Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

alright...here it goes..
my mother in law wanted my husband to get married to her niece( my mother in law's sister's daughter)
yes i know we marry in cousins..no rude comments
but my husband did not want to marry her as she is his first cousin and it would be gross..........so he married me...me and him are not related..
the problem is that my mother in law's sisters and brothers (the whole family) is upset that her son got married to me and not that other girl. and they are not talking to her. but she always babbles about how they used to be a "family" before me and always want to go to their place...........whenever she gets a chance (when her sister invites her just for formality) she goes and drags me along with her..........i mean if they said it on her face that "we did not like that decision ur son made and we do not like u"
why does she not have any self-respect and GO THERE EVERY TIME? WHY DOES SHE DRAGS ME TOO? WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP HER?

2007-08-27 14:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

school is starting and im bit nervous to see some people. i dont have many friends and i dont like to hang out. I think some are really immature and annoying. and my friends are irresnponible and have a minds of 12 year olds. I dont like to talk a lot in school, in classes, i go to school to learn but im stressed and nevous about it/
anyone go through this?

2007-08-27 14:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy that I really want to meet but Im way to scared because I dont know him and I dont want him thinking im a freak! Please help me on what I should do...

2007-08-27 14:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this strange? I mean we are inseparable. We spend almost all our time together, but we have never been on an official date. We went to the movies and stuff with a group a few times when we were just friends, but what exactly qualifies as a date? We don't plan ahead too much. If he's off work I hang out at his house. Is this totally weird? How can I get him to take me on an official date without being idk annoying?

Oh yeah and we have been dating 3 weeks as of yesterday

2007-08-27 14:22:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am singing in my friends wedding and need some ideas for songs. Any kinds, old school, country...etc.. Thanks!

2007-08-27 14:21:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Than she is dumb, and I need to lose her, because that is not about to happen... I just want to know what she wants to hug or not to hug....

So my girlfriend is not a pda person, I told her it was fine, and she told me that she wanted to, then I told her then why did she say she didn't want to hug me in public, and she said that she thinks it is for private, and i told her...

Ok, so you don't want me to hug you?

And she told me:

Do what you want? Then she told me to tell her what she wants...

So i said she wants to but doesn't because of what people will think... and she said kind of...

Then she told me to ask her if i can hug her, and then said that she might tell me yes, but not hug me back because she isn't a good hugger....

I still left the conversation confused.... what do you think she meant?

Should i not hug her or what? I mean, to me just spending time with her is fine and all i need...nothing more... so what is up?

2007-08-27 14:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Umbrella 1 in Singles & Dating

To say anything to my face. But he loves to devour my life from behind the scenes?

2007-08-27 14:17:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Latley I've been really depressed. I don't know why, but i've been like this for the past 4 months. I have frequant thoughts of suicide and the awful part is I'm still in school, not even in High School. So i'm to young to take anti-depresents.. I don't want people feeling sorry for me, but I just want advice on handle this...

Does anybody else have depression? Advice?

Thanks,..

2007-08-27 14:14:43 · 28 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF is in his brothers wedding and it going to be this huge formal wedding.We will be staying in this fancy hotel for the weekend because we live like 3hrs away and with the rehersal dinner and then the wedding I thought it be easier to just stay close. So my question is for the women out there,have you ever wish that you packed something when you thought "na I won't need it" and then wish you had it? What advice do you have for me to pack that I might wish I had brought along.
Thank You.

2007-08-27 14:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by Cindy 4 in Weddings

I was diagnosed with bi-polar 6 years ago and when I was first diagnosed brfore the diagnosis, I had got into trouble with theft partly due to a manic episode. My husband only seems happy when I work and pay my own bills. For the last 5 yrs I have been stable with the bi-polar but at my recent job was just fired for stealing a $100 Wal mart gift card and am afraid it was due to another mainc episode and relapse. I am afriad I will go to jail this time. I want to seek help but he says it is only because I got caught stealing when in all reality I am just wanting to get help more than anything for fear I could get worse. I have been afraid to work due to my bipolar and now look what I have done. I am afraid that I am going to lose my family and my boys see their mom hauled away too. My husband only is happy when I work. Anyone willing to give advice on this one?

2007-08-27 14:12:12 · 5 answers · asked by JENESEE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't wan't the usual here comes the bride. I want something light and almost magical sounding.

2007-08-27 14:12:09 · 13 answers · asked by vanilla e 3 in Weddings

2007-08-27 14:09:02 · 26 answers · asked by 2see 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my best guy friend for about 7 years and we see him with his family about once every 4 or 5 months. They're family friends. He used to be sort of dark and emo because he had this girlfriend who was dark and emo who he was like in love with so he wanted to impress her. He even became a vegetarian for her! But about 7 months ago, his parents forced him to break up with her because she was interfering with his schoolwork, like he was hanging out with her too much and stuff. Anyway, today me and my best friend who is a girl, so not the guy one, were at the mall. We ran into him at American
Eagle! I hadn't seen him in about 4 months, so that's all summer, and now he stopped being emo all of a sudden after he broke up with emo girlfriend. He was really sweet and my best friend who is a girl left us alone for about 6 or 7 minutes in the store because she knows I like him. So we were near the sunglasses rack and we were flirting, putting sunglasses on each other. what do u think?

2007-08-27 14:07:01 · 3 answers · asked by xoxMoDeLdArLiNgxox 3 in Friends

2007-08-27 14:05:21 · 21 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Does any one of u know of any inspirational books that I can read or websites that I can visit, so I can get some strength, motivation and more faith!! Dont include the Bible because am a christian and I have read it already. Otherwise i have reached breaking point. Thanks, and God bless u.

2007-08-27 14:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by Prince 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy named dustin asked me out today.should i or night?i don't want to hurt his feelings.but i kinda but really want to out.please help.

2007-08-27 14:01:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why should we trust if the ones we loved lied over & over again.

2007-08-27 14:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chewy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy I am dating is a nonsmoker, but seem kind of turned on when I smoke cigarettes. I guess this works out well since I do smoke, but most guys I have dated in the past always complained. Is this interest he shows an unhealthy obsession. Anyone experienced this? Should it concern me?

2007-08-27 14:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you believe in emotional cheating? why?
do you think it is okay and fair to still be in love with an old/lost love and fall in love with another person? how?
if you answered yes to the above question, do you think you are loving and giving 100% of your heart to your new love? how and why?
do you think it is possible to wake up and stand back on your feet after being swept off ur feet (love)?
how many times can one fall on love?

2007-08-27 13:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do girls think your are either into body or personality instead of both


ie not a sexy one night stand and not a buddy mate but want to date somone you find sexy who has a fun personality and brain

2007-08-27 13:56:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

4 seven year old's hold up bank in ireland.
police say the children seemed to be Hi on bananas. The bank hold up is just an example of what the banana craze is doing to the children of Ireland.when asked how the seven year olld boys managed to hold up the bank A police spokes person said one in each corner.It seems that the snorting of bananas gives a feeling of great power.

2007-08-27 13:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and we are both 26. She's 33 weeks pregnant. I am going to leave her since the baby is going to come. I was only with her after I got her pregnant so I can have as much sex as I can with her since she couldn't get pregnant anymore after she is pregnant. So should I leave her?

2007-08-27 13:50:28 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how should i respond? i hate it!

2007-08-27 13:48:55 · 14 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 13:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does sex feel like? Me and my boyfriend are engaged......... we have been boyfriend girlfriend since we were 9. We love eachother, and we have talked about it many times. We both have agreed to wait until marrige, but I really want to do it before then. I am very nervous though. But I can tell that he really wants to do it. Our pastor has been talking about wait until marrige, and romance. I really want to do it, and so does he. What should we do? (our wedding date is next Febuarary)

2007-08-27 13:44:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i get repeated glances from guys, is it safe to assume they are interested?

(atleast in what they see LoL.)

i mean if i dont look weird or anything...

2007-08-27 13:43:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to Jamaica a few months ago and made friends w/a really nice resort worker. We've been talking on the phone ever since. $850 later, I flew out to see him. He's poor, but he treated me like a queen. Cooked, ran shower water and cartered me all around town. We ended up spending a night at a local hotel. That was my first time being with him in a more public environment, and I do believe that he is not the one for me. Sometimes his behavior is a bit young (he's 5 years younger than I), common and embarrassing. He's somewhat needy & I don't want him to do anything drastic to himself if I end things. Plus I've already loaned him money because he called to tell me he had no food to eat. I have no problem helping out on that level, but the fantasy of it all is gone. We are two different classes, and I am not sure he can move in my crowd or that I want to be in his. So after 2 months of love talk, how do I tell him its over, or should I make an effort?

2007-08-27 13:42:36 · 3 answers · asked by JustChillin 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone, I just founf out that I am pregnant (about 3 weeks) by my bf and we get along great! The problem is his aunt did something totally wrong to me (similar to identity theft), blamed it on my bf when he had NOTHING to do with it (I'm positively certain, I know this for a fact), and ever since then, I have hated her to the point of where I can't even stand to hear her name. Anyway, we are having the baby around the end of April and I told him I didn't want his aunt around, visiting or seeing our baby, even when I'm in the hospital giving birth. I dont want our kid to have ANYTHING to do with her because she's sneaky and is a con artist in my opinion and he feels I'n being unfair. My question is: do u guys believe I'm being selfish or am I making the right choice? Give me some serious feedback, no insults because I'm not in the mood for them. Thanks :)

2007-08-27 13:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by Beautiful 2 in Family

Ok I have an older friend who was my past college teacher last semester. We have grown close and had lunch and all that and I have been to her house to see her new baby. Well a couple of weekends ago I had bought a gift for her baby and I wrote her in an email telling her, and she wrote me back and told me that I was welcome to come by in the evening that week sometime, and I answered her on that but she never emailed me and confirmed. I have written her a second time a few days ago just to remind her but she still hasn't responded. I understand that she started school and is now teaching again and also has a fairly newborn baby... but I dont understand why she would tell me to come over but never confirm. She has never gone this long w/out responding either and I didnt write anything rude in the emails. What do you think.. I really need to give that gift b/c it is a baby outfit for 0-3 months and her baby is already almost 2 months!... I dont know what her deal is!

2007-08-27 13:40:19 · 1 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Friends

He's super shy, quiet, and sorta nerdy and I'm pretty much the only girl except for his sister that he talks to! He's never had a girlfriend before and whenever other people like something he doesnt like it anymore. I think he likes being one of the outcast. He's really nice but it would be weird if I just asked him out of anything because we are really good friends. So how can I find out if he likes me??

2007-08-27 13:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating