Please help ?!!?

Question

I was wondering what things i should say to my boyfriend..
He hasn't been coming around like he said he would. I really miss him, and i tell him that all the time.We love eachother so much. I don't know whats going on, he talks to me all day on the phone, and acts normal, but he'll say he doesn't feel like coming around because he's lazy. However, he goes out with his friends and hangs out with them.
I know it sounds like maybe he's being unfaithful, but there are no signs that he is. (He cheated one time 2 years ago. I broke up with him but we got back together, and have been together now for 1year and 2 months.)
I was just wondering what things i should say to him in order to get him to change his ways and actually come around like he says he will. I'm starting to grow insecure and less and less confident.
Please just give me some suggestions and advice, its really appreciated.

Answer 1

Since you are both dating, why don't you go out.
Like go to movie's, eat dinner out, etc.

When he goes with his friends does his friends girlfriends go along too?

Tell him you are feeling insecure and need to spend more time with him. Talking on the phone wont cut it anymore.
Lazy or not, he needs to be more attentive to your feelings.
Why cant you go to his house and visit him?

Ask him for a date night.....

Good luck, faith