i need help....my grandma is in the hosipatal and she's 10% out of 100% that she'll make it...she has a infection in one of her kindneys and lunG AND also her knee....bt before that she had problems wit her heart!! i really dont kno wat to do im scared of losing her i lov her so much....im afraid if sum thing did happen ill do sum thing stupid!!! i wish for god not to take my only grandma i got...she means the whole world to me....
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2007-08-28 04:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by boobshley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i know your close to your gradma.. i know you love your grandma.. but someday she will die.. just like you will.. maybe this is her time to die.. maybe she will live... but all you can think... she ends up in a better place where there is no kid napping child abuse... her friends that have died... nothing that is bad down here she will be safe from all her feers... she might be in so much pain she needs to die... hope this helps luv ya
XOXO
2007-08-28 04:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Crying is our way of expressing our grief, which is good. You are not holding it in. I don't know how old your grandmother is right now or how long you have had to enjoy her company, but I would suggest that you be thankful for the time you have had. Some of us (me) have never had grandparents, as they were dead or not interested in knowing their grandchildren.
In life we all have to die once. It is the price we pay for sinning. Since Jesus died for our sins, we will be resurrected to be with him and God. When your grandmother goes, it will not be the last time you see her.
Continue to cry and express your frustration, fear and grief. You will feel better. Oh, and your feelings are normal - we all get frustrated, scared and angry when things don't go our way, especially in cases like this one. In the long run, you will accept whatever happens because you can't change it.
You'll be okay.
2007-08-28 04:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that this is happening, but you have to realize that she is old and sick and when she does pass, she will be in a much better place. Just make sure she knows how much you love her. Spend as much time as you can with her. You dont want to regret that. Pray that she is not in too much pain and that she may go to Heaven. I hope everything works itself out for you! Make her last days on earth good ones!!!
2007-08-28 04:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by justn's~mudgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to breath and realize that sometimes people are meant to go. I'm sure your grandmother is older and that she has been sick for a while. Take this time to spend with her and share in good memories. Be strong around her and she'll be as strong as you can. As hard as it is, you can't lose it and hurt yourself over it. People die, it is a way of life. It's hard, but you'll make it. Always remember all of the good times.
2007-08-28 04:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you arehaving to go theough this! Ithink you should spend as much time at the hospital with her as possible! Grandmas can be very wise! Tell her how you are feeling about this and she will talk to you and comfort you to help you through it! If she cant talk to you, hold her hand and talk to her. Tell her everything! Tell her how you feel, talk about all your memories you made together and PRAY. Yes- if she dies you will miss her a whole lot! You need to spend as much time as you can with her while she is alive and that will help comfort you!
2007-08-28 04:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by tpettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare yourself for the worse ...It may be her time ...but .... you never know .God has a way of doin things for the best ...always for the best . Your Grandma lived her life a long time ...loveing YOU.... As you love her .... Be by her side and when she goes keep HER inside of you alive .... you r her heart and she is part of what makes you.... you... Treasure your time ... Talk to her now while she can hear you .... What she has is very bad .... She loves you ....and she always will . PRAY for more time with her and if it doesn't happen ...know It is time for GOD to take her to his angels where she will hurt no more..........
2007-08-28 04:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my mom 3 weeks ago. my advice, be there 24/7 with her holding her hand, talking to her, telling her stories and how much you love her and how you are going to fine and that everything will be alright. Just comfort her cause she is as scared as you.
Think that this is time that god gave you to say what you have to say to her... some people dont get that some people loose people close so sudden... be grateful
i know its hard. but when my mom left i had everything off my chest and i know she is with me 24/7 cause i begged her to be my son and I guardian angel
2007-08-28 04:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by CantonMommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi hon.. i'm sorry to hear your grandmother is ill.
loss is a part of life, and everyone has an ending.... we do miss those we lose very much -- but they would want us to go forward with our life.
grieving is a part of loss... i do hope your grandmother comes through this, but in the chance she doesn't, there is quite a lot of self-help information on line about grief and loss.
i'm sorry for your pain.
you can do a search for TEENS COPING WITH LOSS, TEENS AND GRIEF, GRIEF, LOSS or COPING WITH DEATH.
sending hugs... and i think the best thing you can do for your grandmother is tell her "you mean the world to me"... even if you don't think she knows what you are saying
hugs
2007-08-28 04:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is sad and im sorry for what you are going through.
Look at it this way. If she gets better, youll still have her. If she dies than you only lose her earthly self. Her spirit will last forever.
2007-08-28 04:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋