2007-08-28 04:35:15 · 21 answers · asked by Ryan I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you wanna cheat? It hurts your original relationship. Try thinking about other ppl and how it would hurt if this happened to you. It doesn't feel good when you're being cheated on.
2007-08-28 04:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
until you stop wanting to cheat do not get into a relationship with anyone. I think that cheaters are the lowest form of scum on the earth, I have been cheated way too many times. If you like messing around with different girls do not make a commitment to one. Take it for what it is. And let the girls know ahead of time you can not be faithful. That way they at least know going into it you will be whoring it up every chance you can.
2007-08-28 11:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way are you cheating? flirting with another on line, phone sex, porn, having sex with someone else? I mean there are many forms of "so called cheating". Maybe you lack self confidence, are you feeling that you aren't completely pleasing your partner so you need to go have a meaningless relationship? Have you tried talking with your partner & letting that person know that there is something lacking in your relationship. Maybe you should have sex in different places exs: outside, in a car, in the woods, a lake, hottub, shower, out in the rain. Be daring & add some spice to your love life then maybe you can keep your little private at home were it belongs.
2007-08-28 11:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can avoid cheating by staying out of relationships. It's obvious you only think of you and not the person you are in a relationship with. Think about the hurt you cause to the ones who you are involved in when they find out or when they get an STD from you. Try to put yourself in their shoes to see if you would like that done to you. It is a selfish act that stems from an overinflated ego. It doesn't add any good to our world. Try to be the best person you can be by adding positive energy to our world. Don't forgot what you reap is what you sow.
2007-08-28 11:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to cheat just don't be with someone in the first place. It's really selfish to keep someone locked down to yourself while your out sleeping with everyone in town. Is what you like to do more important than someone else's feelings? If you were in a relationship that meant anythign at all you probbly wouldn't feel this strong desire to cheat. If you do want to cheat, don't be exclusive, be honest and say you want to see other people or date around, or just tell him your a big fat whore so be prepared.
2007-08-28 11:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem of not being satisfy with one person. You don't want to be committ to one special person. You are hurting yourself and the people that is involved with you. Cheating is only going to get you more deeply in lusting, and when you are really ready to stop cheating, no body is going to want you.
2007-08-28 11:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you being in a relationship is not the way to go. I can understand if you were single and your in the dating scene thats different. But maybe you should stop and think of how hurt the person your involved with would feel if they ever find out. And how about imagining the tables were turned and someone was doing the same thing to you.
2007-08-28 11:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by LadyD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I You think you going to cheat, try to do other active things. There really no actually help for this, but to just stop cheating. You have help yourself. Good LUCK
2007-08-28 11:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are involved in a "committed" relationship, maybe it's time to break up?
there are times in our lives when the best thing we can do is to date around -- and play the field.
there is nothing wrong with dating or seeing more than one person, but you really need to be "up front" about it with those you date or see.... letting people know you're not looking for a committment would be the most honest thing to do.
many people out there date, socialize and spend time with people of the opposite sex, without a committment....
and sometimes we dont' "need" one!
2007-08-28 11:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you like to cheat?
do you feel bored with your girlfriend?
if yes. then its the girlfriend, try to spice it up and do fun activities or whatever you like to do.
cheating isn't good and winds up with noone.
but i can understand.. its fun.
i know what you mean.
but just try not to screw up a relationship if you love someone.
otherwise you might be better for the going out and whatevver game.
and just go out with lots of girls but don't actually be an official couple.
hope i helped ⥠elle..
2007-08-28 11:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋