Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

I'm a 14 year old girl turning 15 in January. I have really strict parents & they're overprotective to me. I need more freedom. I just want to be able to talk on the phone with boys but they said I cant because my sister did alot of things when she was 13 that changed my parents level of trust in both of us. I understand why they don't want me to talk on the phone with boys because their reasons are good but I still think its unfair. They wont let me go to parties either even if there is supervision, unless they know the person & their parents. Boyfriends are a no as well since my parents said i cant date until i know what I'm gonna do with my life. I don't understand why they cant accept the fact that I'm a different person & wont do the same mistakes & that i need to make mistakes to learn from them. Its not like I've done anything that would make them not trust me. Whenever i confront them about this issue it ends with yelling. How can I get them to trust me more?

2007-08-23 05:48:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband like most can be an ***-no ones perfect but I constantly have his sense of feeling his arms around me, his lips, his scent what can I do to concentrate on something else- I could be focused on a project at work or my kids or anything else and yet he has to pop into my head.

2007-08-23 05:41:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have no money and will be on the street soon (he threw me out and only gave me 500 dollars.) I am scared and have no job yet because we just moved here so he could take a job. I have an abcessed tooth and can hardly chew so Im basically wasting away. Please I need good answers. Thanks.

2007-08-23 05:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by keanumc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to one of my co-workers. He didn't think it was funny is there a way to make amends? Does it even matter? He's kind of a jerk he calls me beautiful and stares at my ti­ts when he talks to me.

2007-08-23 05:39:52 · 12 answers · asked by Margo is better than you are 4 in Singles & Dating

Im getting a little aggrevated lately because sometimes if I happen to glance at a girl (not even on purpose) and shes with a guy, he'll tap her on the ***, or look back and then put his arm around her or something to rub it in my eye. Is it me or are they trying to glorify the fact im a lonely piece of s*it?

I was also at a bar and a girl was looking at me, like she was interested, and I asked her a question about something and this fat kid she was near went over to her and said "What was that honey?". Then he was staring me down for the rest of the night.

I've been dating someone who has looked at the girl I was seeing before and I don't get happy about it either, but should I have confronted the fat kid?" How should i react to these guys seemingly rubbing it in my eye that they're girls are "spoken for".

BTW, I was at a restaurant the other night and stared towards a girl's sandals and the guy was giving me a chaperone look. Im not doing anything wron

2007-08-23 05:37:30 · 12 answers · asked by Pep Harris 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in serious relationship since i was in hs.. I love this boy alot.. we've been together for a lot of ups and downs and had gone thru a phase of off and on again... But that's in the past. We have never gave anyone else a chance.. and i'm feekin out when we talk about marriage and moving in together.. (i would move in with his fam) I'm going to 23 and we hav not said we are going to get married but the thought of it... i already get cold feet... I mean this was all i ever wanted... A man that i know for many years.. loves and adores me.. we have a great relationship... Why am i freeking out?? What's wrong with me?

2007-08-23 05:35:11 · 19 answers · asked by Abstract Expression 2 in Singles & Dating

Any fund raising ideas?

2007-08-23 05:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-23 05:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my indian bf already separated with his wife for 5 years.
now we are planning to get married.
please tell me about indian muslim marriage rule, coz I don't want to have a problem someday if it's against the law.

2007-08-23 05:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 05:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by tony2nesha 1 in Singles & Dating

at the moment im working in a bank doing a job that i enjoy but i dont rush to work on a morning - basically i enjoy my work mates best. however, ive been married just over a year to a fab guy who i wish i could do more for. he earns in excess of £80k working as a self employed property developer and my income is rubbish so my contribution to the house is minimal.

i wish i could have a lovely tidy house; always have the clothes washing done and make nice meals every night but i physically cant as i dont have time.

my husband knows ive not been happy for a while and i was off ill for 2 weeks, last month and although i was ill, everything at home was perfect. therefore we were BOTH happy. he has a stressful job abd when he's finished a project he'd lv to relax abroad for a couple of weeks but we cant 'cos of my job.

is it "acceptable" to become a housewife when you dont have children? would people look down on me and think i was being lazy?

2007-08-23 05:22:30 · 25 answers · asked by Pretty Polly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my mom's really expensive William Sonoma mixing bowls. I just broke a glass cup the other day and she wasn't angry at all, but this is really expensive, she will FLIP.What should I do? I figure I could just put it in a plastic bag and throw it in a dumpster...but then she would wonder where it was, and thats kind of sneaky...I could also tell her one of the cats knocked it over, but even if she believed that, I would feel really bad...HELP ME. She gets home IN 5 HOURS!!!!!


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2007-08-23 05:21:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we just started talking online but wen school starts i think we will talk in person. how do i tell her online that i like her!! or give little hints.?? how? please tell me!! we talk a lot back and forth but i don't know if it's just as friends or if she has a crush on me. how do i make my move ? ONLINE....

2007-08-23 05:20:17 · 2 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 in Singles & Dating

What are Blogs? Are they just to write about what you feel or any thing you want? Where can I make a blog, (besides myspace) What are the point in them?

2007-08-23 05:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

stay with him if he was laid off???

2007-08-23 05:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been seeing each other 9 months and to be honest I pretty much live there anyway. He works away during the week and on weekends I stay there. I also have my own key and can come and go as I please during the week. I've also stayed there on weekends when he hasn't been there. What do you reckon? Is it rushing into it? He's told me to redecorate and he'll pick up the tab so it'll be OUR house rather than just his.

2007-08-23 05:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by Seffy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having a cousin be a candlelighter in my wedding. She is 15 years old. I sent the invitation to her and her family. So that would be mom, dad, and her. 3 people total. When I received the rsvp in the mail they had put that 4 people were coming because she is bringing her boyfriend. I did not put 'and guest' on the invitation. I feel that is for adults with a significant other. Otherwise everyone could bring a friend. What do you think?

2007-08-23 05:09:04 · 29 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

Right now, my husband works and right now I have taken responsibilities as a housewife until my crew reports to work. My brother in law has moved here as well to work, and my husband offered to let him stay with us. First of all, he made the offer without discussing it with me first. We live in a studio apartment with 2 dogs. It's perfect for us, but crowded with 3 people. There are no separate bedrooms. There is no privacy to be had in the house anymore. His brother uses the bathroom, and doesn't flush the toilet. The trash piles up and over flows. Cereal boxes and milk jugs get piled around the trash can when they don't fit. No one takes the initiative to empty the trash. They wait for me to do it. I've asked for help with dishes since I cook. My husband doesn't like doing dishes, but I feel this is a sacrifice he should make since he introduced a roomate. His brother is also mean to my dogs. I'm considering moving out once I start to work. Any one have any advice?

2007-08-23 05:06:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friends son is autistic and deaf he wants a job but its very hard to find somewere for him to work. They have a old house that he really wants to finish fixing up so he can have his own place. my friend and her husband dont have enough money to finish it though, so if you could come up with some ideas we would be very greatful !! oh yeah we came up with the idea to make and sale cookies and brownies, thanks for your help to find some donations.

2007-08-23 05:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Friends

I have wanted to ask this guy out for about a year now, and he makes little hints to me that he is interested in me too, but I know he is very shy and I just don't think he will anytime soon, so I want to jump start it already and ask him out, but he is a customer of mine and I don't know if it is right or not? What if he really isn't interested in me, would it ruin our work relationship? Could my boss tell me I cannot see him if she found out?

2007-08-23 05:05:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sometimes wont eat for fear of contamination, worries about her heart amonst other things and often wont swallow her own saliva because of germs. Any advice?

2007-08-23 05:01:35 · 5 answers · asked by helen p 4 in Family

I was suppose to go to Minnesota for college, but for him i transfered to the college that he is planning on going to. The college that he is planning on going to doesn't have any dorm left, so him and I were going to get a place togethere. After a while he decided to tell me that he MIGHT have a kid with his ex. As any 19 year old would do, I freaked out. I turned off my cell for couple of hours. After I turned it back on, I tried calling him and text him but he kept ignoring me. Before the DNA test, the whole time he was hoping and wishing that the baby is his knowing that he is going to loose me. The DNA test finally came out a week later and the kid is his. For the past month, i've been trying to talk to him, i told him that i would treat the kid like my own. I would help him with everything. But he just keep ignoring me. His friend been telling me that he been out with other girls, but when I comfirm him about it he said he haven't. IDK what to do, who to trust.

2007-08-23 05:00:25 · 16 answers · asked by a1243232 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy gives me his phone #, I call him, he acts like he wants to hang out, then when the time comes he's got other things going on. I've chalked it up as having bad timing. I don't want to scare him away. He seems interested but we can never find the right time to get together. Do I try one more time as they say 3rd times a charm or do I forget him and move on??

2007-08-23 04:59:39 · 28 answers · asked by ALABLUEYES 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are trying to get my address in an attempt to control me, although they don't have anything to post to me, live 2000 kms away from me and don't even like me.

They have filed a report with the missing persons department although they know that I am alive and well. My father has my e-mail, and has nothing to say to me.

My parents are devoutly religious and I am not; and they have never given me a single word of encouragement or praise in my entire life. They deliberately took every opportunity to undermine my self-esteem and always gave the excuse that "I needed to be taken down a peg or two".

My mother ignored me or blamed me for making mistakes as a child and my father never listened to me and always hit me in a religion which encourages physical punishment.

They are trying to force my address out of me, what should I do? Should I disown them?

2007-08-23 04:58:35 · 10 answers · asked by hayden_fun 1 in Family

2007-08-23 04:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by ngirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now. And everything has been going pretty good. Except for the past month we haven't been talking very much and when he goes to say I love you he puts it as love you bunches and that's what most of my friends say! I'm starting to think he is losing interest in me or is about to break up with me. But I don't want to break up with him because even though I still love him I'm starting to feel that he has no feelings for me anymore.

2007-08-23 04:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 04:51:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets just say that your friend cheated on her bf and her bf broke up with her. But she realized that the bf meant the world to her and so she is trying to suduce him but all attempts are failing because of the bf's jerk roomates who will not let him come back to me. So is this legal or wrong if you accidently poke a hole in the condom and forget to take your birthcontrol pills? I guess she thinks that if I get pregant then he will love me and stay with me forever. But first she has to trick him into making love with her. Is this wrong or illeagal to do? What do you think?

2007-08-23 04:47:15 · 35 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Singles & Dating

its the only way i can think of getting my money back from my ex girlfriend...any ideas,thanks.

2007-08-23 04:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The latest trends in my hometown are these: sign up for a registery at a travel agency for your honeymoon or there is one bank in town you can sign up to do a wedding money registery.
Part of me thinks it is tacky but then again I am unsure. What are your opinions?

2007-08-23 04:42:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings