Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

My sister, and MOH of course seems like she doesn't want to help with anything. If i ask her opinon on anything.. she says.. whatever you want. My fiance can't even think of someone to be his best man (thinking about his dad) or groomsmen. So I'm thinking just not having a bridal party b/c everyone is so uninvolved. Is this a bad idea that i would regret?

2007-08-23 02:37:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Are we trying to EARN their affection?

It seems that women will go to the end of their sanity to give their husband affection and joy, but the man will make little to no effort (sometimes negative effort) to give their wife affection. Maybe a man can answer this...maybe the women can affirm it?

2007-08-23 02:34:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everyday but changing girls and having sex with the same girl but once in 20 days. will this both give the same level of satisfaction

2007-08-23 02:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I have this friend who dated a guy and they broke up few months back but we were talking about how he was a bad guy and all that and the subject of sex came up and she was saying that when eva they did (which was every night she stayed there) she was not really up for it everytime, well pretty much all of the times. She is very shy and gets nervous when confronted and I dont think she would say no even if she really did not want to...she also let slip that he once made her give him head...positioned his 'you know' in front of her face and pushed 'it' towards her so she just did it...now she says when eva she thinks about it or does anything like that with her new guy she feels sick and almost throws up...I said you could talk to some one cos that is serious she keeps saying "but i let it happen". then she also says she cant do anything bout it cos she feels guilty...what would you call that and what should she do!!?? plz im worried about her

2007-08-23 02:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like, I am not looking for smartass answers like when you are in the bathroom, or at a funeral or etc etc etc....

But I am talking about the kinda "weird" moments in the day where it might still be weird to ask a girl out....such as....

-Driving in the car? Can you seriously say that if a guy wrote down his phone number and held it up to you while you were driving, that you wouldn't think it was cute or funny?

-Shopping for groceries? This one I don't think is super weird, but would it be nice if a guy walked up and wanted to carry yor basket or push yor cart becuz he wanted to ask you out?

-At yor job? I don't mean like office jobs, cuz eveyone know's office's are just breeding grounds. But how about if you work at like a customer service place (restaurant, DMV, gas station, at the mall...etc etc etc) Is it okay for a guy to ask out while you are working?

I am trying to find out if all women would rather be asked out at a bar or whenever is a good time? Thank you!!

2007-08-23 02:31:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's in 6th or 7th grade. But theres this boy that was a senior in school his year who was very good friends with her. He would walk her home everyday and hug her. She started to get kind of scared though he wasn' doing anything. She just felt awkward being such close friends with him. He emails her all the time and she sends me their emails. In one of them he talks about how he missed not talking to her and said he was about to cry after he saw her beautiful ocean blue eyes. Then in one she tells him she's not ever talking to him again because he refuses to say something to her, so he begs her to keep on emailing him or he'll die. Is this guy just really dramatic or should I telll my younger sis to stop talking to him. whenever she does, he keeps on emailing her. I'm hoping he gets more busy in college. She was talking to him to just be nice but their conversations become much to serious and she really doesn't like him. I would tell him myself but I go to a different school than him

2007-08-23 02:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by ------ -- 4 in Family

i took my cousins swimming and meet one of my best frends with her cousin and i fell totally in luv with her and my frend fell in luv with my cousin as well we talked and it turned out thet we had more in comon than i thought she fell in luv with me as well but it turned out that she lives in america and shes onley here for a week but we got to go out on a few dates and we fell in luv with each outher more.

problem is she left yesterday and know i dont know what to do coause she told me the next time i would see her would be in two years so know i dont know what to do and i just dont seethe point in life know that shes out of my life.

so i dont know what to do i mean we will keep in touch and all but i dont know how im gonna make through two years without her touch or her kiss.

basicly ive lost the will to live without her she made evrything fun and funny.

so what shold i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-23 02:23:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so ready to cry. We've planned an outdoor wedding in a rose garden with an outdoor barbeque at a park and the weather forecast says thunderstorms. We have rain site at the garden thats inside, but obviously not as pretty as the garden...but at the park we're just under a shelter, but nobody will want to be there if its storming. i can't believe this...i've spent so much money on the barbeque reception.

2007-08-23 02:18:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My 17 year old daughter is taking cannabis. We have caught her several times, we can also tell by her eyes when she comes home. We have confronted her several times, always ending up in big arguments. We have also grounded her several times, only for her to carry on again when she is allowed out. We have suggested talking to a councillor or the doctor, but she refuses. Recently, we have turned a blind eye when we know what she has been doing, but it is breaking my heart worrying about her, and is she going to do something stronger. Should I carry on turning a blind eye to avoid the grief and arguments, and hope she grows out of it, or confront her and take the grief that will go with it. Its not just the arguments, if confronted, she storms out of the house, and I am left wondering is she going to run away from home, move in with some junkies, basically I imagine the worst scenarios possible. What should I do, and is there any practical steps can I take?

2007-08-23 02:16:05 · 18 answers · asked by Steve D 1 in Family

Should all moms work or should some stay home?. ARe educated moms who stay home failures?. What do you think?

2007-08-23 01:56:20 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i adore traveling, and that is all i want to do. but i know that this day in age we need a degree
i have traveled quite a bit and i only have a year and 1/2 left in college.
so my question is how many people feel trapped, as if they feel like they cant do want they want to because we have to make other people happy.
example when i finish college i want to live in italy for a year. more than likely it wont happen because then youre then set to the REAL world of REAL jobs, and then soon after that marriage will come. i just want to travel. ANYONE HAVE THIS PROBLEM!?

2007-08-23 01:42:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 01:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by bday_hunter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my church was going to a Mission trip to DC and planned it for several months w/ 2 other churches. I was looking forward to it for months until they recently said i cant go.

Reason: They said that the homeless people there will kidnap me, shoot me, or even worse!

I thing this sound like a huge pile of BS.

I mean, my cousins went there a month ago and HE IS A YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME! Also, the ppl coming there this time w. me have ppl my age and even younger than me. The D.C the the USA's capital, so it should have enough police there right?

Thanks for reading my problem and i would like to hear your opinion about this (Plz dont leave stupid comments)

2007-08-23 01:35:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I’m a stay-at-home mom and I’m practically raising my kids on my own, since my husband is working at nights and sleeping through the day. The time he spends with us is max. two hours a day so I have to deal with everything that comes along and be both mom and dad. It was fine for a few years but now I’m just sick of it. I feel tired all the time, unhappy and very alone. It’s like they all have so big expectations of me when sometimes all I really want to do is scream and hide in my bed. I love my kids and my husband but I need a break. I talked to my husband about it and he suggested that I’d go on a trip on my own for a few days. But does needing a break makes me a bad mother and wife?

2007-08-23 01:27:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been browsing through some the Q&A on here and I'm disgusted with just how many ignorant people there are out there! If the father to a womans child has been violent or abusive they get told well u shouldnt have been dumb enough to get pregnant. Or if its a boyfriend who's left, it's well u should have waited until u got married! I have 2 children and I am single, my boyfriend was abusive towards me and I was with him for 7 years before we had our first child. He only started becoming abusive after our 2nd child was born, so I left him. I work part time and I'm studying for my degree in Law. So does this make me 'stupid', 'dumb', or just another statistic? Really before people make these cruel comments they should think that they don't know 100% of the story and definately shouldn't be so judgemental towards single mothers! A happy family is a happily contented one with 1 happy parent rather than 2 unhappy ones!!!

2007-08-23 01:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im needing something really special! help

2007-08-23 01:08:02 · 17 answers · asked by moosemgtf 2 in Weddings

My girlfriend is going to Central Michigan for her 3rd year. I have never had to worry about her partying and going out with girls to clubs.

Since we have been going out, she has not bothered to party or go out and drink. I am very clean and straight edge when it comes to smoking and drinking.

She has broken news that she and her friend are going to go to another university sometime when there big rival week is going on. ((most likely to drink with her friends))

How should I feel about this?
It really really bothers me and I tell her that, its not that I dont trust her, I just dont accociate with that. Please Help, I have been with her for 4 years, and I feel that it has been a hidden thing for her. ((she might of missed doing that, Drinking and Partying)

2007-08-23 01:01:05 · 5 answers · asked by Novice Ring Buyer 2 in Singles & Dating

I went clubbing on tuesday night. I saw the guy that I've been talking to for like 2 months now and he knows how I feel about him. Then, I saw some girl and she was all over him. I ignored him the whole night and act like I never saw anything. He knew that I saw the girl all over him. He texted me the next day and asked me if I had fun at the club but I didn't respond back because I wasn't in the mood to talk to him. Did I do the right thing by ignoring him? Is he still interested in me or he is trying to see how I'm going to react?

2007-08-23 00:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im following the advises given by the online community to me.. and now, i wanna ask again...

my best buuddy and i were close, he almost told me everything about his life..

his got a gf just last 3 weeks ago, and actually, my best buddy has doubts on this girl.. he confessed to me that he cannot feel his girlfriends love to him...

i told him that maybe he has quite a high standard when it comes to relationship and his gf didnt meet that expectation... was this right to say?

he also told me that he is now tired and his love life is cursed or something... i told him that if he will decide to break up with his girl, they must talk about it.. am i again right about this?

i told him that it is unfair to the girls part if that would be the reason i mean, i know his gf loved my best buddy so much and my best buddy cant see this..

he has doubts from the start, and i dont wanna that my best buddy will be hurt! what should i advised him about this girl? what should i do?

2007-08-23 00:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help! my birthday is coming up, but i dont know what to do ? i have no money and my mates are depending on me to have a party of some sort. Crisis, what shall i do?

2007-08-23 00:45:18 · 16 answers · asked by baby phat 2 in Friends

i am a skater girl and just want to no

2007-08-23 00:41:15 · 8 answers · asked by whatsername 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 00:38:08 · 15 answers · asked by puja maniyar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 00:29:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He can't say he loves me unless he is drunk. he has real problems expressing any emotions apart from anger.

2007-08-23 00:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by laura 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and we are always arguing with each other even about simple things that's causing problems, what should i do to avoid this or any advise that we could do because we love each other that we don't want this relationship be put to waste?

2007-08-23 00:22:42 · 2 answers · asked by honey_106 2 in Singles & Dating

so my friend is bi and recently told me her biggest crush has always been on her hot older sister, which i think is sick. should i warn her sister or keep my mouth shut?

2007-08-23 00:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by stephanie_the_fish 1 in Friends

I found out my partner played around behind my back 6 months ago. Well since then we've started seeing each other again & he states he is truley sorry & wants us to be together again. Well i'm wanting to leave my options open & not commit to anything just yet because i'm not sure what i want. I'm chatting to other guys on the internet but haven't had any other contact with men. My ex knows all of this as i've been 100% honest about it all. Thing is i'm just wondering if anybody feels i'm doing the wrong thing?? I just don't want to rush back into a relationship with a man i'm not sure i can trust. Any feedback is welcome. for the record, we were in a very long relationship & have 2 young children together.

2007-08-23 00:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 00:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by jadhav 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy had this lyric as a nickname on msn msngr that was aimed at me!!! this is how it goes "but u urself are nothing so divine...just next in line" i was so pissed when i read it that i blocked him and avoided him the whole time.. before this insult he confessed in another nick that he realllly liked me... and now after like 2 months from the incident he hinted that he still has a thing for me and had this as his statues on facebook "but i'm bleeding and my hands are bruised" he had this for about 3 weeks and i still havn't replied back in anyway...should i keep ignoring him or should i give him another chance??

2007-08-23 00:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by suray f 2 in Singles & Dating

how can l know lf he wants only fun with me or something more than sex?plus he is separated and has kids...

2007-08-23 00:08:44 · 3 answers · asked by ann 3 in Singles & Dating