I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and we are both 26. She's 33 weeks pregnant. I am going to leave her since the baby is going to come. I was only with her after I got her pregnant so I can have as much sex as I can with her since she couldn't get pregnant anymore after she is pregnant. So should I leave her?
2007-08-27 13:50:28 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're a disgrace to men and man kind.
2007-08-27 13:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Fulanito 6 · 9⤊ 1⤋
John,
It sounds like you are scared of the future. You only stay with someone for 4 years because you love them. Now at 33 weeks of pregnancy you are seeing and feeling the baby move and it is totally blowing your mind. You are doubting yourself if you will be a good father. You are trying to convince yourself that you should not be there. This is totally normal. Odds are you still love your woman and you are trying to demean the relationship and make it like it was nothing as a 'way out' or 'escape' even though you don't really want that. Seriously, without her - how will you feel? How will you feel if you leave and in 2 years your baby is calling another man 'daddy'...
The moment you see a teeny baby, you will love the child so much there is no way to put it into words. Stop running from your fears and accept that you were blessed with a child and now be a father to that child. It is time for you to grow up and be a man, and I mean that in a good way. I was 24 when I had my baby and the moment you hold that baby in your arms you are going to want to take care of that baby and protect it to the end. Don't run and hide, that baby will need you to provide, love and protect....
Alethea Anderson
2007-08-27 14:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by aletheaanderson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, you should leave her. You are a jerk and a disgrace to men, well if you were one you would be anyway. You are with a girl 4 years, act irresponsibly, get her pregnant, have the nerve to say so and then also add that you only stayed because she was pregnant for personal gratification.
She's better off without a loser playing her. The one thing you had better do is make sure your child is taken care of whether you stay or not. If on top of this you are going to be a dead beat sperm donor in addition to the other stuff then you should go find the rock from which you crawled out from under and knock yourself upside the head with it.
2007-08-27 14:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Joe M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way
Dont leave her all because she is pregnant man be smart. Think about it when the baby comes he or she will have no father and then later on you will be known as the guy that ditched their child so then it is way harder to get a girl that way!You should base it on the relationship do you really love her because you guys created a child and in order to create one it takes alot of love and care. So do you want that child to be raised alone. Just so you know taking care of a child alone is very difficult with your job maybe school and all that. All your doing is bringing misery to her. Why? Because she cant raise her or him on her own. So if you really want to get rid of her then fine but she is the one that will be suffering dude. I mean you arent the one pregnant and giving birth with your life in risk just to bring someone new to this wonderous world. That is a sacrifice dude. So if you get rid of her then you wont be there for her when it comes and when the baby comes into her arms no one will be there to by her side. So in that case you are the weirdest of them all.
2007-08-27 14:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by happyhoppingbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious!!! That is horrible. You've been with your gf for 4 yrs and now you want to leave her when your going to be the father of her baby!? That's just sorry and you should be ashamed of yourself to even think that. She needs you now more than ever and so will your son/daughter. Be a man. If you didn't want to be with her then you should have ended it before you got her pregnant.
2007-08-27 13:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Phat T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if the love is gone there is no reason for you stick around. But don't think your just going to walk out of the baby's life forever. Your baby needs you more than anything and child support is really cracking down on the missing parents whether they are the mothers or fathers....good luck to you!
2007-08-27 13:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you're a lower form of life. You should leave as soon as possible so you don't pollute your own child with your very presence.
Find a bus to walk in front of and do the world a favour.
Unless, of course, this is just your sad and pathetic attempt to get a rise out of people. In which case, well done!
2007-08-27 13:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about the baby?(I don't think the woman will like it very much either) The baby is another human being who would like to know who it's parents are...Do You know who your parents are? Do you remember your first time on a bike? Who held it for you? Mom or Dad? You are setting your own child up to not have these memories...Does that seem fair? He/she didn't ask to be born...YOU and SHE were not responsible adults to use proper protection, so now you let your child suffer for it....Doesn't that sound lame to you?
2007-08-27 14:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Red Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not ever. You made a living human being. And you should stay with her through it.
Only a huge monster prick would leave someone after that. And I cant believe Im even answering your question.
You are the lowest form of a human. And I hope that anyone like you falls off the face of the Earth.
You are total scum. And I hope that your girlfriend cuts off your nuts and makes you swallow them.
2007-08-27 13:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god! What hole did you crawl out from? Wow, if you just wanted sex why didnt you get a hooker! You are so messed up for messing with someone else's life. I feel so bad for her and the baby. I can't believe you would do that to someone.
you should be ashamed and you should really get some help.
She would be better off without you, so yeah just leave her so she can find someone who is human.
2007-08-27 13:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by brokenbutterfly27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how proud your family will be when they find out they raised a low life. You will have to pay child support for 18 years. But, yes you should leave her now. She and the child are better off with out someone like you. And if you are man enough.. tell her why. BTW...Karma will get you.
2007-08-27 14:29:11 · answer #11 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋