Hey Ive liked this gal for the past 4 years we have been good friends but we just tease each other alot as in hell alot and she likes stepping on my toes......
then i played truth or dare and found out she likes some chinese named bastard but have nt met him for like 2 years and running.......
I dont know what to do.... somtimes she come over on mons and fris and im going to join her tennis lessons on sats....
i realy like her... i tried to get over it but i just cant!!
She invites me over to her birthday every year and starting from this im gonna invite her EVERY YEAR!!!
is she the one for me?? or izznt she.... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!
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im losing it.................................
2007-08-28 04:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After four years if things haven't progressed any farther than friends then that's all it will ever be. Enjoy her friendship and look for another girl to date.
Good luck.
2007-08-28 04:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by my2centsworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude looks like you have already lost it! She likes someone else and unfortunately you cannot make her like you. She is the only one that can sort her feelings out and decide who she wants to be with. Just accept the fact that she likes someone else and continue being her friend. You could also just tell her how you feel. She may not know that you like her so you should tell her. Sometimes people think that a friendship cannot cross over into a relationship so you should tell her how you feel and see how she reacts.
2007-08-28 04:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i gots the same problem and im leaving it she is a friend and i dont want to mess up this good friendship i have we can talk about anything we can share a bed andnot do anything but we are really good friends we both love each other and told each other but we have both done it in the past with other friends and screwed it up and dont speak to them now so my advice is just be the best of friends dont go for it!you could cock up an amazing friendship with the one person who would never try to let you down when its over then you would of lost it all just for a snog and a leg over its not worth doing it
2007-08-28 04:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean and tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy. If she likes you More than a friend congrats. If she only sees you as a friend accept it and move on. Try to spend a bit less time with her then and go out with other girls.
2007-08-28 04:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her are you kidding me if nothing has happeded yet its too late. Now you are just too good of a friend to her to be taken seriously and she looks at you like a brother. However if you must have her, explain to her how you feel so she at least knows that you have feelings for her in that way.
2007-08-28 04:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by C-Bus Topcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you obviously have feelings for her, have you ever considered telling her. you've known this girl for a long time and the fact that you torture yourself around her it only making the matter worse. since your friends, tell her that you like her and wonder if she ever has had the same feelings. if not, unfortunatley there isn't much you can do about it.
2007-08-28 04:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by celestial316 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one judging by your comment "Chinese named bastard": you sound like a racist... therefore I'm not helping you.. in fact if I knew this girl I would warn her away from you.
2007-08-28 04:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by umannjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the first thing you might want to do is settle down? take a deep breath.
if you like this girl, then call her and ASK HER OUT...
i can't think of anything more direct.
2007-08-28 04:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man this is all about you!
Ask her out! Don't wait until she gets married or something! Go for it!
2007-08-28 04:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told her your feelings about her
maybe she is scared that the friendship will be lost if something happens between the two of you
2007-08-28 04:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋