Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

I fell in love with a man a few months ago after meeting him on an online singles site. He told me he had been sep. 2 years. Turns out although he is in a loveless marriage, he is still there. He has left and came here once for 1 week and once for 2 weeks. He ended up leaving and going back home. He does have an 8 year old to think about also. Seems that the trust issue and interferance from others, we were the only 2 who wanted us together. I feel very guilty about being in a situation like this. He again resides with his wife yet still comes and sees me on the side. I feel very cheap and like I'm so much more than the mistress type and deserve all or nothing. I told him I think if he wants out of his marriage, get a job, his own place and his own car then I feel like we would have a fair chance at a future. Am I asking for to much because I am really feeling like he's getting his cake and eating it too? I am so confused and lost on whether to move on without him.Help me

2007-08-23 21:36:32 · 16 answers · asked by Heaven 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard the rumors and gossip. I have stumbled upon photos that can or can not be truth... My husband says she is crazy and taking medication and has altered pictures to look like something is going on. I have since then gathered other small pieces of information, but nothing absolutely concrete. Till this day he still maintains that he has never been with her. He is also not the confrontational type and is not one to be public about his life. I am not sure what to think? Any thoughts?

2007-08-23 21:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has had several extra-marital affairs, we broke up for the last four months but now we are back together. She wants to have a girls night out everythree weeks, but I dont even know her friends. I get left at home looking after the two (young) kids, I could always go and party with the boys as often
as she goes out but it wouldn't be fair on the kids. She usually always gets really drunk and comes home late and takes speed. I am 30 she is 27 and I thought this sort of life was behind us. If I leave I'll have the kids cause she won't want the
responsibility. Thanks for your listening

2007-08-23 21:31:04 · 43 answers · asked by The Master Of Knowledge 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you care if she had about 100 different guys , just for fun and sex? Would you still prefer her to girl who dont have such a big expirience in sex and relationship? Most of the women hide the past.

2007-08-23 21:29:49 · 11 answers · asked by Russian woman 2 in Singles & Dating

hi, there
today i just met my ex boyfriend with his new gf, but i hav no feeling for him anymore i dropped by to say hi to him, his gf is so mad and ask him to leave immediately..I have no idea why she's being insecure about me and my ex. I already got a bf and i love my bf so much. what do you think about this girl of my ex? i am not jealous or anything at all.. i really only want to b just friend with my ex.

2007-08-23 21:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by LC 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 21:26:36 · 53 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest with yourself and see if you got what it takes to be in a caring relationship or just live alone.

2007-08-23 21:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by Bone Daddy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a new boyfriend and he calls me hannah banana. i can't think of any good names for a boy named Brandon Aaron L.

2007-08-23 21:20:44 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs.NICK.JONAS!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

The advocate from husband's side raised the following question :
1. Can any question of reconciliation be raised after she took back all her shridhan properties?

2. Can she asked for reconciliation after her husband paid her whole life maintenance?

Advocate told that she didn't wear good saree and gold ornaments in sister in laws' marriage, red and white bangle, iron bangle according to the Hindu custom. Can allthe things come to consideration for separation or divorce?

2007-08-23 21:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by sanjukta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell if I guy is a player or not?

2007-08-23 21:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 21:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by chefnickr 1 in Family

I feel really guilty right now, i was thinking back to when my dad died.........

and i didnt get to tell him how i felt, all i could grasp from the thoughts in my head was, something along the lines of i love you, and i think its time to let go and drift to a better place.......

but i feel so guilty, i mean i....i......i dont know i feel like the devil or something, its deep you know.......

so should i feel guilty about that?

2007-08-23 21:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im going to see my boyfriend for the first time in weeks this weekend. What shall i wear when he first sees me? shall i go sexy and show of my tan in hotpants and a vest or demure in a pretty summer dress?

2007-08-23 21:04:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've met this nice girl online and she became my gf after a few months of flirting. She broke up with me 3 weeks later saying I wasn't the guy she's looking for. I wanted to stop talking to her but I couldn't. Ever since I met her I've became a different person. I started setting goals and doing them and I've made long term plans for myself and us. Ever since we broke up I started praying again (I was atheist before). I'm still talking to her but whenever I tell her how I feel she either gets creeped out or she gets mad. I want to wait for her...maybe she'll give me another chance but right now she likes someone else. She says she needs me..as a friend. I want to be there for her but I don't want her to struggle whenever I say what I feel for her. What should I do? Should I wait, stay or let go?

2007-08-23 21:01:24 · 21 answers · asked by booze 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this boy in my math lass that called me and asked me what page the home work was on andhe has a lot of other friends and he called me? and we always joke how were paired up together cause when the teacher have to pick partners and when they do we always get picked together.
he probobly doesnt im just wondering...

2007-08-23 20:30:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 20:22:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-23 20:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by Kat57 2 in Family

it's about 6 months i got married and unfortunately i'm 4 months pregnent...
in months before i had an argument with my husband and i went to my daddy's house with this hope which he'll come to me but he didn't come, but once he called me and said we should divorce, now i really don't know what should i do and what should i do with this inocent child i really like to have my child with myself but i really don't know what should i do, plz tell me...

2007-08-23 20:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There used to be a trend that black men were marrying white women, but now the trend is turning heavily toward white men marrying black women. What is causing this change in our society?

2007-08-23 20:14:44 · 24 answers · asked by Kimberly Sue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 20:14:36 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents talk to me sometimes when they mad or going crazy or drunk. He talks me "F**k why are you steel breathing? It doesnt do any damn good. you f**king parasite. You makes my life into a crap." I never thought it is weird. They can talk trash if they got mad. few days ago I talk to my friends and she seemed like shocked. Does it wrong to talk to kids like that?

2007-08-23 20:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by SG.L 1 in Family

I don't want to get too deep before I know for sure, because I would rather end it before I get really really hurt. Please respond, even if maybe you know how to get the info personally.

2007-08-23 20:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by somerandomgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What on earth are the governments of today thinking...
im 17 and one of my little brothers friends (who is 12) has already had sex...
when i was 12 i didn't even know what sex meant...
Am i the only one who wants to slap these people around the face till they bleed?
kids nowadays are having sex at younger ages and i believe it is all because of the governments "trying to do the right thing"
WTF??? if they wanted to do the "RIGHT THING" they could have taught my little brother how to do his 12 times tables before he hits high school.
WHERE IS THE LOGIC????

2007-08-23 20:07:40 · 2 answers · asked by illidanstorm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me I dont like to be touched at all and was wondering if anyone else felt the same way, most answer I got before said that it is human nature well I guess I aint human then. Alright I mean any kind of physical contact hugs, kisses, sex, etc. Me I haven't touched anyone since I was 5 ( hugged my mom). Know its got to the point I get pissed if someone even gets close or thinks about touching me. You might think thats a bad thing, me its just the way I am. I mean I am not antisocial, I got friends, and we have fun. I just dont like to be touched at all thats how I am so what is the problem???????

2007-08-23 20:06:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am about 5'6 and 115 pounds. i have long hair at 3 3/4 inches and copper color glasses. i play guitar and other instruments. and lastly, i like to wear black but i am not emo.
what kind of girls would like me?

2007-08-23 20:04:54 · 16 answers · asked by J B 1 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend works first shift, but he doesnt go to bed when i do he stays up on a game online, and doesnt go to bed till the am hours till its almost time for him to be at work and it pisses me off to no end that he can stay on a game for so long that he calls a hobbie well its not its a addiction, he says he luvs me but if he cared at all of my feelings wouldnt he not do the game so much? its like hes pushing me away for this game and to chat with a woman online on this game , do i have every right to be jealous or is sumthing wrong with me?? what do i do about all this ?????

2007-08-23 20:04:29 · 49 answers · asked by stillyoung 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex has found a new g/f,and she ahs 2 kids.One is 10 yrs old,the other is 8 mths.He called my sister and asked what should he do?
He feels he wants out,and says she loves him.He than asks how I was doing,and if I am seeing anyone.Of course my sister said I was doing great,she was proud of me,as I have my own home,and no I was not seeing anyone.Why would he even ask,as hes already seeing someone else?

2007-08-23 20:03:06 · 1 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it wrong that if i try to look at someone's myspace comments and all those comments are hiden? so should i do it? because i dont think i should do it, its someone else's privacy rite?

2007-08-23 20:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by Rio T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 20:00:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 20 years old and i work fulltime and go to school. I feel like i need someone in my life but i dont have the time. I have a lot of self-confidence and can offer a lot to a girl.

How do u meet someone with such a busy lifestyle?

link in my profile.

2007-08-23 19:58:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating