 16 answers · asked by redbutterflyliz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nope you are soo much better then those people let that dude go! He is a looser and where do you think he gets it from ~ exactley his looser parents
2007-08-28 04:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by CantonMommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At first time, the relation is between you and your boyfriend or x-boyfriend. Please dont include parents because its your life and your boyfriend``s life and the relation is yours. You both have the last and ultimate decision about things concerning just you both. Now, its just an advice. I dont know if you loved or love him still but I tell you something. You, as the moment you came here into the world, and more as a woman, you have the obligation to respect yourself and not let other people disrespect your person. When you love someone, you give everything because you want to, you really wish to, `cos you love. If he did this, he doesnt love you, it is hard and cruel but it is true. It`s better that you knew this now and not in the future. I`m sure you will find a guy that will love you and you will give into account because he will respect you every way you see, think, eat, breath and..are.
2007-08-28 11:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by woman whipped 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter? you left the cheating boyfriend right? if not your going to be in for a big suprise when he does it again. guys dont change once a cheater always a cheater and no woman will be able to change this. the only thing that might change this is time. maybe when he gets more mature he will be able to have a monogamous relationship but until then he will not. and you should not waste your time. As far as his parents go they did what they should have. While it is wrong for someone to cheat on someone else. family is family and they should stick together. I know that if MY parents were to go against me and tell my girlfriend something that I didnt want them to I would be very angry and this could cause issues with the family. and im sure my girlfriend would feel the same. you do not go against the family EVER. because family is the one thing that will always be there. friends will come and go. relationships definately will. but your family is always there.
2007-08-28 12:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lorena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Personally i think u should tell them how u feel because i think that was very slack and rude of them and also disrespectful.
I may only be 16 but i know it must be bad to be in a situation like that.
I think the best thing to do is tell them exactly how u feel with all due respect.
p.s I'm sorry
2007-08-28 13:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by akelia ordained 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend's parents didn't disrespect you. They stood by their son and let him make his own choices. Your best bet is to drop it and find a guy that will treat you better.
2007-08-28 11:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Heather C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. They have no obligation to you at all. This is a problem with Boyfriend, not his parents. Leave them out of it.
2007-08-28 14:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its isnt their business to get involved and that is probably what they were thinking. They are his parents hun. Not yours. They dont have to say anything to you if they dont want to. o you have any right to displace your anger over your ex's unfaithful ways on them.
2007-08-28 11:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Parents only keep information like that so they don't hurt their precious little A** hole. Parents don't realise that they're hurting the mate because they're too involved with their child's life to care!!
2007-08-28 11:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by str_irvin 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your boyfriend's parents can't control who he sees, and it's virtually none of their business who he cheats on with who.
i stayed out of my kids' personal lives and still do. i am never obligated to tattle tale on my kids....
it has nothing to do with parents respecting a girlfriend or not... it has to do with minding their own business... i let my kids work out their own problems...
2007-08-28 11:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because they knew doesn't mean they are responsible to tell you.
2007-08-28 11:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋