Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

I'd really like to get married outdoors...any suggestions???

2007-08-27 12:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kristabella 2 in Weddings

We have been dating for a 5 weeks, but we have nt had sex because I haven't been ready until now. We have made out a few times, but our clothes have always stayed on. I did "grab" him once though.

Anyhow, he has been ready to have sex for awhile, but he has been a gentleman about waiting.

Our dates have been great. We have really learned a lot about eachother. I am ready to have sex with him, and I went to let him know that I am ready in a fun way:

When we go to dinner tonight at a casual restaurant, and when the time is right - I want to ask him to guess the color of my panties. After he takes a guess, I will announce "Oops, I forgot that I don't have any on tonight. hehehe" I am sure he will get the hint.

Is that funny? He is 42......I am 12 years younger. I hope that isn't too immature?

2007-08-27 12:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and bf, 24 years old, 1 1/2 year relationship! He offers this info. A girl at work confessed her feelings for him and he said he is in love with his gf and now he tells me that he is confused cause he has thoughts about being with this girl and had the balls to ask me what he should do! He also talks to this girl about our relationship. He says he has been thinking about this for the past three weeks and at that time I needed him and he wasn't there for me! Any thoughts or advice?

2007-08-27 12:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have some very close friends that will not be able to attend our wedding next month due to being deployed in the military (he is prior military). I would like to have yellow ribbon pins available for our guests right next to our guest book. Has anyone ever made these?? Seems very easy, but i want them to look good :) do i need to use a hot glue gun or just fold and put on a safety pin???? Just curious if anyone else has done this before and how they did it.

thanks

2007-08-27 12:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

i was so excited to leave for college, i was so ready to get out of my house. i've been at college since friday and i have cried every single day multiple times. not in front of my roommate or anything, just kinda by myself. i don't even really get along with my dad and when he called me today, i almost started crying. i almost start crying when my mom calls because i miss her so much. i'm making friends and everything; it's just the whole experience is really overwhelming. i'm just really homesick and i want it to go away soon. is this normal? can you please give me some advice?

2007-08-27 12:21:40 · 26 answers · asked by BEBE 1 in Family

My boyfriend of 3 and a half years broke up w/ me out of the blue 5 months ago. He has moved onto another relationship and is happy. On the other hand I am depressed and unhappy all the time. I cant get myself to even think about dating other guys. I don't know what I can do to forget him when I still care about him.

2007-08-27 12:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do She told me she wan'ts to have sex I'm not sure what I want We've been dating for a while now and she say it is time for us to take are realationship to the next step How do I tell her i don't know yet.

2007-08-27 12:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by BringThe Pain 2 in Singles & Dating

...to where nobody knows!and now what can i do ..i'm shocked!she has gone without saying gooooooooodbye....like bollywood films..you know i was getting familliar with her ...she was very very very beautiful..I WAS FALLEN!and they say they are GONE!

2007-08-27 12:19:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am using my friend's computer because my computer is down, anyway I'm 20 and i'm am 6 months pregnant and my ex-boyfriend is 21. This is unplanned pregnancy but I was still happy ,my family is very happy , i thought he would happy too but he wasn't.Neither were his parents or family, his parents think I trapped him,they have called me a w **** and other foul names more than once,Now my boyfriend is starting to act the same way, so we have broken up. The bad blood between myself and his parents is making my pregnancy stressful,so I'm not going to talk to them until my daughter is born.

I'm not sure if I even want my baby around his family anymore,if this is how they feel but I don't it is fair to my daughter to not have her grandparents around either.

Do you think they will come around once my baby's born or do you think they will still treat me badly and treat my daughter badly as well.

Can you give some advice on how to deal with this.

thanks

2007-08-27 12:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by nbabmorefan 3 in Family

I have apologized she said she accepts but i still feel like a D**K What can I do!!

2007-08-27 12:13:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in my senior year and hes in college. I really think i love him but he doesnt feel the same way back. he puts everything in front of me and i do just the opposite i have no life anymore what do i do

2007-08-27 12:11:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...at the phone because he got stress..it is right if i dont call him???he is stressed about EVERYTHING and i feel like i cant take it no more...

2007-08-27 12:11:02 · 1 answers · asked by dorthe q 2 in Family

...and who would agree to BE a second wife. Do you know anyone personally?

2007-08-27 12:10:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the guy says he lives in Nova Scotia and she (my friend)lives in Quebec.....and she says that he loves her and she loves him but ever since he went to her house....she stoped going on MSN and shes not answering the phone :S, should i worry or are they just busy together....(the guy is a *fresh* adult and the girl is still a teen)

2007-08-27 12:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by kaylee o 1 in Singles & Dating

i have alot of step sisters from my dads side and the oldest one is getting married 9.08.07 and i am a jr. bridesmate and my aunt (moms sister) is getting married and i am also a jr. bridesmate, but it is on the same day! just my step sis is getting married 45 minutes before and they both want me there! but of course my loud mouth mom had to go to my step sis and say that i cant go because of my aunt, and my mom and dad had a big argument and it ended up being a worst problem than it was before. so they told me to pick, i am so confused i have till tomorrow to pick. what should i do? here is so more info about the weddings my aunt has 345 people, my step sis has 100, my aunt has 40 people in her wedding my step sis only has 15. my aunt is getting married in a big cathedral my step sis is getting married in a yard. my aunt is getting married in nyc my step sis is getting married in oaklahoma my aunt is 30 and this is her 1 marriage my step sis is 24 and is also her 1 what should i do?

2007-08-27 12:04:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...not very wealthy, just enough for a comfortable lifestyle.

2007-08-27 12:03:28 · 33 answers · asked by Meg 3 in Singles & Dating

Who do you believe is responsible for all the extramarital that men have? I mean in the over all deliberation of this situation who do you believe has the finale finally of it proceeding or not? At the end of truly thinking this threw do you believe women are responsible for all the extramarital affairs that proceed?

2007-08-27 12:03:20 · 16 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF said he would meet me outside for lunch. Sent his co-worker a mutual friend and said he would follow.

He never showed. I had his lunch boxed and sent it to him. After an hour, no call, no email. I call him he says thanks for the food I can't talk right now.

I think he could have found two second to email me. Sorry I could not make it to lunch :(

I feel like he does not treat me with the common courtesy he would give a friend. I'm sorry but my job is very demanding and yet I know I can find time between 2-4 to send out a one line email.

I know he will tell me I am too sensitive but going from being lovey-dovey and getting sweet text messages a couple times a week. to three years later not rating a brief email when stood up for lunch is very irksome.

Of course the occasionally happy face text or email died long ago.

Am I wrong to feel taken for granted at this point? (Just in case, I will let you know that I still do these things...)

2007-08-27 12:03:07 · 19 answers · asked by cathoratio 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

The day after their wedding, my brother and his new wife sat down and went through all their wedding gifts/cards and compared them with the guest list.

They basically made note of what everyone gave (for thank you cards).

Since then, they have been talking to us (immediate family: me, my sis, dad, mom, etc.) and complaining about who didn't give them a gift and who gave only $50, (our cousin, for example) etc.

What do you think about that? Is that kind of behavior normal, acceptable and generally expected, or is that totally ridiculous and rude? Something in between?

Thanks!

2007-08-27 12:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4 in Weddings

Our wedding is in less than 2 months...My fiance refuses to understand the time crunch we are under. We have no tuxes, no rings, no ceremony format agreed upon. We have 4 hotel reservations for the honeymoon because we can't decide which one we want. He is driving me nuts! Absoultely crazy! And we have totally blown our budget to pieces.

On top of that I work a crazy job in Manhattan, and I will be traveling for work every single week up until the wedding. California, Ohio, Arizona, Illinois....AHHHH! Not to mention we are planning our wedding in our hometown, which is 600 miles away. When I am I going to do all of this?

I think I am going to loose it! I am considering jumping on the next train to who-knows-where!!! Any other brides that are close to wedding day flipping out like I am?.... I don't know if I am going to make it!

2007-08-27 11:58:37 · 12 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

My friend met a guy tru online dating. He buttered her up and told her they were soul mates and he was going to move in with her and she was the one for him, blah blah. Well, when she had sex with him (only after the first date), he sent her an email saying he had to move out of town and he was sorry and it was over. We knew he lied to get what he wanted. Soo, we set up a fake beautiful girl and put her on the website. He took the bait in 12 hours, contacting her and saying exactly the same things he said to my friend. We are milking it and he really believes this girl is realy. He asked her to chat on MSN so we are going to do it and tell him all kinds of soul mate stuff...set up a date and then of course no one will show up. When he emails back to ask why....BINGO! my friend will reveal it's her the whole time and he hurt her and he got his payback for using her that way and telling her lies. He's really into this new chick and we have pics and all. Are we really mean here?

2007-08-27 11:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Sweet Potato Pie 2 in Singles & Dating

i only found one dress so far can u guys please help.

http://www.weddingwardrobe.co.uk/Wedding_Dresses_Xena.htm

2007-08-27 11:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay so here's the situation. I have a huge crush on my older brother's best friend. Haha I know laugh it up! Well everytime I see him like when he comes to our house and stuff he looks at me a lot and finds small ways to get close to me or touch me. He always says you smell really good, and one time he said that and said how do I smell and he hugged me and I was so embarresed cause I turned really red. And he almost walked in my room when I was changing for a basketball game LOL. And one time he was at my house to make a poster for something so I started helping him and he kept "acidently" bumping my hand! And he told my mom he wants me to meet his sister this year and that when I start high school he will be friends with me too and get me lots of them. He is older than me though and has a girlfriend who's REALLY UGLY even though I think he's really really HOT so AHH I'm so confused what is going on here. Does he like me or is he just a really nice guy?...

2007-08-27 11:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by Christina 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy.
he is everything i look for in a guy
i have never felt this way about a boy before. its crazy.
but the only thing wrong is. we live almost 2 hours away.
im only fifteen so i can't drive, and he's sixteen but the gas is so expensive? i don't want to stop talking to him and stop seeing him? :(
what should i do?

2007-08-27 11:49:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I am suddenly scared. I take marriage seriously and I have a wonderful man in my life. However, suddenly I feel scared... What if it didn't work out? What if he or I fell out of love?
I don't know how to calm my thoughts... Is this normal? It's just about the "What If's?" of life... I am happy that we are getting married but at the same time I feel really worried....

2007-08-27 11:47:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel a little snubbed, a little selfish, but that's my preference. What should I do, she has another year to plan it.

2007-08-27 11:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-27 11:46:52 · 2 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Weddings

Quella Bella...

I promise I'll be good this time! I'll even give up men for you!

2007-08-27 11:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so there is this lil b*tch at school and obviously she has a problem with stealing other peoples boyfriends. she trying her hardest ti get us to break up and it's not working but she tries to talk to me like nothings wrong. what should i do?

2007-08-27 11:43:08 · 1 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am hated cause I am half white. My dad side is hispanic. He hasn't seen me in forever like 12yrs. I'm 22 now. Why do people act like that?

2007-08-27 11:41:05 · 8 answers · asked by marissadesiree 1 in Family