Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

2007-08-27 23:46:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do if your husband Insists on eating out and spending anywhere from $50 - $100.00 on Restaurant food every Sunday.

He is Determined to eat out as a Sunday after church meal.
I know for a fact that his mother did not do this with her kids every Sunday. I was not brought up to eat out and spend money that way.

Frankly, I"m sick of it, it's not healthy, my kids and myself are getting bigger, it's hard to stay on a weight program and it's useless.

I need some honest answers.

I've tried talking to him about it and he gets VERY aggravated. Claims that it's like a reward for all the work he does all week.

It does not seem to phase him that there are other things in life more important than spending it all on a sunday meal. He grouches about not having enough money to do other things, but yet, won't let up on the eating out...

Please help. I'm at my wits end and just this issue is a stressful one.

Thank you all for your help.

2007-08-27 23:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by simpleminded 5 in Family

There's this guy I really like but he's just come out of a relationship that went for 18 months and only ended because he moved. They went quite far from what I've heard (possibley sex?) and they were really close i think. I know he still hasn't gotten over because he stills txts n talks to her all the time.

However he's really flirty and especially flirty with me. I might be worrying over nothing but if by chance he ever did get over her and we went out I'm afraid I wouldn't be half as good a gf. (we're 16). I'm definetly not ready to have sex but I don't think he would pressure me into that. I just wanted to know guys once you've had sex with a girl could u ever be happy in a relationship that didn't involve it.
Also I can't help thinking he'd always compare me to her because she was so awesome. How to get him over her or stop me worrying. Any advice?
Thanks :)

2007-08-27 23:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 5 in Singles & Dating

Are married women also equally indulge in extramariatal fun, given the safe opportunity? Atleast do they dream having sex with their fantasy men other than their own husband, if not in reality?

Response from experienced women is appreciated?

2007-08-27 23:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by shiv 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some tips on what not to do besides common sense like, do Not cheat,do not lie,etc.

2007-08-27 23:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

Amy's hubby works laying cable, and on tuesday mornings he has to go to another city to get supplies to fill up his truck. Well, for the last 2-3 weeks he has been letting his stubble grow, and then finally shaved. Then he went another week, and this morning he shaved. He really did not have time but he did it. There are a bunch of females over at the warehouse, and one of them calls him by a "Pet name" which bothers her greatly. (Example Charles = Chuckie)
She said that she feels like he just shaved for who ever this female is. He NEVER shaves when she asks him, or his mother rides him to do it. But suddenly he is going to the warehouse where there are females and he is shaving?
Anyways, she has had problems with him before...running around late at night..not always being at work but out with the "Boys" or so he says and then she never hears them in the background. Only Female voices, and then he proclaims that he is on a job site that late at night. Whatever...
What is your take?

2007-08-27 23:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I am an above average looking guy...definately not Fabio, but not Erkle either. I try to take care of myself....

Anyways, this girl told me that she has a crush on me, but not because of how I look.

I really wanted to call bs on it, because as a guy, I know we put appearances in a high priority, it may not be the nicest thing, but it's the truth. So ladies...really do appeances matter? I thought it did.

2007-08-27 23:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 23:26:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

U TELL THE PERSON THE LATEST INFO.U TELL HER EVERYTHING.and she kind of really unaware as she really dosen;t know anythig about new world new tech everything.but than she uses same info to flatter her friends and thaqt right infront of the teller.will u like that at all.............................

2007-08-27 23:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my boyfriend is 23 and was asked by a friend of his who is 32 to look after his son for a week during the holidays as they had no one else too. He contacted us on the sundat night and wanted him to be looked after the next day for the whole week from 11 am til 6pm. My boyfriend is only working part time at the moment, and didn't want the child (who is 9) to be home alone for a week so said yes, even though he was trying to look for full time work as he has his mot and tax coming up. His friend said he would pay him, not loads but some and my boyfriend said that would be great as money is abit tight. Even though my boyfriend said to me he felt bad taking money from him as he has loads of kids to support. But I said you are helping him out and he should pay you, and the family are not skint, at all. I know this makes no difference but the bloke has 4 kids they have a big house, all the lateset consoles each and he pays my boyfriend £20 for the week.

2007-08-27 23:17:13 · 13 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Friends

2007-08-27 23:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by boy 1 in Family

i was talking to this guy and im almost 13 years old and hes 13...he fell in love with me but i didnt and then he was depressed and then i told him about my problem...which im not gonna mention...and then he told me to stop doing that or else hes gonna cut his wrists and be emo...then i said PLZ DONT and then he did and he was bleeding like hell and now im SO UPSET i dont want him to hurt himself bcuz of my problems...he lives in australia and i live in cali...hes crazy!!!!! im scared....what do i do???? btw this happend like 5 minutes ago

2007-08-27 23:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by WoOoOoOo 4 in Singles & Dating

Or is there always something else going on. Is "some space" always just to check out other options?

grr this just makes me wanna text him back... "have fun with your new girl friend " and end it. I don't want to be jerked around.

2007-08-27 23:11:02 · 17 answers · asked by duuh 4 in Singles & Dating

im sick of my parents controling everything i do its gettin outrageously ugly .. my dad on my birthday threw me off my bed n gave me 2 bruises on d head and a bleeding nose n face :( please help !!! it hurts

2007-08-27 23:06:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-27 23:04:41 · 30 answers · asked by hotlamya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-27 23:04:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there was a girl at my high school, who i once had a fight with, i can stick up for myself and it didnt bother me as neither of us came out worse, but then i started having these awful dreams about it and couldnt sleep, shes really intimidating and she likes to turn peoples friends against them-iv not seen her in a year but have now found out she is starting at the same college as me, and am dreading it-what shall i do?

2007-08-27 22:59:19 · 16 answers · asked by gem w 2 in Friends

any thin u wanna talk about?or somthin about ur self?
especially ppl who r mad at me3 or 4 days ago.
P.S : NO RUDE ANSERS PLZ,if u have nothin 2 say just write ......,u'll get ur 2 pts and respect,also a thumb up by me, k?

2007-08-27 22:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive just started speaking to my ex again, and he said that hes already seeing someone else. But he said all he can think about is me and when he thinks of something to turn him on he thinks about us and everything reminds him of us. If he wanted to break up so much why is he still thinking about me, or is he trying to flatter me so i can still be there for him when he wants..
i love him so much still, i cant stand us not seeing each other, being friends will be great, but it would have to be a secret. I am doing the right thing?

2007-08-27 22:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that everytime I read a relationship question, the responses are usually 90% vs. 10%, in favor of separation? For every issue: cheating, money, stress, kids, jobs, interests, snoring, it doesn't matter what the cause, all people are so quick to suggest divorce or separation as an answer?

Isn't it the trials that make our relationships stronger? Isn't it how we survive them, and work through them together that gives us faith in one another? How can anyone expect to have a relationship that lasts if they jump away from every pain and tribulation and file for divorce?

2007-08-27 22:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy who has a gf,but i really like him,and he told me that he likes me too..all his friends like me also,they said that im better than his actual gf...
Everything shows that he cares about me,he said that he feel better staying with me..but he just cant broke up with his gf..I dont want to be a third person,so i never really ask the question,just want it happend naturally..but is also hard for me to wait..he gives me time,but i want him totally to be mine..
Can anyone help me??

2007-08-27 22:48:26 · 3 answers · asked by littlelulu 1 in Singles & Dating

As a Hindu culture, I have married with hindu girl, but she don't give respect me. whenever i tried to tell her, she cries always. what to do ? I behave very well & calm everytime with her.

2007-08-27 22:45:40 · 17 answers · asked by konitari k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is very resentful at our parents' strict and moral upbringing and feels like every mistake she's made in her life has been their fault, bcuz they never let her do what she wanted when she was a teen (partying, dating, drinking, etc...). Now as a 32 year old women, my sister has never grown up and is quite the headache. My parents, me, and my brother have always tried to help her in many ways- lending her money we never expected her to pay back so she can get on her feet (bad mistake), my dad co-signed for her to get a brand-new car (it was taken away bcuz she failed to pay it, turning my dad's good credit to crap), she had the chance to become general manager after 4 years at her job (she quit out of the blue), she has no steady homebase and lives with my half-brother from hell who has filed her head with lies, etc, etc.

Everything she does wrong, she blames my parents. What can I do to make her see she needs to grow up for once and take responsibility for her own actions?

2007-08-27 22:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-27 22:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by Emmaz 1 in Family

in her late 30's,she rang my home and says she don't want to speak to me but she want to speak to my partner,and she says on the phone to him to come around her house it's matter of life and death.so i said to my partner to go and maybe she's in some kind of trouble,she had a boyfreind at home with her who's only a boy of 20yrs.when he went she make advance on him telling him to stay with her and leave me,she says to him she's in love and want to marry him,so he pushed her away,but then she followed him to my home,and kissing him on the checks,and did't want to speak to me so i was in my bedroom and my partner call me,and said to me we have to talk.so he told me all about what she says,and she says it infront of me 2.she said she want him and is love with him from 2 day,and i felt really sick,she looks like a tramp,but i had 2 control myself as i beleive she really sick woman,and her so call toy boy have left,and she targeted my partner,idon't whether i should be nasty to her or not

2007-08-27 22:39:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-27 22:28:57 · 25 answers · asked by stel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 23. there is my physics professor 45 years around. he keeps threathening me to have sex with him or else he will fail me. i said i will complain he says that he will kill me. what should i do next. he is very dangerous. i dont wanna lose this year by failing. please help. dont tell me to complain. i cant do that.

2007-08-27 22:27:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i REALY like but he doesnt notice me that much anymore. and to make matters EVEN HARDER there are a TON of other girls that he seems to notice. so i just want some tips on how i should make him notice me.

2007-08-27 22:12:23 · 5 answers · asked by chibichib7 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 22:11:49 · 23 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or, are some issues out of bounds?

2007-08-27 22:10:26 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships