There's this guy I really like but he's just come out of a relationship that went for 18 months and only ended because he moved. They went quite far from what I've heard (possibley sex?) and they were really close i think. I know he still hasn't gotten over because he stills txts n talks to her all the time.
However he's really flirty and especially flirty with me. I might be worrying over nothing but if by chance he ever did get over her and we went out I'm afraid I wouldn't be half as good a gf. (we're 16). I'm definetly not ready to have sex but I don't think he would pressure me into that. I just wanted to know guys once you've had sex with a girl could u ever be happy in a relationship that didn't involve it.
Also I can't help thinking he'd always compare me to her because she was so awesome. How to get him over her or stop me worrying. Any advice?
Thanks :)
2007-08-27 23:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Biggest thing is to be yourself. Do not let him set your limits, if you don't want sex then don't. If he is the catch you say he is then he will understand this. As for the ex- how do you know she was so awesome? maybe you are better and don't know. Be confident and never let yourself think you are second best. If you think someone has settled for you then they will probably treat you as such. Remember that you are you and they get what they get.
2007-08-27 23:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by jeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rare that a woman doesn't make enough milk to feed her baby. It does happen, but not commonly. Know that mother nature will take care of you and your baby. You will know if there aren't enough wet diapers. You will be fine. Whatever you decide - breast or bottle - or both - is fine. You are a great mother and your baby is getting the proper nourishment either way. I feel the need to stress the importance that there is most likely not a problem with your milk supply. It is normal to feel this way though, and it is part of the breastfeeding relationship you establish with your little one where you will learn to trust one another as well as your own instincts. Breastfeeding was so hard the first few months, but I am glad I stuck with it.
2016-04-02 03:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the best you can be. That is all it takes, and a lot of self confidence. Guys do not necessarily have to have sex with every gf. It probably took them awhile to reach that stage, as will time tell for the two of you. I would not jump into having sex with him if I were you. It is not a good idea, expecially since he is just getting out of another relationship. Give it time your yours and his relationship to grow first.
2007-08-27 23:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, He could be just missing the sex, hence his attention for you, whilst he keeps her on the hook at the same time, if you haven't yet done sex, your unique in a special way, so don't even think about it, especially whilst he is like he is, my son is 21, has a different younger girl in his room almost every night and they appear to dote on him, but it hurts me that so many girls are going down the same route, all apparently willing to experience any kind of relationship in an effort to find love. mike.
2007-08-28 00:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could give you skanky advise
but your not ready so
no matter how cheesy it sounds
and i hope it doesnt sound cliche
but if the guy REALY likes you
it wouldnt matter if there was no sex
if he doenst like the fact you dont want to have it
then hes obviously not the right one for you
i know right now you might be thinking
i odnt care if hes not thr right one for me
i like him and i dont care if hes the rigth one or not
BUT in the end ( trust me on this one)
if you KNOW hes going to be unhappy in a relo with you
and you will be too
then dont bother ever having one
its the harsh truth
but if you thnk he realy likes you
then give it a chance
if hes unhappy with no sex he wasnt the right one anyway so who cares
so honey i would stress less
but if your willing to work for him
then i would suggest
to explain the reality that he cant have her anymore
bring it up in general convosation SUTTLE is the key
and then tell him he needs to find someone clser to home
return the flirting
theres nothing else i could tell you without sounding like a hooker
goodluck
2007-08-27 23:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are good enough for him. Just be positive and you can never imagine how far you can go in that relationship. It has happened to me.
2007-08-27 23:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by nikkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for counselling! Your problem is: Low Self Esteem & Confidence.
Work on that and believing that you are good enough!
2007-08-27 23:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Phenomenal woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex maybe not but little some for sure is essential for u 2 & u r unique & special in your own way & display that side of u'rs.......then it will be that "NOTHING COMPARES TO YOU'
2007-08-27 23:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always good enough God made you and you are a thought of God, seriously.
That's my final answer.
Love yourself first, before you can really love other people...
2007-08-27 23:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by amberofarabia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would straight up ask him why he feels the needs to measure the ex up to me?
Ask him do you want to be with her instead of me?
Just ask.
2007-08-27 23:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by ctknight9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋