I am with a girl that I care about, and my ex girlfriend is calling, its messing me up, cause I care about her too. Help!!!
2007-08-23 16:33:12 · 5 answers · asked by notre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell one about the other and you won't need our help anymore.
2007-08-23 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the one that you don't care as much about. Seems that an ex is just that, an ex. Stay true to the one ur with now. The ex is probably regretting that she's not there anymore, or she's just playing games, cause she knows you have someone else. Dude, you have to make that choice, or you're going to be left all alone!!!
2007-08-23 23:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by angel_handz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic problem, and the main reason why I don't cultivate "active" friendships with exes. Your current girlfriend is not going to understand your attachment to your ex, and why should she? Would you be anymore understanding if the situation was reversed? Your ex is a constant implied threat to your new relationship whether you can see that or not. So, you need to decide who is more important to you, then distance yourself more from the other one. Be honest with yourself because the answer may surprise you; (you might decide your ex is more significant to you than you realized). Whichever you decide,once your decision is made, inform the one you didn't choose as soon as possible...(I don't envy you that task, but it is the right thing to do). Then, stick by your decision faithfully.
2007-08-23 23:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to like more than one person!
Call her back!!!!
2007-08-23 23:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by howdy folks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be with either if you don't know which one you want - it's not fair to both of them.
2007-08-23 23:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋