What does sex feel like? Me and my boyfriend are engaged......... we have been boyfriend girlfriend since we were 9. We love eachother, and we have talked about it many times. We both have agreed to wait until marrige, but I really want to do it before then. I am very nervous though. But I can tell that he really wants to do it. Our pastor has been talking about wait until marrige, and romance. I really want to do it, and so does he. What should we do? (our wedding date is next Febuarary)
2007-08-27 13:44:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your are so close to a goal you've both shared since such a young age... why give it up? In this world... it seems so rare for someone to wait until marriage. In fact, I can't think of a single person I know who did. That's a gift to share with your husband, right? Think how amazing it's gonna feel once you say I do and the both of you know what is in store for you... it'll be the best day of your life for damn sure, huh? You can do it girl!! Congrats on your engagement, also! <3
2007-08-27 14:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by peacexlovexrocknroll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if you both waited until you were married since you've waited this long.
If you feel that you can't wait, have protection (condom & some other form of birth control) and take your time.
Feel each other out and make sure you let him know if something hurts. It could hurt for you that first time. Other than that it can be the most glorious feeling in the world. Just relax and go with all the scary/different feelings that hopefully start seeping and escalating in your body.
This isn't permission to go ahead it's just what you wanted to know. It would be much nicer to have all those feelings on your Wedding Night and learning how to please each other as you both learn together.
2007-08-27 13:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, both of you go, together, to family planning if you haven't already done so.
Although your Pastor might not approve, the chances that you will have sex before your wedding day, are fairly high.
You have made a commitment to each other, to be wed, so the act of having sex is not a casual affair in your case.
The first couple of times will be awkward for you both but don't worry about this.
The more you get to know each others body, the better it gets, and in the first year of your marriage, making love will occupy most of your free time together.
Pre- marital sex will remove the jitters of first time sex on your wedding night.
You can then enjoy your Wedding day and the Honeymoon that follows. Have fun.
2007-08-27 14:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Frogman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
jus wondering how long in years have u guys been dating and some times it is better to wait till marrige if a guy is willing to wait he has so much love for u
2007-08-27 13:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts like hell the first time...well the first few times actually are uncomfortable. After that it's heavenly if you are truly in love with your partner. You've waited this long though, why not go through with it? It will make your honeymoon so much more special.
2007-08-27 13:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel better and won't go to bed with a pounding heart if you wait until after your marriage. You won't be able to sleep because you'll feel stressed that you made a mistake before your big day. Do as your pastor says.
2007-08-27 13:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by sportsgirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you guys both are ready then go for it! sex is such a good thing when your having sex with the person you love. if you guys dont want to wait then dont. its your choice. when you have sex with someone you love it just feels right. its the best feeling to give all of yourself to the person your in love with and you know your gonna marry them. good luck and remember this is a choice that no one has a say in but you and your man. hope i could be of some help.
2007-08-27 13:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by yoliepolie18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your a christian then you must understand that jesus died on the cross for you and bore your sins personally. Why add another sin to the cross? Especially premarital sex which is the worst sin you can do in the bible. I think it says that in Corinthians.
2007-08-27 13:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im fkin 14. i dont shet about sex. but the first time for girls and guys isnt the best. it gets better after. I think u should wait. i mean, im sure u waited a few years. im sure a few month wont kill u.
2007-08-27 13:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of the key's friction. If there is too lots friction, it feels poor. If there is none, it is thoroughly pointless. you should discover only the main appropriate stability, that's why positioning is any such enormous deal.
2016-12-12 13:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋