We broke up two days ago. He stilll loves me and we still communicate with each other...It wasn't really on bad terms. I think some of it was contributed to my actions while around him. I think he got tired of the ways that I behaved. I had made changes before the break up but we had a arguement and that is when he broke it off...I am willing to make changes because those changes will be good for me, rather or not he and I get back together..but I love him and am willing to do what it takes to have a successful relationship with him. Should I give him some time or should I still communicate with him so that he can see the changes I have made in my life?
2007-08-28 04:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by amack00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
communication is the key!!!
2007-08-28 04:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the back of my mind I wonder why you would want him back. Sure you had an argument that might seem like the cause for your beakup, but more then likely there was some doubt he had for a while that just surfaced after what was said in the heat of the moment. Give him a few days, but also take some time to think if you really want to deal with that entire situation or maybe move onto someone much better.
2007-08-28 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Luxord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dealing with the same mess.
My boyfriend and I dated about 2 years and 3 months. I broke up with him because I felt like we always argued, and just weren't as happy and I wanted to start fresh. but a couple days after i broke it off with him, I felt worse off. I realized that the times we argued really were not a big deal. and I told him I wanted him back but as of now, we're just friends. and it SUCKS. I feel terrible. I realized that I made this mistake that I have to live with. I'm really making my own self suffer. it's stupid. We both will always love each other.
I'm just hoping that time really will heal and that we will eventually get back together.
Good Luck To You.
Hope this helped you realize- you are not the only one going through this.
2007-08-28 11:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lynzy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space while you make the changes in your life, and then let him see that you have taken his feelings seriously by the changes you make. It's important to know why it actually it ended and if it was because of your actions then maybe speak to him and explain to him that you will give him space and yourself so that you can work through your problems - so that he knows you're not just ignoring him - but i really think to keep your man show him the beautiful woman he fell in love, because maybe he doesnt see that girl anymore, which only you can put right by stepping back and solving your issues. good luck x
2007-08-28 11:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you ever give up on this guy! I am telling u that if u love him and he wasnt the one at fault then u will be making a huge mistake if u let him go. Make neccessary changes and get back with him with the promise that u wont repeat earlier mistakes... be grateful when a good guy comes along... they r hard to find...
2007-08-28 11:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in a similar situation, ide say give him a bit of space to get a break and see how it goes from there. Although he may still love you, there is essentially nothing you can do to make him come back, granted you can change your ways but if its no longer there than the situation is not in your hands.
2007-08-28 11:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoeelkhorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always leave him a message or email and let him know that after he's taken a little time to cool off, you'd like to talk.
admit that you have made mistakes, and want to change them.
also let him know you'd like to get back together, but would respect his choices.
maybe this will open the door to a discussion? and yes, we do need to learn from our past mistakes....we have all made them, believe me!
take care of YOU in the meantime, hon.
2007-08-28 11:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always try to get back with him, but usually when a guy breaks up with a girl, he doesn't want to get back with her. My best friend is going through this same thing right now! They were together for two years, he broke up with her, but was like we are still going to get back together i just need to find myself! so she waited then she found out that he was lieing to her about hanging out with his ex girlfriend. So if you want to get back with him then call him and be like look i just need to know if there is ever a chance of us getting back together because if there is not i need to try and move on!
Just remember that there are TONS of guys out there. and stick to those changes that you made even if y'all do not get back to gether!!!
Best of luck!!!
Brittany
2007-08-28 11:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by brittany t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well communicate with him then! He needs to know how you feel. He should be told soon however. I wouldn't wait too long.
2007-08-28 11:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be submissive, ask him what he wants from you and then give him it! this is not a quick fix you need to keep it up. Remember not to loose your self though you need to be happy WITH each other not happy to HAVE him.
2007-08-28 11:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but u cant get an ex back. the time you call her an ex its over. you should just let other people go with the flow. your done with her and its completely over. just get over it. if u call her an ex its over. if you still call her you girl you coulld still have a chance
2007-08-28 11:42:00 · answer #11 · answered by im emo, who cares 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋