Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

Im 15. my best friend is the same age but thinks i need to "relax" and "chill" when im out doing things im not honestly confertable with. Her idea of having a good time is drinking on the streets and smoking but im quite happy to have fun but not break the rules. Just because i have the confidence to say no and stand away so im not "typecasted" the same as them apparently makes me "boring". it really hurts that she thinks that. i don't know what to do because i no she should accept me for who i am but i feel like im not "living" enough and should be prepared to take risks to join in and "have a good time". is it just me? or am i too responsible for my age? if any thing did happen like i got taken home in a police car my parents would be devestated but then again is that a good thing for experience to learn from, then again surely those kind of things should come naturally? im so confussed what do you think?

2007-08-23 23:55:34 · 12 answers · asked by regina b 1 in Friends

My boyfriend occasionally comes and has lunch with me when I'm at work. Sometimes when he's walked me back in, he's looked at other men that work with me who happen to walk by and say hi or something, but he's never been unfriendly to them.
The other night, I was in a place out of view, and overheard a newer guy asking someone about me.The person responded with "Don't even talk to her, her boyfriend will kill you." I was pretty startled by that, and since I knew the guy, I asked him later what he meant. He only laughed & said that all the guys who had been there a while were well aware not to be anything but polite with me, nothing more. Some of them worked there when my boyfriend used to work there, but he changed jobs shortly after we started dating. When I pointed out to the guy that my bf was never anything but friendly to everyone, he only laughed and said that was because I didn't understand how guys communicate with each other. What's that all about?

2007-08-23 23:53:10 · 19 answers · asked by Bruja 6 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem..my mother work 4 someone and she got cheat with her partner.now my family have economic crisis and my mother always cry. help me, what i supposse to do?

2007-08-23 23:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by nerissa 1 in Friends

2007-08-23 23:44:47 · 8 answers · asked by sharad s 2 in Singles & Dating

You gotta choose one and state why?
1- A Doctor
2- A Teacher
3- An Engineer
4- A Musician
5- An Artist
6- A Psychiatrist

Choose one and say why does it suit your personality?

2007-08-23 23:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

what are the underlining issues for the reason why most men i date are commitment phobic? and why do i keep choosing these guys?? im not sure how to choose a guy anymore cause they( being guys) start out so lovely then turn bad in the sense they wont commit to me??? am so frustrated by this. makes me want to give up and become a nun!!!! it makes me feel there is something majorly wrong with me!!!

2007-08-23 23:34:52 · 2 answers · asked by luvly larny 1 in Singles & Dating

How old do you think is too old? I'm currently 26 and I'm a male and I've never had a gf. Do you thanks that's too late? I'm beginning to wonder if anything will ever happen.

It's probably just me. I think the two major things is that I'm not really the best looking and I'm really shy. Is the ability to talk well really that important? And what about looks?

Another thing though too is I've never been able to tell if a girl is interested and I've never had the gut's to ask, which is why I've probably never had a girlfriend.

But I've also aways thought it might be best to know for sure if there interested so that they don't feel like they're obligated to date someone they didn't care for. I've thought it might be better for them to come to me. Or is that where I'm playing wrong.

I don't know, I'm really clueless when it comes to this. Does anyone have any suggestions? Please help.

2007-08-23 23:27:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 15. just a normal girl living in a family of 5. my sis is 2 yrs older and goes to a boarding school. my bro is 8 yrs younger. my parents are both working. in my pre-teen years, im probably VERY attached to my parents. like most kids are. i get told off by them and i sulk. i express my feelings and make stupid jokes and they can talk to me and i would listen. but lately y'know especially this year, ive just been such a distant to them. im cold and i dont talk to them about anything anymore. i got straight A's in a test recently but i dont think its significant at all to tell them. its not tht i hate them or i dont talk to them at all, its just im at a stage whre i dont think i love them, love them. know what i mean? they r getting older and of course their jokes are getting dumber and so on, but literally, i dont know what i truly feel about my family l8ly. is this just a phase or do i really have negative feelings towards my family? honestly, i dunno if i will ever get over this.

2007-08-23 23:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by anonymously-unknown 3 in Family

Fun & Fierce. That's mine. Think about it! It's kind of hard...

2007-08-23 23:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Shank 2 in Singles & Dating

we agreed on 300 a peice so she goes and spends 840 and now she thinks i need to give her 120.00 to cover half of what she went over!!

she was suppost to spend 600 not 840!!!

do you think i should pay the extra even though she did not call me to tell me she was going to go over?

2007-08-23 23:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 23:14:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah T 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever used paypal to make payments from your credit card? I am currently abroad and my credit card wont give me enough money in cash to pay my rent I was thinking maybe I could pay from it in paypal to the owner and then he could transfer to his account... but i also asked to paypal that and that if i could transfer money from my credit card to a relative and they said its forbitten to make cash advance throu paypal or to help others to do cash advance from a credit card... what does that mean??

Cause I thought one could send money throu paypal... does it mean I cant pay my rent this way?? thanksssssssssssssss

2007-08-23 23:11:41 · 3 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 23:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by 小石 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex is in his mid 40's. He always said he loves me, said I am his number one favourite dream girl. But why he still playing around and doesn't want to settle down?
Will a playboy settle down?

2007-08-23 22:57:32 · 17 answers · asked by Littlestar 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 22:55:43 · 9 answers · asked by el mismo 2 in Singles & Dating

if their son or daughter had just recently know as part of the third sex?

2007-08-23 22:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this girl i kno that i like and i kno she likes me back but i havnt asked her out yet partly cuz im kinda shy when it comes to this stuff but also because i want to do it face to face and not over the phone but school starts on monday and i still havnt asked her out but i want to before school starts so should i wait or just ask her out right away on the phone?

2007-08-23 22:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

The state is Missouri and the county is Buchanan. I'm looking for the most detailed answer!

2007-08-23 22:39:44 · 10 answers · asked by Temptation 3 in Weddings

my husband and i have been married nearly 4yrs and have 4 children. It didn't present itself in the beggining but my MIL is very dependant on my husband(eldest son) My family isn't perfect but they mind their own business and dont bring problems into my marriage. My in laws are what u would call dissfunctional. Great people individually but as a fam there is always an arguement and a problem. 95% of these problems are instituted by my MIL, though she cant see it. Anyway, when i was first married she lived 15 minutes away from husband and i, and i didn't think anything of it. When i was pregnant with baby no 2 we moved 45mins out of the city. About a year later she moved 20mins from us, which process forced my husband and i to separate for a while. Now we have moved interstate my husband tells me that "mum will be moving here in about 6 months. She is a bloody infestation. She cant fill out a rental form so my husband has to, and my husband has to look for a house for her to live in, b

2007-08-23 22:38:07 · 10 answers · asked by MGS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 22:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by tot 2 in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with that woman in Russia who set her ex husbands little man alight?? wow do you think she still hold a grudge??

2007-08-23 22:28:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Personal Famelier Relations meens Relation between your parents,between your wife,Friends,Grand Fathers and other social Persons.

2007-08-23 22:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by Analyst 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Men are like.....Placemats.
They only show up when there's food on the table.

Men are like.....Mascara.
They usually run at the first sign of emotion.

Men are like.....Bike helmets.
Handy in an emergency, but otherwise they just look silly.

Men are like.....Government bonds.
They take so long to mature.

Men are like.....Parking spots.
The good ones are taken, and the rest are too small.

Men are like.....Copiers.
You need them for reproduction, but that's about it.

Men are like.....Lava lamps.
Fun to look at, but not all that bright.

Men are like.....Bank accounts.
Without a lot of money, they don't generate much interest.

Men are like.....High heels.
They're easy to walk on once you get the hang of it.

Men are like.....Curling irons.
They're always hot, and they're always in your hair.

Men are like.....Mini skirts.
If you're not careful, they'll creep up your legs.

Men are like.....Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are.

2007-08-23 22:22:29 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was out earlier and came home to barely sleep. I'm wide awake but BORED! I don't like tv, so what else would you suggest doing?? Anyone up to im?

2007-08-23 22:01:10 · 13 answers · asked by sublime 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

but after she leant about my age.. she cooled down and never ever responded to my messages... Why girls at first play inviting and then cut off the online friendships

2007-08-23 21:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 in Friends

My Fat Lady.

Not long after closing time,
My mates had all just gone,
I was drinking up my pint,
Ready to move on.

A fat girl sat down by me,
But yet she did not speak.
A big fat tear formed in her eye,
And fell down her fat cheek.

My heart was touched by pity,
I said, "Don't be so sad,
"The beer in this establishment
"Can't be all that bad".

Drunkenly, she told a tale
Of chaos and alarm.
She moved a little closer,
Her bosom touched my arm.

I thought that helping strangers
Really was a duty,
And under all the layers of fat
She could be a beauty.

I took her home and let her sleep
Alone in my spare bed,
And as I got to know her,
She did things to my head.

I told her that if our affair
Was not to be just fleeting,
She had to stop her smoking
And cut down on her eating.

I told her that to change her life
From her living hell,
She really had to exercise,
And sup less booze as well.

I taught her to respect herself.
I made her ego bigger.
Her skin improved, she smiled a lot,
She gained a perfect figure.

Then our close relationship
Went right down the pan,
Because she went and left me
For a handsome man.

That woman has bad judgement
When it comes to men.
In a year or two she'll be
Fat and drunk again.

2007-08-23 21:52:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are all so fat! Is there a law about them becoming so fat, or what?

2007-08-23 21:51:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 21:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by chefnickr 1 in Family

hi, there
my bf is now back to his country coz his dad is very sick i respect that but we made a committment that we both gonna work in canada together. he's from indonesia and i am from thailand. i am waiting for here in canada and i want him to come bk but i know its selfish to say that when his dad is very sick ..but i am missing him and am so afraid if he wont come bk anymore for whatever reason. i try to stick with the fact but i still hav some hope if he could come bk ...i always told me i wil come bk after things settle down but his dad's sickness got worsen...i miss him though...we didnt even had chance to go travel together nor anything special...

2007-08-23 21:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by LC 2 in Singles & Dating

im 22, have 1 yr old baby,working & still living at home( pathetic, i know, but that's a long story for another day). i've gotten a good & high paying job in another state, i hadn't told any1 that im planning to move, i must leave in a month& planning to take my baby with. my parents are very attached to my baby that's why they didn't want me to go and live alone in the first place. how do i tell them nicely without hurting them? i don't have much time, mind u!

2007-08-23 21:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by babybear 3 in Family