Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

he just married my mom and now he lives n my house but whenever i see him were both silent and say nothing to eachother???? it bugs cuz its really awkward!

2007-08-23 07:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she has a nice a**?? or is that not how you do things?

just wondering :) ♥


*if girls read, would you be happy or offended?

2007-08-23 07:21:44 · 18 answers · asked by nocomment004 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to decide what's more important having a part time job clean and keep a well managed house by myself w/out a service, have home more cooking, a wife around for support for hubbie's business trips, and take care of things all yourself.

Or keep a well paying job with long hours and hire people to tend to house, have hubbie go on business trips by himself, and get take out because I get home so late. But have extra money to buy a lot more things. Nicer furniture, house, car etc.

2007-08-23 07:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by Lyla 3 in Weddings

okay i just came back from lunch and yall know the deal with my ex and him being a hoe now so tell me now why his ex boyfriend that he just broke up with is putting salt in our ex game with his new man casue at lunch they charged him up. and tell me why my home boy is gone try to date my ex boy friends man what yall think about that

2007-08-23 07:20:05 · 5 answers · asked by kendra 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I had broken up, then decided we would try and work things out but have not officially became a couple again, but I was working up to breaking things completely off with him b/c I have discovered that I just wasnt in love with him anymore. Even though we weren't a couple, we still faught all the time. So, last night we went out to dinner and I was going to tell him there, but we had an amazing time 2gether. He was very sweet and kept me laughing all night. We went home and "hooked up" (I'm a grown woman, so leave ur mean comments at the door) and then cuddled all night. My question is...do you think that he was starting to get the hint that I didn't want him, so was trying to fix it? It wasn't b/c he wanted some because we "hook up" a lot...even if we'd been fighting all day. But like 2 days ago, he was very mean to me...and then last night, it was like being on a first date! What's going on?Do you think I should still move on? Too little too late?

2007-08-23 07:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

In between the ages 16-17....i dont know where to go and if i see one what do i do....like im desperate right now....i have to make Shayne Jealous...and i need to meet a guy fast!!

2007-08-23 07:20:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my BF said he wanted to break up with me but then said he was unsure.so i told him to take a month to rethink it. its been 2 weeks and 1 day...its killing me...i have so much from my heart to say...i want to tell him now...but i said id give him a month...i dont want to be pushy/unfair...but its driving me crazy...what do you folks think?

2007-08-23 07:18:01 · 20 answers · asked by cometlady89 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently just got back together with my girlfriend. Here's the situation. I am in the wrong as well so I know I shouldn't of done what I did. Ok

Well basically, she was dating this one guy "Billy". I was her friend at the time. Then one night something happened and she broke up with "Billy". The thing is her dad doesn't like any of the guys she ever dated but me, and the thing that happened that night made her break up with him, so her dad won't let her date anyone but me, he told me this on the phone when the girl called me a couple of days later. Anyways she told me what happened that night, and then we got back together after that. (This is where I did wrong, don't give me too much grief) Recently she gave me her myspace password..I had no idea why, but anyways I went on there(mistake 1) and noticed she was talking to "Billy". Turns out everything that happened that night was a completley different story, and that she broke up with him because she wouldn't of been able to stay

2007-08-23 07:16:14 · 10 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Singles & Dating

so angry with me these treatments make me feel sick all the time anyone have any advise for me that would be great.

2007-08-23 07:15:24 · 15 answers · asked by julianneciechoski 2 in Marriage & Divorce

makes me be numb to the family depress or not i told my aunt if family is like that i rather be alone and she said thats not good either i said yeah but iam hurting myself and my family wont be the reason anymore so how do i enjoy myself with family during the holidays

2007-08-23 07:13:22 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

What do you think? Can the woman do the proposing? If yes, how could she go about it?

2007-08-23 07:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

2007-08-23 07:09:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this new guy thats started work recently. he works on a different floor from me but the other day he helped out on my floor thats when i noticed him, or he noticed me! im not quite sure of that though. and this guy stares like mad! usually if u look at some one staring at u, they would look away but he doesnt! lol he just stares and stares, i did smile at him. now i dont c him that often but when i do he just stares n i smile. why does he stare so much? i do think he's good lookin but how do i start a conversation wiv him as i dont see him that often and i get really shy all i could do is just smile and quickly walk off!

2007-08-23 07:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by pretty g 2 in Singles & Dating

The majority of my friends happen to be men. I am happily married and my husband approves. I do have female friends just less than men.Recently I was with one of them at a beach house, long story short somehow her keys ended up in my purse... I never drove, unlocked any doors, touched her keys she has 3 roommates that could have. Well shes blamed it on me, I returned the keys the next day at about 3, like I said I had no idea I had them.. She lost my number ??? so couldnt call me to tell me to look for them...so she sent me an email, which i checked at 2:30... basically what i am trying to say is over these Fu@@ing keys, I have received 4 emails about two pages long of her bitching... all the way down to my personal relationships with others, to how I raise my kids... I have said I am sorry I dont need this kind of drama in my life, its nothing personal we just dont see eye to eye on things. we need not continue this friendship. am i wrong? my men friends wouldn't do this

2007-08-23 07:06:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we had a couple one night stands

2007-08-23 07:04:51 · 12 answers · asked by silkesuperfly 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about the low-down kind. The kind of person that scrimps, cheats, saves, and takes from others while not giving of themselves.

There was this true story of a lady (not married and childless) who wore the same black dress everyday, and at the time of her death she was worth 500K which she gave to the Catholic Church and needy. Tell, me folks is it worth it to scrimp and save like this? Also, do cheap people have a hidden agenda for why they are cheap?

2007-08-23 07:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I found the corners of a condom wrapper. When I asked my boyfriend about them, he got really mad and asked me what I had been doing. Then he acted like I never showed him anything and I was crazy. Later he said he got the condom from a friend at work and he used it to masterbate so that he could see his "load". I dont know what to believe. Is it possible that that is what he did?

2007-08-23 06:59:56 · 6 answers · asked by TIFF 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a would you rather question test. So that means you can only pick one!!!!!!
Would you rather Date:
1. a blonde chick or a brunnette chick?
2. a girl w/ big boobs or a big but?
3. a tall girl or a short girl?
4. a tall and curvey girl or a short stick thin girl?
5. a girl for popularity or love?
6. a girl for looks or personality?
7. a girl who likes to party or stay at home and watch movies?
8. a girl who has a sex influenced reputation or a clean good girl

This is for you to enjoy and know yourself or something, so PLEASE answer truthfully!!!!!


Thank You!!!!!!!

2007-08-23 06:58:59 · 63 answers · asked by E-Saur 3 in Singles & Dating

Listen i have this friend who i email he's going through a seperation and i'm married. Ok! i explained to this guy in the begining that i'm married. So he emails me saying he thinks i'm hot and when am i going to go to lunch with him and give him a massage. I always was serious with him, but this time i got creative to shut him up i said. "Ok! one day i'll make you an awesome dinner at your place and give you a message there. He emailed me back thinking that he would respond to what he wanted to hear he said" what about my two sons what am i supposed to do leave them and go out. Nah he said i'll stick with the going out to lunch and emailing each other. Its funny ladies or guys you tell a guy what they want to hear and they backoff. Maybe that will shut him up right. My curiousity is why did he back off to that offer now. When before he was hittin on me left and right. Not that i would go that far, i love my husband but i just wanted to see what this guy would say.What does this mean?

2007-08-23 06:58:38 · 19 answers · asked by Rain 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why do people scold other people because they get prego and they dont want to the child? it's not thier fault that the condom broke or that birth control failed. nothing is 100%. so do you expect that person to be celibate? sex is thier right.

2007-08-23 06:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was going to give it another try with my ex...I put in for a transfer from one store to another and even gave my landlord 30 days. My ex came up to help me move back with him and then he hits me with this piece of paper asking me to sign over rights to our little one. I have custody and he has to pay child support...I was willing to drop the child support, but not give up custody of her b/c of how he can be. I have two other children (pre. relationship) and he wanted me to sign over rights to them as well. I didn't do either. Now I am fighting for my job back and have to move in with a friend. I know I did the right thing...as a mother, I did the right thing. He is also trying to be all "lovey dovey" now too. I just dont' get it. Why do men do these things? We have lived apart for 3 years....I was willing to give it a go b/c he kept telling me how much he missed me and wanted his family back...and then he does this. I am at a loss.......

2007-08-23 06:57:41 · 15 answers · asked by Latino Heat 4ever 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know them, I hear that they are slightly different to church vows


Thank you

2007-08-23 06:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I have this girl, who I hella get along with and share good vibes with, was feeling like she could be something special, more than friends. we talked on the phone everyday for 3 hours or more, and had a blast hanging out.

well she hit me with the "I just want to be friends" line, and I admittedly was dissapointed but what can I do?

she's an amazing person so being friends is still rewarding.

but we don't talk like we used to (cause of me), and we have this convo about how she misses my company, and why cant we talk like we used to,

and I explained to her that before I wanted her to be the special lady in my life, the one I put before everyone else, and now that were just friends we talk and I treat her like all my other friends.

I dont treat my friends bad by any means, just dont talk to em everday for hours on end.

basically she still wants me to treat her and ace like I did when there were feelings involved, and still just be friends.

am I being selfish or No?

2007-08-23 06:54:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone sends a wedding announcement to you and you live out of state and will not be attending the wedding, is it customary to still send a gift?

2007-08-23 06:54:19 · 14 answers · asked by Shanna 7 in Weddings

My Bf and I are attending an engagement party...are you suppose to bring a gift to these??? Or just go for a celebration??

2007-08-23 06:53:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really need help. I like this one guy SO much. A few days ago i went to a banquet he was at. I have on a dress and a necklace that were both really pretty. i looked really good. He was sitting in front of me and every now and then he would look back and stare for like 10 seconds and smile. And when they were give out awards we were sitting at different tables because he got to the banquet before me and there wearnt 2 spots left at any table and he moved his chair so he could stare at me. Also, he got an award and had many aisles he could walk down to give it to his dad to hold and he walked right past me. I have called him on the phone many times and he has most of the time called back. but, one day i asked him how to tell if a guy likes you and he said cant you ask you parents or something? why are you going around asking people this? and he was the one to end the convo by saying well i will c u at the banquet. when ever we talk its like 40 min to and hour and a half. He like me??

2007-08-23 06:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by lizziemrocks 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and i are currently in a hard position. We took custody of his 14 yr old child last year but had to give her back because of false alligations made by her about EVERYONE including her mother, aunt, grandparents and my brother. All of the alligations turned out to be false.

The child is currently in her mother's home but her mother will be going to prision in a few days for 15 yrs. We moved in with my parents where my brother lives so we cant take the child back.

What is going to happen to the child? What will happen to my fiancee for not being able to take her?

2007-08-23 06:48:22 · 21 answers · asked by Hollie 1 in Family

SHE JUST GOT OUT OF A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP BUT AT THE SAME TIME SHE WAS MESSIN AROUND WITH ME. SO SHE TELLS ME SHE LOVES ME AND ALL THAT LIKE ITS JUST ME AND HER. SHE SAID SHE FELL OUT OF LOVE WITH HER GIRL BUT APPARENTLY NOT. IM MOVING BACK THERE NEXT YEAR AROUND THIS TIME AND IM VISITING FOR TWO OR THREE WEEKS BETWEEN NOV. AND DEC. I REALLY LOVE HER AND SHE LOVES ME, I KNOW SHE DOES. WHAT HURTS IS THAT SHES SO PERFECT, LIKE FORREAL. WHEN YOU KNOW YOU'VE FOUND THE ONE, ITS HARD TO JUST LET GO. I BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH AND SHES JUST...WOW. I CANT EVEN EXPLAIN IT. LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS: ONCE YOU'VE BEEN TREATED LIKE A QUEEN, YOU CANT GO BACK TO BULLSH*T. EVEN WHILE SHE WAS WITH HER GIRL, I WAS ALL THAT MATTERED. HER GIRL WASNT EVEN AROUND LIKE I WAS. I WROTE A BLOG ABOUT HER AND IT WAS SO CUTE, I THOUGHT SHE WOULD LIKE IT, BUT WHEN SHE SAW IT SHE SAID PLEASE TAKE IT OFF. LIKE SHE'S HIDING ME OR SOMETHING. :( THAT HURT ME. I WISH I COULD BE THERE, BUT I CANT RIGHT NOW. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP.

2007-08-23 06:48:06 · 6 answers · asked by Redd 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying that all girls want to be but I have 8 or 9 friends who always complain on and on about not being skinny enough like the abrocrombie models or runway models and all of them have attempted to be anorexic (Sorry about SP) and it makes me sick because average is good dont be underweight nor overweight keep a balance diet take care of your body FOR HEAVEN SAKE WERE ONLY IN 9 TH GRADE AND ALREADY YOUR TRYING TO HAVE A EATING DISORDER TO LOOK LIKE THOSE HALF DEAD MODELS, thats what I tell them and most of them are under 120 lb, I'm 116 and proud to be healthy, but why do teenage girls want to be bone skinny so bad, my friend says guys like skinny girls better and I know for a fact thats not true thats like saying only Blondes are hott, sheesh people these days sometimes you want to slap them and tell them to get a life?

2007-08-23 06:46:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you look for in a women ?

2007-08-23 06:46:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating