Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

My ex hubby MIA now wants to see me and my son?
My hubby and I were 2gether for 5 yrs..and was hooked on crack after his mom passed away...

I got pregnant, he was MIA, saw our son when he was 1 month, dissapeared, never supported me in any way, and got shipped off to another country by his parents..

Now 6 yrs has passed, he decides to call me and says "hey"..

I was shocked and p*ssed off, surprised and then I hung up...

What should I do now? Please advice..
My son has never seen his dad, but has a great family established already consisting of my mom, dad, 3 bros...

2007-08-23 19:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex hubby MIA now wants to see me and my son?
My hubby and I were 2gether for 5 yrs..and was hooked on crack after his mom passed away...

I got pregnant, he was MIA, saw our son when he was 1 month, dissapeared, never supported me in any way, and got shipped off to another country by his parents..

Now 6 yrs has passed, he decides to call me and says "hey"..

I was shocked and p*ssed off, surprised and then I hung up...

What should I do now? Please advice..
My son has never seen his dad, but has a great family established already consisting of my mom, dad, 3 bros...

2007-08-23 19:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Weddings

My parents have had a complicated marriage,my dad cheated like 4 times in the past but is now determined to make it right again I know in my heart he will never cheat but him and my my mom got seperated for a month. They got back together trying to work out there marriage but my mom is now in love with another guy and my dad is slowly finding more and more about what's going on. On there anniversery my dad got her a big gift,steak dinner,baloons,flowers and cards but my mom brought him nothing while on that other guys birthday she sent him a email wishing him happy birhtday. What should I do to help(don't say divorce).

2007-08-23 19:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

single friend read unusual profile.
hot looking guy but into shackles n handcuffs
they wrote for awhile [she has been broke up w/her bf] so went on a dating site. She and this guy exchanged photos, lots of them, wrote several exchanges too
anyway, the guy who seems free-spirited asked her to meet him behind a tree near the woods for sex
even tho this is obviously a stupid idea
she asked me to ask if you think this is free-spirited or the guy has something dark planned?
he also invited himself to go to florida w/her on her vacation, she never even asked him

2007-08-23 19:54:38 · 3 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if you to sexual for a man to handle.
after 15yrs im still looking for that 1 man that can keep up with me. is it me or am i just to big of a nimfo

2007-08-23 19:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by musicslave 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 19:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by Philip T 1 in Friends

My boyfriend of two years is away for college, and I won't see him for two months. I guess it's not really that long, but I am so very attached to him, and I'm so lonely all the time now that he is gone. And I can't wait to see him. Any tips on coping? Cheer me up?

2007-08-23 19:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by izzyofbrandon 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem for me is the I cannot even go near the girl whom I am attracted to and speak with her. Someone please tell me how to start conversation and make her a good friend.

2007-08-23 19:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by Never_known 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been in a relationship for almost 9 months now. She dated my best friend right before me, and during that whole time me and her were very close friends. When he broke up with her, she got very depressed, and then me and her started living togethor and soon after that decided to start dating. I basically live at her house now, with her parents, and 2 brothers. We sleep in the same bed, but we've never done anything sexual. Before we both got jobs, we basically spent all day every day together, even though we haven't ever been on a real date.

2007-08-23 19:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been working at this restaurant for a few years and have come to be good friends with one of my co-workers. We sometimes talk for hours on the phone and have gone out a few times "just as friends". I have always wondered if she was attracted to me because of her flertacious behavior inside and out of work. Lately, our conversations have exploring our sex life and previous relationships. The last time we spoke she invited me over to her place for some drinks and dinner. She also said that I should stay the night. Should I go for it?

2007-08-23 19:41:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boyfriend of 6 months
says he loves me
when im angry says he doesnt want to lose me
takes care of me
makes future plans
drives 30miles sometimes to pick and drop me
has introduced me to friends and told parents about us

but
is bad on calling (calls at a calculated alternate days)
just told me he wants to call me when he has alot of free time so he can talk to me in peace instead of calling everyday

does this sound fishy?? im plannin to confront him today about this??

2007-08-23 19:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by cassy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so about a year ago I met this woman who was pregnant she worked at wendy's we talked laughed and had a good time for like 10 or 15 mins then I left and ate. I ran into her on friday of last week at wendys again no longer pregnant of course she remembered me I remembered her we talk laughed for a little bit then I left. Then tuesday I went back and saw her again we talked she mentioned she was a single mother which I knew she had a kid just not single. I asked he if she wanted to go out sometime i gave her my number and myspace. She added me on wensday night and I'm already in her top friend list. Now I e-mail her told her I liked her and would like to go out with her some time in the near future and to let me know when she want's to do it. She sent me a thing back saying that she just wanted to talk online for a little while and take things from there. We texted all day long thursday and at the end of the day she asked me if I wanted to go for a drink with her told her I wasn't

2007-08-23 19:36:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-23 19:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so ive been dating this guy for some months. ive known him for a while but we took our time. i really care about him and feel that i love him. however there is one thing that i hate about him. its the way that he acts at times, his attitude. so should i stay or leave?

2007-08-23 19:33:02 · 8 answers · asked by plzr03 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you do with a manipulative husband. he works on the road. i have heard from his friends that he is not faithful but the main problem is that he has told his family and his new found friends how miserable his life is cuz all he does is works for his family. and all his wife does is sits on her you know wat. i take 12 hrs of school have a 4 yr old and a 13 yr old. i cant take him anymore and i dont know wat to do. he has threated that if i leave him he will take the kids and blah blah blah. i just want to know how to beat a manipulator at his own pathetic game.. Any Ideas?

2007-08-23 19:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by jalaney_delaney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 19:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by GREG 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my fiancée and it is very painful I couldn't sleep and I couldn't eat I couldn't think my life just stop. What is the way to recover myself

2007-08-23 19:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by supshumrani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so confused about my marriage, i try to do whatever i can for my husband, he works long hours to support our family. i just don't know how to communicate my feelings very well, whenever things bother me about our relationship i have a hard time talking to him about it. more often than not i feel like I'm part of a debate and losing, my husband is very good at turning anythings i say into something against me. he is aware of this and says he tries not to. i believe he needs to be right in whatever we discuss and i get frustrated because our conversations start out fine then i get the run around until we aren't even on the same subject anymore. in the end i talk to my brother (my best friend in the world) more easily than my husband. i just want to be able to explain myself without causing more argueing. any advice.

2007-08-23 19:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by paula t. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

was the mid 90's when these shirt/ onesie kind of things were in style. They snapped at the crotch (like what toddlers wear).I have this vague memory of guys pulling on my onesie flaps and asking, "What's this?".I wish it had been a blackout..Haven't drank in 11 yrs. and everyone's grateful that I'm no longer a flapper.

2007-08-23 19:18:57 · 1 answers · asked by ... 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 19:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex of 7 years never officially broke up.. she didn't bother to talk to me about it, or even end it really. I figured we were just having some problems so we didn't talk for about 2 days. Well come to find out she is already in a relationship with another guy. Literally, 2 days later. We had a 7 year relationship, and we have a 4 year old daughter.

This is the second time she did this. She did it about 5 years ago, same thing, didn't talk for 2 days and she was with another guy, but I took her back for some reason..

Anyway, what comes next? How do I deal with this?

2007-08-23 19:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently waiting for a penpal and I was wondering what if he or she is lying to me. What if this person turn out to be way older then me or something like that? How can you tell if they are telling you the truth or lying?

2007-08-23 19:08:11 · 13 answers · asked by nikkimint1 2 in Friends

camcapture
okay there's this guy we know who's DEFINATELY addicted to porn
the thing is, he's camcapturing innocent people [camsex] then showing, possibly selling online

besides the legal aspect of all this,
would you say this guy has a DEEP hatred for women??
for DOING this??

2007-08-23 19:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Singles & Dating

ok, so im 13 - 8th grader
is it true that when a boy likes you they may stare at u...cause like i can name bout 5 boys that would stare at me..not a glance...like a dead stare. i get freaked out...like wth is he looking at. wat does this mean??!?!?!

2007-08-23 19:00:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter, and I have a great relationship. She tells me everything, and she is very concerned about her friend. I promised her I wouldn't say anything. I don't want to betray her trust, but I feel this should be told. In my opinion, it's child molestation. My daughter is 16, and very mature for her age, and she doesn't believe in breaking a promise. Something I have taught her!! But I feel this is a different situation. Please help. We live in a small town, and if this comes out, WATCH OUT!!!! My daughter is the only one who knows about it, so the girl will know who told!!!

2007-08-23 18:58:35 · 17 answers · asked by proudmama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in a relationship for 5 years in which we have a 2 yr old son. He has always had a problem when he drinks, starts trouble and emotionally completely abandons me. He has humiliated me, came at me like he was gonna hurt me, brakes items, runs out of the house overnight, this is all when he's drunk. The most recent time this happened was about 2 weeks ago I ended crying myself to sleep. I know he has a problem, we've been trying to work out the relationship but he always wants to drink, not a lot, he says a beer maybe two but I know that always leads to 3 then 4 and then out of control. He thinks I want to control him, but it's not a control thing it's a trust thing, I'm traumatized by the things he has done, and I don't feel comfortable when he drinks... he always ens up breaking my heart. Me imposing with his drinking has made him distance himself from me. Does he really have a problem, is he an alcoholic? What should I do, leave? Are my reasons justified?

2007-08-23 18:56:07 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetie85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for two years with this girl ever since she was a toddler. Im 22 she is 17.We are madly in love with each other and we have tried severally to break up but we just can’t. We go out more often. I have bought her presents but we have never had sex. She asks money from me and she has gone to the extent that she demands bucks from me every time im paid. Her reason being I should act like a man who can be responsible for her woman. Is she for real? What do I do coz this money issue seems to be compromising our relationship?

2007-08-23 18:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by denis i 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been going out with my boryfreind for like 6 months almost 7.. we have gotten real close and i feel like i love him and care about him alot.. we have talked about sex alot and ii feel that im too young,, oh and by the way im 15 and hes like 17 were like 1 and a half year apart,, and wel truth is that were both vigens, and i feel that i can wait more longer than him but hes 17 and a virgen so he gets more anxious for sex.... i just dont kno wat to do... am ii too young for him.. he has alreadi told me he that he would not force me,, but he has assked me and i have said no,, but im just afraid that he would not keep up with me and would not like how im waiting,, welll nit till marage but when im ready im also afraid to lose a great guy like himm. he respects me alot i mean more than anyguy,, and i just dont kno am i too young for himm.. and im still a virgen.. i dont kno wat to do,,, i feel like i also have tto give him somthing frm me like my virgenity..HELP!

2007-08-23 18:43:20 · 30 answers · asked by yay_nes 2 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend just turned 21 and wants to get married. Right now I am only 17 but will be turning 18 in a month. I love him but I don't want him to be a mistake if anything does happen between us. He has a kid and the mother is counting on us splitting so she can get back with him...

2007-08-23 18:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the girl you like, likes another guy.

2007-08-23 18:39:42 · 15 answers · asked by :P 3 in Singles & Dating