Is my teacher flirting with me...could he like me?!?

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Is my teacher flirting with me?!?

1. At school in geography my male teacher opened the door to let us in the room and i was stood with my friends and as we walked in i looked at him and said 'hi' and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and said 'hi' to me, i smiled at him and he smiled back.

2. Me and my friends were stood in the dinner line and my male technology teacher walked past and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and smiled at mme so i smiled back.

I do like them a lot - they are very good teachers, but are they trying to flirt with me or something?!?
What are they trying to mean? Whats happening? lol

I do get along very well with these two teachers and i am very good at those subjects. I am 13 and slightly confused. I would never do anything stupid with them because i know the consiquences and what would happen if i did, so i wouldnt do anything stupid.
Thanks for your help..x

Answer 1

haha i love it. ive been there, we have a secret wish that they fancy us..
well think about it this way. hes slept with a whole lotta people his own age, throughout uni and all of his life that u have not even begun to experience yet.
he would never lose his job that hes worked so long and hard for when he could have regular meaningless sex on the outside world where he wouldnt be having sexual relations with a minor.
and lastly think about all the other girls that they probably have the same connection with but in higher years. the older you get the closer to ur teachers u get so theyre bound to have more winks than u do.
i think all men like to be the older cool guy but i think this only goes 2years their junior when theyre in yr13 dating a yr11 still in uniform and they think theyre cool cos they have a car.
we all wish it so just have a harmless flirt if it makes u feel good but dearey you have to be realistic, unless their sexual prefences are young girls then u dont have a hope in hell that they even think about u beyond that wink!

Answer 2

Yes, those teachers like you...so what?
Maybe you're a very likable person and there is nothing wrong with that since they must also sense that you like them a lot, as you said, so it's reciprocal.

A wink is just a wink.
In some countries, like in France, a guy winking at a girl means he's flirting but in USA (if you are in USA), a wink is more innocent and just means the person likes you because you're nice and those teachers are enjoying teaching you because you're a good student.

Now, the only problem I see here is that you are slightly confused...and what you're feeling should be addressed. Either accept their winking as their way to let you know they are enjoying being your teachers or if you cannot get over your confusion, just let them know how you feel and that it makes you uncomfortable so they will surely stop doing that because I'm sure they do not want to confuse you.

And of course, just to be safe, listen to your instincts and if things go farther than that, then your suspicion might be right and then you should talk to someone about it (parents, counselor...)

Answer 3

They are not flirting with you. They may be giving you more attention because they believe that you are good in their subject area and want you to continue on in it. Or they just took a liking to you, teachers do that. A wink does not always mean that a person likes you, sometimes it means or things like perhaps you share a secret or it's a secret way of saying hello.
Bottom line is that they are not flirting with you. If they were they are doing something highly inappropriate. If it goes any farther, such as any sexual talk or touching tell your parents or an adult immediately.

Answer 4

They should be professional too you at all times.
But remember your age. Are you doing anything inappropriate? Even if you are dressed the wrong way shouldn't get that type of attention. Talk to your family and let them know how you feel. Be careful of accusing an adult or teacher of inappropriate behavior. It could hurt their career and damage your reputation. The could just be friendly. The winking part they shouldn't do because it can confuse you to think they like you. It could send a wrong sexual message.

Answer 5

Teachers do that all the time. They are not flirting even though when you are young it seems like they are. They are adults and dont even think of a wink as flirting anymore, they do it to get a smile and to be friendly. Dont read too much into actions of adults or you will drive yourself crazy.

Answer 6

These teachers are not flirting with you, sweetheart. Some men are just naturally charming and sweet, and they are probably just being themselves. However, make sure you protect yourself from any type of harm or abuse (from any males) by keeping your distance. Don't let anyone invade your personal space or your privacy. You need the next few years to mature and grow into the lovely young woman you will be. Take care and may God bless you.

Answer 7

Despite all the answer which you receive that answer only you have, because I can tell you many things. But coming back with the matter I could tell you that a teacher "loves" all his pupils and maybe he is trying to be friendly or nice with you.

The probability of your teacher may be in love of you is little.

So I can't answer you exactly but keep on living. And as you can see I'm learning English and excuse me the mistakes ( I told you "as you can see" because maybe you've seen the spelling mistakes jejejej)

Greetings and "being in love is beautiful but try not to suffer, only choose .

Answer 8

The chances are that your teachers are just trying to be friendly.

If everybody who said Hi and winked at a schoolchild was seeking to flirt (or worse) with them the place would be crawling with paedophiles.

As for liking you, they probably do. I like my daughter and my granddaughter a great deal and I liked several of my daughters friends when she was at school but I am not seeking to flirt with any of them.

Forget it, you're just imagining things.

Answer 9

Nothing they have done could be called 'flirting'. They were friendly gestures, and not inappropriate advances.

In this age where you hear about teachers and counselors taking advantage of underage students, it is hard for a genuinely friendly adult who works with children to show any type of friendliness or informality.

I would take their actions at face value, and not read much into them at this time.

GL

Answer 10

I don't think they are,i mean its the beginning of d skool year,they are just being nice,i guess.Don't read much into it,else u'll find it wierd 2 learn in class or even stay around.Just keep smiling back and enjoy ur classes.U'r 13,i doubt they're flirting with u.