i've been with my man for three years?

Question

and for the past couple of weeks things havent been the same.. And no, I dont think it has anything to do with infidelity..but lately we just havent been having many things to talk about on the phone and it's just different.. Do you think we are getting bored with each other or something?? Oh and most importantly we do love each other.. I love him with all my heart

Answer 1

u need to spice up the relationship abit.. it can get mudane after a while. same goes after marriage...

maybe on the phone can talk more about how is his day and ask his opinion on things. don take issues for granted. talk about the future, kids, money... set targets for the relationship etc.

good luck.

Answer 2

People say, that the hardest thing to get over is the 5 year hump. I think that maybe trying to spice things up a little would be great. Just be sure that the reason why you two are having these issues isn't due to infidelity. I was in a similar situation we loved each other @ one point. But the infidelity was something I could not get over. It's great that you love him with all your heart, but how can you be sure that the feeling is reciprocated.

Answer 3

You need to do something to spice up your relationship. Get a hobby together or some activity that gives you something in common to discuss. Plan a trip. It is normal to have highs and lows in a relationship. The secret is to work through the lows in creative ways. If you don't have anything to talk about on the phone, don't force it. If you wait just a little while you will start missing each other and find lots of things to say.

Answer 4

If you have been talking for a long time on the phone for the past 3 years than you are doing good. Usually the long phone calls stop within the first year of marriage. I dont think your getting bored with each other, just running out of things to talk about. good luck.

Answer 5

Do you know if your not married within two years of meeting odds are he never will marry you,why you ask because the first two years you are still in the honeymoon stage but after that it starts to get a little boring to him. I'm not making this up it's in many books i have read over the years. Yes your guy he getting bored so you better do something to start his motor up and quick.

Answer 6

If you love him, than I don't think you are bored with him. I think you are bored of the routine. You have to try new things together. Like take a cooking class, dance lessons, go have a picnic, go skydiving, take a day trip. Something anything. When you do something new with someone you have been with for awhile, it lets you see them in a different light.

Answer 7

well maybe if things have drasticlly changed thats a sign that something is going on. maybe you need to find out if your boyfriend is talking ot someone else. why all of a sudden he and you stop the talking? there has to be something, yes you love each other but there has to be something more. find that out and you will find out why he is not talking to you. good luck.

Answer 8

I don't know if it is boredom or just something bio. Don't ever forget that you should never lose your focus and passion. If you love and you let go,if it loves you it will come back. If he leaves he doesn't love you. If you truly LOVE someone you want them to be happiest whether with you or someone else. THE KEY IS TO BE SECURE WITH YOUR SELF AND WHO YOU ARE. DOOR MATS DON'T USUALLY DO VERY WELL.

Answer 9

Well if nothing new and exciting is happening in your lives maybe there isn't much to talk about. Sometimes men don't like talking about the same stuff over and over .Spice it up and little and talk sexy or naughty to him and he won't be ored ,he'll be right over.

Answer 10

cherchez la femme.... find the woman.