Who do you believe is responsible for all the extramarital that men have? I mean in the over all deliberation of this situation who do you believe has the finale finally of it proceeding or not? At the end of truly thinking this threw do you believe women are responsible for all the extramarital affairs that proceed?
2007-08-27 12:03:20 · 16 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay both are at fault but don't you believe that the woman has the finale say of it PROCEEDING, woman are in control of that situation and many woman disregard the sanctuary of a married home. Do you believe that women control that situation of the extramarital affair going threw or not? Do you believe that to be true? That the woman has the finale say?
2007-08-27 13:18:44 · update #1
I don't believe it is the woman who is responsible for their husband’s affair. I believe it is the gatecrasher woman who is responsible. What I mean is if a man is stupid enough to go outside the marriage and seeks a woman who has the ultimate say so in whether the husband cheats or not…I believe that if the woman turned him down then his cheating could not have proceeded and there for I believe that the woman has the ultimate fault for wanting another woman’s man……… What do you think?
2007-08-27 18:07:40 · update #2
Ultimately, the spouse who has made the vows and cheats.
Contributors are the person who knows they are married and gives them the opportunity to cheat..
And the spouse who knows that the marriage is going sour without trying to make it better..
But, again, the ultimate responsibility lies with the spouse that decides to cheat.
2007-08-27 12:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in this us of a (and maximum others) extra effective-marital affairs are actually not the norm - so particular, society will for sure be particularly drawn to them. no count if or not the relevance of that interest impacts the events in touch is a individual determination for those in touch. yet, on strict odds right here, it probable won't artwork out interior the top because of the fact that's problematic sufficient for 2 human beings to get alongside - 4 human beings attempting to exist interior a similar worry-unfastened relationship is basically destine for misery.
2016-12-16 06:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let us not "pass the buck" here. Marriage vows are really simple in the fact that you are to stay faithful to your wife until death do you part. It is the husbands own fault, no matter what his marriage problems are, if he has an affair. If things are that bad, he should divorce his wife before being with other women. There is NEVER EVER an excuse for infidelity!
2007-08-27 12:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately it is the cheating man who is responsible.
If his 'other woman' knows he's married, she's only part of the problem and with no morals of her own. Hopefully karma will get her after she finally settles down with the 'man of her dreams'.
Although at times there can be a very good reason the cheater goes looking, there are other less hurtful ways of proceeding with this abhorant deed.
The cheater and his knowing partner are both stirring the pot of deceit and gut wrenching pain for his unknowning partner.
They are both weaklings and back stabbers who should be publicly stoned and vilified.
2007-08-27 12:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not WHO, but the WHATs. The "whats" are selfishness and irresponsibility. IF you are selfish and irresponsible, and don't care who you hurt so long as your needs are met, you will be willing to have an affair. IF, on the other hand, you don't want to hurt other people and you feel a sense of responsibility for your spouse, you will not have an affair no matter WHO tempts you.
2007-08-27 12:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not that simple. It never is.
Some women are so desperate they don't care if the man is married or not, Same can be said for women too. If someone is treating you well, paying you attention where the spouse - man or woman - isn't... you're gonna like it. I'm not saying this is right , but it happens. It always takes two to tango so blaming men or women is just wrong.
2007-08-27 12:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by teritaur 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nobody force nobody. If a wife or husband decides to be with another person, the only one who could carry with the resposability is the one who is engaged. You have the freedom to choose what you want, so if your husband or your wife does not valorate the relation, you should think if you want to carry that for the rest of your life...
2007-08-30 12:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpion Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think women are solely responsible. I think that whomever is having the affair is the one to blame, regardless of the reasons for the affair. If a spouse is that miserable, they should divorce and then find a play mate!
2007-08-27 12:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is both the husband and the wifes fault..... if they worked on their marriage instead of turn their heads to someone else then maybe the marraige that they entered with each other would work out with alot of communication .
2007-08-27 12:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man has the affair, he's responsible. if the woman does it, it's her responsibility. why? do you believe that women are responsible for the affairs of their husbands
2007-08-27 12:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋