Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

tomorrow is my anniversary!....i forgot till now...wish me luck!......no stars needed!!!!

2007-08-27 16:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by ask me a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What goes WRONG with them??
You always see the ugly one's on tv portrayed as stalker, when in fact, in real life, often times they are very attractive or even gorgeous [sometimes]

But ANYWAY, can you REALLY blame it on someone being merely 'lonely'??
I mean, really because what if the person is married, but still chooses to stalk you?
do they have a form of obsessive compulsive disorder or what??

2007-08-27 16:20:52 · 3 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my x about a month ago, and after a year and half of dating I found out that he cheated on his ex wife with his daughter's mother who is now married and have two more kids with her husband. He left his wife so he can be with her, but she never left her husband. Somehow I always had the God feeling that there was something missing in our relationshio, and as hard as I tried to work on it, sometimes he seemed to not be into me, but other times he seemed to be deeply in love with me.

After I broke up with him, I found myself empty and I tried to have a closure with him, but he said that he did not what his feelings were for her, but he did love me and he also knew that he could not give me what I wanted (Sexually speaking)?

How can anybody love you and not be willing to please you and work hard in your relatioship, what do you guys think about all this mess. I wish I knew what he is thinking, but I guess I'd never know

2007-08-27 16:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by Worried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has been in counseling for a year. Mother died two years ago father in prison. Her five year sister and she have come to live with me. She doesn't want anyone to tell her what to do, she thinks she can act like a teenager, throws really big fits if she doesn't get her way over the smallest things. I am going with her to counseling but she doesn't act up while we are there. I understand she has lost a lot for some one as young as her, Mother, father, her home and life as she knew it. Even if it was a bad life thats all she knew. The counselor's tell me to not be easy on her to make her responsible for her action. that it's alright to get mad and not stay calm when she get out of control. I don't think that if I am not calm it would only make her worst. If I get mad how can that help her ? Doesn't like to cry would rather yell. wants to keep all the anger and hurt inside. Says only babies cry. I tell her how much i love her and her sister and how glad I am that they are with me.

2007-08-27 16:19:51 · 2 answers · asked by barb.douglas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering what things i should say to my boyfriend..
He hasn't been coming around like he said he would. I really miss him, and i tell him that all the time.We love eachother so much. I don't know whats going on, he talks to me all day on the phone, and acts normal, but he'll say he doesn't feel like coming around because he's lazy. However, he goes out with his friends and hangs out with them.
I know it sounds like maybe he's being unfaithful, but there are no signs that he is. (He cheated one time 2 years ago. I broke up with him but we got back together, and have been together now for 1year and 2 months.)
I was just wondering what things i should say to him in order to get him to change his ways and actually come around like he says he will. I'm starting to grow insecure and less and less confident.
Please just give me some suggestions and advice, its really appreciated.

2007-08-27 16:15:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I find this boy's behaviors repulsive and am often "on edge" when he's at our house. He has developed these disgusting behaviors after I married my husband (whom I ABSOLUTELY LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART). I feel shallow in admitting that I find this helpless retarded child's habits completely gross. It's causing some major problems in my relationship. My husband is very sensitive and at times is VERY hard to talk to about this.

2007-08-27 16:15:20 · 17 answers · asked by s h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am working with a man who was going through a divorce. He became affectionate towards me and even proposed marriage (which he has since forgotten). His wife turned up at his door step the day the divorce was to go-through, and announced she had breast cancer. She moved back and has been back with him since, in a separate room as she has been receiving treatment and surgery. As I live far away, we work on a project long-distance. He has since, I suspect developed a relationship with another colleague. He gets very angry when we talk and has changed recently to be impatient and overbearing. His phone will be switched off for short periods, when he gets back on the phone, his mood would have changed. Do you think he is having an affair with his secretary? She is blonde, 19 years old and buxom. He paints nude women and has been painting larger and larger pictures of women in different positions. Is he also a pervert? or an artist ? plus sex-addict?

2007-08-27 16:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by a b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lied to my best friend. i told her events of my past and made them seem like they're in the present. i kno what i did was wrong, and then she accepted what i did and was my friend. then somethin else came up and she blamed me for somethin i didn't do. so now she won't even speak to me anymore. all i want is to be her friend. i have no idea why she means so much to me but she does. i cant concentrate anymore. it's like somethin's missin. it hurts right now knowing we might not be friends again. but i dont want that to happen. please, please help

2007-08-27 16:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Nacha 1 in Friends

The person i love said:" I am hurt for u "what it means?
i have been travelling for a week i didnt take my cellphone with me that person send me an e mail saying " i am hurt for you" what it means i dont speak english very well help

2007-08-27 16:14:21 · 1 answers · asked by peter t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i used to think and feel like someone was missing even though every one was there, do you believe that this could be because my twin brother died at 6 months old leaving me with a missing piece, and an unshakable lonliness.

2007-08-27 16:07:18 · 8 answers · asked by Artyfarty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 15 year old daughter is now living with me. She was living with her father from the age of 10 until now since we are divorced.

She has to start her Junior year in a new school either with me or her Dad since her Dad moved due to job reasons and I live in a different state.

We went to see the High School today and she did not like it. The classes, school set-up and type of students did not appeal to her.

Should I move to where she was living before or get back together with her father so that she has some stability in her life because she is with her father again? He was and is still verbally abusive and controlling.

2007-08-27 15:55:28 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I think my husband is cheating, please help!

2007-08-27 15:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by Frog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone have any advice on some things that I can do to spice up my sex life w/ my hubby? I am a stay at home mom and tend to be mommy before wifey and would like to spice things back up a little

2007-08-27 15:51:51 · 10 answers · asked by FLOWER-POWER 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Mom lives in Wisconsin, I live in Florida with my sons and husband. My mom and Dad are getting divorced after 45 years. She wants me to come up and help her fix up the house. The problem is that my mother drives me bat crackers! I can't stand being around her because she corrects nearly everything I do. She's also very needy and complains to me about how my father just up and left her for a younger woman even though their marriage was NEVER good.
I know she needs help but I really do not want to deal with her ranting about what a bad guy my Dad is. (Trust me, he isn't. He's made mistakes but he just got out the way she was going to last year). So I'd rather send some money up so she can hire people to help her. Am I a bad daughter for not wanting to put up with her crap?
Also hubby and I own our own business and with fall starting I really can't afford the time away.

What do you guys think?

2007-08-27 15:44:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So like this dude I like, or used to like blocked me on aim because I told the girl he likes that he lieks her. he lied because he said we were friends, and now its liekw ere not. So I kidna hate him but i relli miss him btu he ignores me and stuff an dif i talk to him a lot on aim he might block me again. Help what should I do? I really want to become his friend again. =[[

2007-08-27 15:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and for the past couple of weeks things havent been the same.. And no, I dont think it has anything to do with infidelity..but lately we just havent been having many things to talk about on the phone and it's just different.. Do you think we are getting bored with each other or something?? Oh and most importantly we do love each other.. I love him with all my heart

2007-08-27 15:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard and watched stories of women going through the 9 month process and labour itself. My mom said that when giving birth to me, she was tied down and stuff in the hospital in some other country... well, i plan to take care of a child of my own, but im afraid of the pain. I've heard many women say that they've gone through hours of pain through labour. I've talked about it with my partner, and he's said that he'll respect my decision. He discouraged adoption, (althought to me its a good idea) because he knows friends who got depressed and suffered when they found out that their parents were not their real ones.
Is my fear reasonable? Or is giving birth a miracle worth enduring the pain for?

2007-08-27 15:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

tell me some of the funny stuff your grandkids have done. all my kids are grown. i need a laugh

2007-08-27 15:30:24 · 4 answers · asked by LoVeLoVeLoVe 2 in Family

and have you ever had an internet stalker?

2007-08-27 15:28:54 · 1 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My birthday is Thursday, and my oldest son talked to me a couple of weeks ago about what I'd like to do for my birthday. I said the usual--we go out to dinner and come home and have cake. He lives about 70 miles away and made plans to work in my area. I'm picking my Grandson up from school, but he'll be with his mother that night about 20 miles away. We were going to eat near where my Grandson lives because he has school on Friday. My youngest son lives near me, has a camping trip planned for Friday after school through the Tuesday after Labor Day (about 45 minutes away) and my Grandson will be with him on Wednesday night. Now after our plans we laid, he wants me to celebrate my birthday on Wednesday so he can pack for his camping trip on Thursday evening. So what would you do--Wednesday or Thursday, if your birthday were Thursday? Relationship with my youngest son hasn't been that good lately.

2007-08-27 15:27:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

then why would you look at/ fantasize about others. Isn't that really cheating in your heart? And what did you do to stop it, if you did stop?

2007-08-27 15:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by nada 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, he just sits around the house and watches television all day long. I have tried everything that I can think of to make him become more active, but no luck. He needs to exercise but he doesnt want to, and prefers to do nothing all day.

2007-08-27 15:21:11 · 1 answers · asked by Salt Hydrolysis 2 in Family

Okay so here is the situation, I have my desktop computer in the computer room, however, there is also a television in the room hooked up to satellite so it cannot be moved. My dad likes to come into the room even when I am doing homework to watch the tv with a high volume, and making it so that I cannot concentrate on my work. No matter what I say, he still wont listen to me. The computer also cannot be moved to another room since it is hooked onto interent. What should I do?

2007-08-27 15:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by Salt Hydrolysis 2 in Family

ok so my brother (a 13 y/o freshman) wont go to school.
we are trying to get him to go but its to much stress. my moms disabled so she cant really do anything and my dad doesnt live with us. he also is bipolar, anyways people are thinking about putting him in a hospital or taking him out of the house to a group home (his therapist is thinking about doing this). since hes bipolar his mind doesnt think out what could happen if you doesnt go to school etc.
Im trying to tell him but i cant do anything. also today the school said my mom will go to jail if her son doesnt go to school.
my sister and i think he should be taken out of the house were people can take care of him.
im just wondering what you think about what i wrote.
also he's a really big guy 6ft. so we cant pick him up and take him to school.
also at home he just eats and eats and just sleeps watches t.v and nothing more. he thinks thats a good life.

2007-08-27 15:17:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-27 15:12:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a hopless romantic. I have never had a boyfriend and desperatly would like one. I am a self-consious kind of person. I want to have the feeling that some guy cares for me. Is that to much to ask in someone?

2007-08-27 15:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 15:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

b'cuz i have broken a guitar. i just kept it secretly b'cuz my mom would scold me and ask to kneel 1 whole day what should i do??

2007-08-27 15:06:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes for peace one likes to stay alone in the dark where no one is around. Is there any other way to keep ur mind cool?This situation ,I think arises with almost every one(true or false)?

2007-08-27 15:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by jeet 2 in Singles & Dating

how did you fix it?

2007-08-27 15:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce