I am working with a man who was going through a divorce. He became affectionate towards me and even proposed marriage (which he has since forgotten). His wife turned up at his door step the day the divorce was to go-through, and announced she had breast cancer. She moved back and has been back with him since, in a separate room as she has been receiving treatment and surgery. As I live far away, we work on a project long-distance. He has since, I suspect developed a relationship with another colleague. He gets very angry when we talk and has changed recently to be impatient and overbearing. His phone will be switched off for short periods, when he gets back on the phone, his mood would have changed. Do you think he is having an affair with his secretary? She is blonde, 19 years old and buxom. He paints nude women and has been painting larger and larger pictures of women in different positions. Is he also a pervert? or an artist ? plus sex-addict?
2007-08-27 16:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by a b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your a little bitter because he let his wife back in his life and for got about you. You should be glad for that just think you could be married to that Ahole. As far as his secretary goes don't you think this should be the name for secretary's ( sexatary ) it seems the mass majority sleep with their boss. When my husband was to receive a sexatary I told him that I was going to pick her out for him,well I did and she was fat very unattractive I had nothing to worry about with this one. Two years later my sister in law said to me ...... looks good now don't she,I said to her are you crazy. Come to find out she lost over 100lbs and took her big ugly glass off and wear contacts and make-up. Well she still wasn't a pretty woman but better then before i ask my husband why he didn't say anything about the weight lost you didn't ask he said.He didn't say anything because YEP he was sleeping with her, I'm not bragging at all but i put her to shame in the looks and I am built better then her she has short brown hair i have very long blonde hair and personality i remember my husband telling me how she like to start trouble in the office and talk about everyone behind their back.My personality is the complete opposite of hers.It goes without saying a guy will sleep with any female if they are around each other long enough makes no difference what they look like because after a while they all start to look good in the eyes of a male.
2007-08-27 20:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about men, but sex sure relieves my anger and frustration. Actually any kind of exertion relieves my anger and frustration. If he is an artist then his painting may relieve that frustration and anger as well. I know that sometimes if I want to blow off some steam I pack up my cameras and film and I jump in my truck and head out for a day of doing nothing but shooting pics. Or I sit at my computer and work on my novel. I don't think he's a pervert cause his paintings are getting bigger and bigger....he's probably just letting out his creativity. But who knows! And if I were you I would just forget about this guy. This is all just my opinion, take it or leave it. Good luck!
2007-08-27 23:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Drea Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not Prince Charming. While sex can relieve anger and frustration for men physically, it's a pretty poor specimen of a man who uses sex as medication.
2007-08-27 23:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by detailgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relieves my frustration. He probably just likes sex and if he can sex his secretary...he probably will. I hope you didn't get any feelings for this guy...
2007-08-27 23:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ashima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be sex, or yoga, or valium, or even food. I get grouchy and short when I am hungry.
2007-08-27 23:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! Move on...
Don't waste energy on this situation...because U have wasted enough time!!
2007-08-27 23:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by SuasGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes Yes I need one now. LOL
2007-08-28 00:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Zarzoorner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes YES yes
2007-08-27 23:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by rjd1425 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it does relieve anger and frustrastion...
2007-08-27 23:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋