My friend met a guy tru online dating. He buttered her up and told her they were soul mates and he was going to move in with her and she was the one for him, blah blah. Well, when she had sex with him (only after the first date), he sent her an email saying he had to move out of town and he was sorry and it was over. We knew he lied to get what he wanted. Soo, we set up a fake beautiful girl and put her on the website. He took the bait in 12 hours, contacting her and saying exactly the same things he said to my friend. We are milking it and he really believes this girl is realy. He asked her to chat on MSN so we are going to do it and tell him all kinds of soul mate stuff...set up a date and then of course no one will show up. When he emails back to ask why....BINGO! my friend will reveal it's her the whole time and he hurt her and he got his payback for using her that way and telling her lies. He's really into this new chick and we have pics and all. Are we really mean here?
2007-08-27 11:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Sweet Potato Pie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would actually show up get him in bed tie him in bed and then reveal your self , and leave him naked tied to the hotel bed with the door open. lolol
2007-08-27 12:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by 60659 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just goes to show, rather than sitting around planning a way to get back at a guy, your friend should not have slept with a guy on a first date and expected more. Most guys would take advantage of an offer like this. There was a reason people tell you to wait, on top of being used, now your friend could have a STD. Hope they at least used protection, cause this type of behavior can be deadly.
2007-08-27 12:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by julvrug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probally want to do the same thing, but you really ought to be careful, you dont know what kinda nut he is. He probally does this all the time, and has no other life. BE CAREFUL!!
I would honestly let it go. You could both wound up getting hurt in a bad way. The internet is fool of creeps, ask around.
2007-08-27 12:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sherann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I doubt it would have any real effect on this guy. People who are willing to lie to get what they want usually do not get overly upset when someone lies to them. Liars just figure that lieing is a normal part of life and that if they lie then somehow everyone else lies too. Sorry to hear about your friends bad luck.
2007-08-27 12:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Done Cryin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the Idea, who cares if you hurt him. But look at something what would embarrass him as well. If your friend just tells him hey, it was me all this time. He might have the attitude of what ever and not really care, cause he thinking this "girl" is just a piece of ***.
2007-08-27 12:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Maya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have lied but it's your friends fault for sleeping with him on the first date before really getting to know him. She doesn't have the right to be bitter.
2007-08-27 12:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by multione88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being mean. But be careful if he has your friend's personal information, like home address, phone number or place of employment. There could be trouble if he turns out to be a psycho.
2007-08-27 12:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell a guy to wait there in place for the meet up to mess with his head. Preferably a big scary guy with a bat.
2007-08-27 12:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by timothy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,You want revenge and revenge doesn't work.Now your friend knows not to put out to a stranger.And if he really loved her he wouldn't want to get into her pants immediately.Be careful on line....maybe this will teach him a lesson....but I doubt it..
2007-08-27 12:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Flynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy is a jerk but since he is just in it for the sex he will not learn anything he will just laugh at the thought that you wasted all this time doing this
2007-08-27 12:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Fire's Shaddow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋