Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a month & now he wants to do it with me & i'm not too sure if i'm ready, it's not that i don't want to do it, i just feel like i'm too young. so i wanna know your opinion on if you think 14 years old is too young to lose your virginity? thanks =]

2007-08-23 16:56:56 · 119 answers · asked by luvdance92 2 in Singles & Dating

well i was hanging out with this guy, he kissed me an then we were talking as he was driving an then out of no where he asks me what does it take to get down my pants? im like thats not something you ask a girl, an take me home. so now i can't hang out with him anymore and im glad to but im just wondering what would u have done if someone asked you that?

2007-08-23 16:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by kate M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 16:50:59 · 33 answers · asked by mariaaa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 15 year old daughter lived with her daughter up until a few weeks ago in another state. He moved due to job reasons. We divorced about 5 years ago.

She came to stay with me in the summer with the hope that her Dad and I would get back together.

However, I still feel that he is controlling and micromanages each issue. He can also be verbally mean.

He has asked me sell my furniture items in storage. I said these are my things, don't worry about them. He said "You still have not changed and still think in terms of I and we."

I feel like if I go back and live with my ex-husband again, I will be stifled and not have the freedom to live and grow.

Yet, my daughter is not happy with me here since I still live with my parents.

I want to do what pleases her. But, I don't want to sacrifice the rest of my life.

2007-08-23 16:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay my boyfriend is 22. we grew up best friends for 11 years and never dated. we were always like brother and sister.. now were dating. he got a divorce with his ex wife sometime between last summer and march.. he recently dated a girl who knew back in the day and dated for 3 months starting in march.. he never kept her comments on myspace and everytime shed tried talking to him hed ignore her. he keeps my comments and even writes me on his aim profile.. and puts in a relationship on myspace where as for the girl of 3 months he had it then changed it to single before they broke up. he told me recently she was a rebound and he was sorry but she was.. and he never talks about his ex wife.. unless i bring it up.. and when i asked him how he felt about her.. he started cussing about how he wants her to die.. i want to know if im the rebound as well as the 3 month girl. he says he loves me and im the greatest girlfriend ever.. and if yall think im the rebound girl.. how can i change that

2007-08-23 16:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by britt4life718 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for some words of encouragement right now as I am feeling weak and I need some strength! Long story short - Was with b/f for 3 years, have a 3 month baby together, found out he was cheating on me with at least 2 different girls, now we're apart. He works out of town for 3 weeks out of the month but is back in town tonight. A friend of his decides to tell me my ex is seeing someone new. I don't want to hear that. I just want to know what are the chances he's going to hurt her too. Apparently he has a history of cheating on all his girlfriends but it feels like he's getting away with what he's done to me and his baby girl. I know the best revenge is to go on and be happy and believe me I want nothing more than to forget him...Am I selfish to not want him to be happy? Do things that go around really come around?

2007-08-23 16:44:42 · 24 answers · asked by J-doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has no expression, not happy not sad, not disgust, just kind of intently.

2007-08-23 16:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know everyone is different, but what is a really sexy turn on for girls when they are makin out with someome? Any ideas to make that kiss extra special?

2007-08-23 16:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 16:40:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom is getting married to a guy that i dont really like... it aint that he is a bad guy because he is awesome but my mom is 33 and he is 24... now i dont hate him but what should i do do try adn enjoy his company a little but more

2007-08-23 16:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yes iam loking for a nice song to play at my uncles funreal. he was a hippi and wood stock kind of guy. he allso servied in the army in vietanam war...he had lots of freinds and iam looking for a real nice song..please help me i have to friday night to get one.

2007-08-23 16:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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Ok...thanks..Im just wondering, I dont like it..like i dont like the way my legs look n stuff..

2007-08-23 16:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Singles & Dating

he is one of those jerks that says anything to anyone! (a hot jerk though lol) but yeah he's always saying something nasty to me in front of everyone in class but i know he is playing so if i say something like "i don't want to go out with you" then i feel like everyone will laugh at me heeeelp please!

2007-08-23 16:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by vballer4ever 3 in Singles & Dating

I am with a girl that I care about, and my ex girlfriend is calling, its messing me up, cause I care about her too. Help!!!

2007-08-23 16:33:12 · 5 answers · asked by notre 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say he get's angry and he uses the f word when he's talking to me...would I be right if I responded accordingly and say what's on my mind and tell him what his problem is or do I just shut up and keep it all in? which would be best for the relationship?

2007-08-23 16:31:46 · 31 answers · asked by ♕ℭrown ƒit me good♕ 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 5 months. I'd just like to know some fun stuff that we could do inside the house because we always watch movies or stay in my room and do nothing. We're teenagers so of course we need something fun to do. Any options?

2007-08-23 16:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happened?

2007-08-23 16:28:11 · 37 answers · asked by Isabelle 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 1.5 years has someone who she says is now just a friend but who keeps calling and texting her(once a week or so). this guy took her virginity but is now married to someone else, nevertheless he feels the need to stay in contact. he is in the military now and stationed in texas but I can't help but feel that he is holding on for a future rondeveau when he is done. she tells me that he calls her frequently and on at least one occasion has requested that she talk dirty to him to which she said she declined. also she says he keeps telling her how things are going bad with his marriage. from my experience guys do not generally want to be friends with exes unless they still want something else too. am i crazy and reading into this too much? things are going very well between us and I don't want that to change but I really want this guy to just go away. how do I effectively tell her that I'm not cool with this?

2007-08-23 16:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Awhile ago I lent a work 'friend' about $300 as he claimed he was in a bind due to health issues. He later used the money to buy shoes and take his wife and mother out to dinner. Besides that... We made a deal that this money would be repaid to me at some point when he was back on his feet and more finacially stable. Not long after that he was fired from the company. This was about a year ago, I decided not to presue a friendship with him from that point due to other issues. I do know how to contact him and I still want that money back! How would you suggest I bring the subject up that will be effective and get results? (That doesnt involve using a hit man or blackmailing?)

2007-08-23 16:24:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I got my crushes number and I called her and we talked for 5 minutes then she said she'd call me back (which she didn't). She missed the next day of school and the day after she saw me at lunch and walked over to me and hugged me and talked to me. Why she act like that??

2007-08-23 16:24:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 16:23:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he yells at her, won't let her leave the house and took away her credit card, he treats her like **** and i he hit her a few times, i saw him do it once thats how i found out. It made me soo mad. But my sister asked not to tell my parents, she knows that if my parents get involved that they will definately get a divorce, but she has a 1 year old, and she doesn't know what to do. She's so unhappy and her in laws are doing everything in their power to make it worse. She cries every day thinking she made the biggest mistake of her life, and she's only 23. I don't know what to do, im afraid to bring it up and ask her if she wants to tell our parents because i don't want to remind her and make her even more unhappy. Im really in a pickle and i don't know what to do. What do you guys think?

2007-08-23 16:23:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friends parents are seperated, and i'm not really sure what to do to help them. they never want to talk about it, but today they said they don't think i even care. i really do care, but i don't know how to show them that i care. i know their going through a rough time, but i'm not sure what i can do to make it better! help me please

2007-08-23 16:21:04 · 5 answers · asked by ME 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do now?

2007-08-23 16:17:37 · 35 answers · asked by Bo 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently been having promplems with my 12 year old son. I raised my son till he was 8 years old all by myself because me and his father seperated when he was 1, and I married right after he turned 8. His father has never made the effort to see him or spend time with him and up until next year had never paid a single dollar in child support. His father is well known around town and people constantly speak about him to my son. He always brags about his father and any time I try to say anything negative he comes to his defense. My husband of 4 years has been there for him whenever he needs something, yet he favors the father that has never given a s**t about him. Now that he pays child support he suppose to have him on the weekends and he has yet to pick him up once. Will someone please give me some advice or try to explain to me why my son favors the dead beat dad that has never been around?

2007-08-23 16:17:29 · 62 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family

Alright, so my grandfather who is doing horribly, is now out of the hospital.

He isn't going to get better... only worse.

Today, I ran into work, to get some time off.

I got Sunday-Friday off to go visit him.

I cannot leave until Monday Night, and its a 12 hour drive, and because I'm 17, I don't want to drive at night.

So If I leave Tuesday Morning, I will get their at night, so that gives me Wednesday, and Thursday to spend with him, and then I drive back on Friday.

I think if I drive its going to cost me 200 bucks.

If I fly down their, that will give me an extra 20ish hours to spend with him. its worth the 3,000 bucks, since this could be his last time.

However, I didn't budget to fly down their until Christmas, and I didn't have the budget for a 3,000 flight.

If you were in my situation, with both scenarios possible, is it worth it?

(me and my mother are driving down their together/flying together)

It would cost 2,000 for a "Economy" seating.

2007-08-23 16:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by davidthought 2 in Family

I am not trying to be rude but I go jogging at the park, 3 laps, and this kid is about my age or older and he goes on his scooter along a path laughing and once I ran past him and he laughed and I looked back and he had his teeth down touching his chin almost and laughing and he freaked me out so I ran out of the park, and once in a while he is there when Im running im afraid one time he is going to try to hit me and ill have to crack him, what do I do?

2007-08-23 16:12:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband feels like he is only needed for his paycheck. While it is true that his income is a major contributor in the household and we couldn't make it if he did not work, I wonder if I do too much. A list of my responsibilities in the home: clean, cook his lunch and supper on his workdays, take care of 3 kids, take care of the pets, do the laundry, take out the trash, buy the groceries, take the kids to their appts, foot the bill on everything extra that is not in our budget, study for school, take the two oldest to school and pick them up every day, run all the errands when needed, buy all the kids clothes and supplies for school. The list could go on and on. I wonder, do you think he is only good for a paycheck because he doesn't do anything else in the family? He gets up, takes care of his toiletries, eats, gets his stuff together and goes to work. On off days, I have to get myself and all 3 kids dressed and the diaperbag packed so we can go out. How do I get him to help?

2007-08-23 16:12:45 · 22 answers · asked by rhainnedroppe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anything i can do to fix what i wrote:
I dont think I should contact you anymore for now..
You already know I have feelings for you because I always want to see you but you just, never have the time. I know you dont feel the same about me. Last night I got really drunk and Ive said some odd things..I think I only said it to get your attention..Im sorry. When Im drunk, I sometimes say/do stupid things. I honestly want to do it with you because its fun and all..but its just not right... Im sorry for teasing you. I cant help it sometimes because my body is saying yes, my mind is saying no!
All the guys Ive dated in the past has only wanted me physically It sucks.. Thats why I never had a long term relationship.. I am almost 30 and I finally wanted to try it a different way. I thought maybe older men would be better for me.....but I guess it all depends on the person. Age doesnt matter.
It doesnt seem like you want to get to know me either. I ask all these questions about you, but you never ask anything about me. I never tried so hard to try to go out/get to know someone, I feel so pathetic..because Im practically throwing myself at you~ Im sure you get plenty of women like me. I definitely dont want to be one of them..so i think this is a good idea.
Guys have been asking me out lately but declined because I wasnt interested....
But things will have to change now. Im gonna see whats out there.. We are still friends! We'll keep in touch ok? We have each others #/email..
When my feelings for you fade...maybe we can build a true friendship! Being friends is the best and lasts the longest.

2007-08-23 16:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years now, and he ask me if I was ready to have sex with him. I love him, and I wanna make him happy, but I'm a virgin. So, can anyone help me, and give me any ideas please?!

2007-08-23 16:10:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating