Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

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2007-08-23 03:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

It's hard to really get out and meet people, especially guys because I work, go to school, and have a 2 year old daughter. Anyone have any suggestions on something they have personally tried??

2007-08-23 03:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by shamrock girl 4 in Singles & Dating

He
. Always finds a reason to touch me. usually just tapping me or poking me and when i look to see who it was he just looks at me and smiles.
. Has been giving me compliments. Not heaps,but enough.
. He always finds something to talk to me about.
. Will sometimes say things with a sexual undertone.
. Has told me some personal things
. wanted to know who i like
these are just a few things. is he just friendly,or is there something more here.

2007-08-23 03:20:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, if i marry another physician, is it possible to spend time with family and balance work???

2007-08-23 03:20:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was laid off 5 or 6 months ago, i got a job it starts in 2 weeks (been married 6 years with 2 kids) and my husband has been paying the bills but he has been complaining the whole time he says he is tired of it that i should be paying for everything cause a woman should not the man, he says when i get my paychecks i am back to paying everything and i will have to pay him back all that he has calculated he has paid for those months! our son had to go to school with shoes that dont even fit him cause he said i should learn my lesson for not working. we dont have any food in the fridge either, just some hotdogs cause he said this is another lesson. what do you all think i should do?

2007-08-23 03:19:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 03:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by diksha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone have any ideas to get hubby more interested in helping with the baby? We have a 7 mo old that he ADORES, however it seems to be my responsibility to take care of her. We BOTH work full-time, we don't have the funds to hire a maid or quit our jobs. But he will get home, say he's tired and retreats to the tv all night to leave me to change, feed, bathe, etc the baby. If I ask him to watch her he will but he leaves her in dirty diapers (he didn't notice). Also she's eating solids and if she gets hungry while he's watching her he just hands her a bottle so he can finish his video games. He does a few cleaning things around the house when I don't have time but then he jumps on me about how I don't help out with cleaning enough. His parents where nothing like this, honestly his dad did more around the house than his mom. So I don't know where he's getting this example. Please help! I'm so tired and getting very resentful.

2007-08-23 03:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by brigirl_00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the process of losing my home and I am afraid my family will not forgive me. They don't know about me losing my home and I am afraid to tell them because I know I will lose them. I walk around all the time with chest pains and so scared. My husband is away at work all the time. He works on boats so he is gone for a month at a time, and I know when he finds out he will probably want to leave me. It has been a hard couple of years, (several family members passing away and things just out of control). I have two small children and if it wasn't for them I would want to end it all, however sometimes I think they might be better off without me. I feel like I have no one to talk to and at this point am afraid to tell people what is going on. I know I sound like a coward, but I am so scared. My insides shake all the time. Just needed to write this to help get a little anxiety out. Thanks for listening!!!

2007-08-23 03:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by moname 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 03:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1 in Family

My husband has recently started frequenting a strip club for the first time in his life (he is 23). We just moved to a town where literally the only place here to "go out" is this strip club. I know he is not cheating on me because he has before and I know the signs. He enjoys going out and has told me I can go with him to "check it out" and see that there really is nothing that bad going on there. He really does not give the stippers much money, and basically he only buys drinks and admission in. This whole thing upsets me and he understands that, however I also understand that he has never been and probably never will be the type of guy who can sit in the house and watch tv everynight. We have an appointment next week for marriage counseling and do not believe in divorce. Any suggesions?

2007-08-23 03:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so curious... if you're a bride now, or when you were...what were some of the things that you thought was the duty of your bridesmaids? After reading that someone wants a cousin to call for RSVPs, and others say "I just wanted them to show up and be comfortable"...

What was your situation?

2007-08-23 03:12:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend whom I love very much is taking care of children that I am almost positive are not his. These kids, (boy and a girl) look nothing like him. It's a joke to everyone around him and we have been telling him for years that he should get a paternity test just so he can know for sure but he won't do it. He keeps making excuses like It cost too much money or because he really thinks those are his biological children. It is causing major problems in our relationship because I know the kid's mother knows the truth and she uses him for money to take care of some other man's kids but my boyfriend won't listen to me when I tell him that. I don't know what to do anymore. It bothers me so much because the kid's mother intentionally causes problems in our relationship by calling him all the time and asking him for money and half the time she won't even let him see those kids. Somebody please tell me what to do. I don't want to leave him but this has been going on for too long.

2007-08-23 03:11:47 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs. Digitts 1 in Family

It's crazy, I am not being a baby about this but it gets me mad when it comes to my birthday and my family does not make it such a big deal but when it's someone elses birthday like any of my brothers or sisters and my stepmom it's a big deal and i make it my business to be there. i did not even get a phone call from my stepmom not even an email. then to top it all of two days before my bday she called and asked me if i wanted to go out for my bday for dinner and i said yes and she never called again. how should i go about this????? please help

2007-08-23 03:09:06 · 12 answers · asked by humble little lady 1 in Family

e.g. at foreplay would you dirty 'talk' about having another woman in the bed 'giving you a little lick' or maybe 'giving him a suck' or 'letting him have a go on her etc but only keep it strictly as a fantasy.

2007-08-23 03:06:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 03:06:02 · 17 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I acted like a total ***** to this guy Shayne...
And yeah we had a HUGE fight!!!
IDK what to do!!

And no im not having sex with him!!

not an option at all!

2007-08-23 03:05:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 03:05:48 · 36 answers · asked by Sc00ter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 03:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by leelee_012 1 in Singles & Dating

I talked my boyfriend into going to court, and getting partial custody of his daughter. He hasn't seen her in three years, and paying child support. He listened to me, and now he's been going to court for it for about five months.

Even if I don't think its right for me to get involved (which I do), I realized he hasn't asked me to go to court with him for support, once.

I'm not upset over it or anything, but now i'm wondering, why

2007-08-23 03:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well here we go Im only 24 and I have two kids a 7 yr old and a 5 month baby since I had my first baby I only dedicate my life to her and I was being really responsible and stuff but lately I feel that I completly forget about myself I use to be the light of a room and so positive with big smiles everywhere ,but now dont have any new friends and the ones back in high school are all married and in their own little lifes. I feel lonely and somehow unhappy dont get me wrong I love my babys but I also feel that I need a little space, some time to reconect with myself if that make any sense. Any ideas and how do I meet new people?? hahaha almost funny. Please do anwser and give me a lot of ideas

2007-08-23 03:01:50 · 3 answers · asked by SusyQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

think its ok to let them run around in places such as waiting rooms and public transport. Keep them under control. When me and my sister were kids we never run riot because we were taught not to and we respected other peoples space. And why do parents let kids scream and shout on trains too, have some consideration for your fellow passengers. we are raising a generation of louts!

2007-08-23 03:01:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hubby got big into porn 6 years ago,blew $10,000 between porn and fees/bank charges from hiding it and being financially iresponsible.I paid it off.He dabbled in work,then we got a business-his dream.I put all my savings,borrowed...into this cause I knew he'd be good at it.He was,loved it,was happy...for the 1st 6 months,then got cocky and got addicted to cocaine-said he deserved it.That was 3 years ago.We bankrupted,he went thru rehab (but he's confessed that he has used drugs as recently as a few months ago).When doing drugs,he was physically abusive and I reacted by getting counseling.but also buried my pain by drinking excessively.I haven't drunk or wanted to for 6 months.I filed for divorce and he moved out in May.I like him out,but we see alot of each other because of the kids,he is being great about helping to run them to practices.He has worked steadily for 11/2 years and claims that he is working on himself.I care about him,not love love-should he get another chance?

2007-08-23 02:59:47 · 18 answers · asked by Angie07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am mail and am gating fater, I don't want that, what should I do

2007-08-23 02:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by BABANA 1 in Friends

SO I'M INTERESTED IN HOW GUYS THINK

SO IF YOU ARE WALKING DOWN THE STREET AND A GIRL IS WALKING TOWARDS YOU WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK?

WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU LOOK AT?

WHAT COLOR HAIR DO YOUR PREFER?

COLOR EYES?

HEIGHT?

SIZE?

COLOR?

STYLE?

PERSONALITY?

WHAT CHARATERISTICS DO YOU LOOK FOR?

WHAT OR YOUR PET PEEVES WITH WOMEN?

WHAT IS ONE THING IF YOU SEE WON'T YOU GO OUT WITH A WOMAN FOR?

sorry bout the caps i'm at work and they like us to type in caps and i don't usually remember to turn it on and off

2007-08-23 02:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by ~Behind These Hazel Eyes~ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is a little upset with me right now because I tell her the truth as a real friend is supposed to do right? She is always complaining to me about her husband-she says:
he is lazy and won't clean up after himself-leaves hair in bathroom after her cuts his hair, makes dishes but leaves them in sink for her to wash, etc. He doesn't work-he says he is trying to get something of his own business started but in meantime he is doing nothing but making up excuses as to why he shouldn't work(he'll say how am i supposed to figure out how to start my own business if I'm working all day)-(mind you this has been going on for 2yrs now, I mean come on!!!) She works fulltime and has baby in daycare cause he is to lazy to look after THEIR BABY!!!!!!!!! She has to work, go get baby and tend to baby all night, cook, clean- EVERYTHING. Any errands-she does it-alone! She always asks my opinion but gets mad when I tell her she needs to change her situation and that he is using her.Agree?

2007-08-23 02:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, A couple of buddies and I were out havin' a few, not out to pick up women, just havin' a few. When we overheard some really corny pick up lines. I was hoping to get some of the strangest pick up lines that have been put on you. The dumbest one will get my vote.

2007-08-23 02:52:42 · 12 answers · asked by rudeguest 6 in Singles & Dating

I had my one bf back home and I had the other one at college. I didnt tell neither of them about the other. I was just trying to see which one I liked better and plus they were both taking me out. I dont understand what the big deal was. Guys do this all the fricken time! Then somehow they found out about eachother and they were going to fight. Then all of a sudden they both broke up with me and went to the bar together. What the hell is up with that crap. They became fast friends and they told me they were united by their hatred for me! Now no other guy will go out with me for more than one night. I try calling them but they tell me to leave them alone. What should I do? Why didnt they fight? Why did they become friends I would assume that they would of hated eachother because they knew that this hot girl could have either one she wanted!?

2007-08-23 02:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is getting married September 1. She keeps asking me to contact various relatives (HUGE family) to see if they're coming and how many - because they haven't RSVPed yet.

I honestly do not have the time (or energy because she has been such a Bridezilla) to contact these people.

Can I tell her politely, "Please contact them yourself."??

2007-08-23 02:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by tony 1 in Weddings

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and living with him for 1. Ok my boyfriend has 3 really close friends. When I started dating him they did not have any girlfriends, actually when I moved in with him last August they did not have girlfriends. Now one got engaged in May but she already had a house. Now the other close friend proposed last night, they have not even been dating a year and just moved in together the beginning of this month. I am like what about me, me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 years. I feel he was going to propose soon, but now it is like competetion and no real suprise anymore, all of us will probably have our weddings next year so that sucks, but they are older than me.

2007-08-23 02:45:38 · 13 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

I'm 15 and me and my twin brother share the same bedroom. Two nights ago I opened the door and saw him lying on his bed jerking off. I closed the door again and was afraid to go back inside for a couple of hours after. That image of him wont leave my head. I dont know why this is happening and I keep seeing his penis in my mind. I dont want to be thinking of my brothers penis. I have my own!!! Why does this keep happening to me??

2007-08-23 02:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family