What's even more strange is that my bf had a dream of his past. A girl was trying to take him away from me, and he kept saying no.
In my dream his xgf (who used to be a best friend of mine) took him away from me.
I keep having dreams like this. She'll be kissing him in front of me and he's willingly kissing her back. I'll push her away and hold on to him and he's like a rag doll he won't do anything to hold her back.
Why am I dreaming about the past?
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Lemme provide you with a little history. I've known my boyfriend 8 years. He and I went out for a few months in high school and we broke up when I went off to college. My best friend went out with him after me.
Now 5 years later, he's out of the Army. We've been together 3 months now. We're inseperable, always spending time with one another. Let's just say we are very much apart of each other's lives, and plan to get married in the next year.
2007-08-28 04:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, why is it that I keep having these dreams, knowing it will never happen?
2007-08-28 04:23:54 · update #1
I talk to my boyfriend about it, and he says he's been having dreams of the past too.
2007-08-28 04:24:48 · update #2
Recently I got an email from my xbestfriend (his xgf's) sister asking me: "is it weird that you're dating my sister's xbf"?
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It's not weird, especially since she's married now and just had a baby. She, for whatever reason won't talk to me.
2007-08-28 04:26:32 · update #3
I've tried everything from trying to talk to her, she won't even speak to me. Yet we both have a myspace and she requests that I add her, yet she never talks to me on there either. It's like she's talking to me through her sister. I have no grudges against her, I don't hate her, I just wish I knew why she's got this huge grudge with me and when she plans to grow up. She's so concerned about me and who I'm dating and always has been that way since high school. Yet she's got a husband, happily married, and a family, so why is she trying to ruin my relationship? The girl has had issues all throughout the years of knowing her. After high school she was gay, then straight, then gay again, and now straight and married. I don't understand her, but I definitely don't hate her.
2007-08-28 04:40:04 · update #4
THE PAST IS A DOOR THAT NEEDS TO BE SHUT IN ORDER FOR A NEW DOOR TO OPEN (THE FUTURE) SO LET GO OF THAT PAST AND YOU'LL BOTH STOP HAVING THOSE DREAMS.
2007-08-28 04:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by DatDrMaHeLuvs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are having these dreams is because you are so focused on your exbestfriend being is exgirlfriend. Because you never buried the hatch with your exbestfriend and made her more so your enemy. I think that you and him need to patch thinsg up with her and be her friend again! if not then just acept each others apologies. No reason to hold a grudge against someone that hasn't done anything to either of you but been your friend and ex girlfriend. I don't know what and why you two are no longer friends but I'm sure it has something to do with your dreams. Because now you are dating her ex you are afraid that she will one day take him back. Maybe he still has feelings for her and he isn't telling you or maybe you are just that insecure about the past. But whatever the situation break the cycle and apologize for being a2ses and try being a friend again to her and see if the dreams will stop. If she is married and just had a baby then I'm sure she is happy in her current relationship so you and your man need to be happy for her and mend the pain that you all have held onto all these years.
2007-08-28 04:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-31 07:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your dreams are trying to tell you something?
Has she been contacting him? Not that he would go back to her (or would he?) And why after 3 months would his ex's sister be calling you. I think I would be doing some investigating of my own & find out what his ex has been up to & if it has anything to do with your BF. Maybe she is trying to make you doubt him so that you will fight over it & break up. All dreams have meanings to us, you need to really go through this dream & find out what it means & why.
2007-08-28 04:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it might be on ur mind which is why u are dreaming about it because it is in ur subconscious.. as long as u two believe in one another and like you said are inseparable so then i am sure that everything will be alright for the two of u.. :) do not worry about it and dont think too much about it also..
do not think about the past and think about the present moment you are in and the future that u are going to b making for yourselves!
2007-08-28 04:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chiv D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i dont know why you are having the dreams..
but i think you are just a little afraid.
dreams are things YOU are thinking in your sleep, and they just turn into dreams.
so you may have been thinking about the ex best friend in your sleep and your boyfriend, and then the dream turned into that.
i wouldnt be too afraid!
hope i helped ♥
2007-08-28 04:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, you have these dreams because of the email you got from his ex's sister. that caused you to start thinking about it and dream about it. Move on with your lives together. dont let this dream interfere with anything.
2007-08-28 04:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by precious_van_1307 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably because that part of your past was a huge part of your life. it will always be in the back of your mind because she was your best friend, and you don't want to lose him...especially to someone you once trusted. don't worry it's totally normal!
2007-08-28 04:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yall want to get back together. And yall think that somethings going to get in the way ev'ry time yall come together.
2007-08-28 04:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
subconscious thoughts come out in dreams... fears and worries... you might not be worried consciously.
take care and continue to have a nice relationship...
2007-08-28 04:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋