Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

1. They constantly accuse you of cheating (when you're not)
2. You discover that they have profiles on dating websites
3. You discover that they are still in love with an old flame
4. You are not able to be yourself around them
5. They text you to tell you that they're cheating
6. They tell you that you're crap in bed
7. They want a divorce after every argument
8. They suffer from mood swings

Please be honest and frank

2007-08-23 04:40:31 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been separated for 1 week and I need to get the rest of my stuff out of that apartment. He's informed the office to "watch out" for me because it would be trespassing if I came up there to get MY things. Do I have rights to go up there and get my things? There are things my 16 month old son needs, and I haven't been able to get the rest of my stuff because my mom has cancer and my brother has been sick. Can I call the police if he doesn't let me get my stuff out? We are still married, he can't do anything if I have a key and my stuff is still in there, can he?

2007-08-23 04:39:17 · 10 answers · asked by MomOf1boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think her (MIL) background is important to understanding her: She was adopted by a couple as an infant. She is their only child. Her adopted mother passed away a few years ago, and she has little to do with her dad. She became pregnant with my fiance (F) at a very young age, and raised my F without the help of her parents. Since my F was born she has been divorced five times, and married six. According to what my F and the MIL have told me, the five guys she divorced were all jerks who were totally abusive in one form or another. F is all MIL has; F is the only stable relationship she has, and she is neurotic about it.

MIL is constantly asking my F to do huge favors (do her college homework, help her while F is on vacay, bring a cell charger across town during rush hour). Talking about this is touchy for F, understandably. I want my F and I to compromise on how we politey deal with MIL, since MIL is obviously not changing. I don't want MIL to come 1st in my marriage to F.

2007-08-23 04:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had this long running dispute over her hugging and kissing other guys when we go out.

These aren't close friends just people that go to the same things we do.

She says she was brought up to give people a hug, but she also likes to kiss them on the cheek.

I said I don't mind the hugging part for ones we know better but lay off the kissing altogether.

To me that's only for family and really close friends.

What do others think, am I being too strict?

I know if I did it to other women she would be furious.

2007-08-23 04:35:11 · 18 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if you think you have stumbled onto evidence of a relationship that could ultimatlly indanger the entire family? Something that is so bizzarre that you yourself can't believe it could even happen on television?? I am currently writing down all the evidence I have that my wifes therapist could be either having an affair with her, or he is setting up dates for her with other men... Either way, if caught, he would lose his liscence. And the star wittness???? My wife.

My wife was diognosed with bi-polar disorder. I have read many articals and books on the subject, which makes me half dangerous! LOL I have too many facts to even try to put down in this....as a matter of fact, I have even thought of going to the police. But al I have is circumstantial. It would not hold up in court...unless....my wife testifies.Read my other questions for some background. Would you want to expose this scheme and endanger your existance, or leave it alone and kiss your wife goodbye?

2007-08-23 04:33:46 · 35 answers · asked by not for now 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We rarely talk... But she knows who I am. She wished me a happy birthday on Facebook this summer. I don't know her on a personal level, but... How can I do that? Just spontaneously ask her to dinner? Or start by asking her to join me and a few guys doing our homework together? Any help is appreciated!

2007-08-23 04:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 04:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 04:30:17 · 19 answers · asked by myworldwillneverbewhatiexpected 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girfriend and I have been dating since last X-mas but, at the time she just got seperated from her x-husband. I didnt know at the time that she was married but finally told me that she just got legal seperation.

Now, she has brought up my name to her mother and family(a few days ago). I have never met them but, spoke to her older sister once over the phone.

Now, I feel that they don't like me because they think I'm the reason for their seperation. But, in actuality I had no hands in it at all. She has told that I had no part in their seperation because I didnt even exist at the time.

Her x-husband is a close family friend and of course favored by the family. Well, the situation just made me look really bad and i don't know what to do with her family. They are very conservative (chinese) people who basically made up their minds and most likely cannot be changed.

I need advice on how to deal with this type of situation please.

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE.

2007-08-23 04:30:14 · 10 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has cheated on me more than once (many times in fact). I know that he would give his life for mine and we will never divorce. I know that no matter who comes along we have a special bond that could never be replaced. We have been together since he was 18 and I was 26 (5 years now, I know big mistake). He tells me that he loves me but can a man cheat and still love you?

2007-08-23 04:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there such a thing as a girl wanting too much sex? Like does it scare you off if she wants it, apparantly, more often than you do? And secondly, do you lose respect for a girl if she's too freaky? Obviously by freaky I don't mean totally weird, just adventurous, you know, toys, anal, tying up, etc...

2007-08-23 04:26:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... I told this girl i like her... 2 weeks later my ex hits me up... now i got stuck in a tight situation and dunno what to do cuz my feelings for my ex came back and accidentally told the other girl that i liked that... I know i messed up... what should i do to fix this... since all this occurred i dont wanna relationship with anyone right now i just wanna be close friends... how do i go about telling her... (not my ex)

2007-08-23 04:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

your spouse looking at an ex boyfriend naked on the web cam? and she was on cam as well wearing lingeree? Here is most of the whole story... There is this man, who makes 400,000 a year working in a "plane tower" directing the planes as they come in. He buys his wife everything, and daughter too. She, however, spends some of that money on lingeree and shows her ex boyfriend this, on the web cam, and he strips for her, I think they do more than that... but, what would you do if you found your wife doing this when you came home from work early??? The ex boyfriend wants to see her in person, but, she says no, it can't go further than this. Does she not worry that her husband will probably dump her for even just doing this??? sigh... he works hard for her and she makes him look like a fool behind his back =(...

2007-08-23 04:22:19 · 59 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not a cold person. I'm very warm and caring. I think with my heart first and my head second. I'm passionate and loving. But I can't let myself grieve for my losses. I just took a college course on Death and Dying. I've read books by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. I know grief is natural, and I recognize the stages of it. I can lecture someone else on the importance of grieving, but I can not seem to do it. I have suffered so much loss in my life. More than an average 36 year old should have experienced. BUT I CAN'T GRIEVE. I'm so afraid of it ruining me, my outlook on life. Counseling hasn't helped. I can't seem to even talk about it. With a total stranger, it's impossible. With closest friends, I can talk a little, but not too much. I just feel very lost, and very lonely right now.

2007-08-23 04:21:05 · 9 answers · asked by lotus princess 2 in Friends

the hooker is 25 and my ex is 36

2007-08-23 04:19:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she always says me to wear 2 condoms but thats doesnt good for me.i cant enjoy sex that way........

2007-08-23 04:18:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfiend live 3 hours away from each other but we email and chat and everything, and its working out great. We even talk on the phone, but its long distance so we have to like spend $10 everytime we talk. I was just wondering if there was a phone number I could use that would let me talk not him without costing. Like if there was some kinda of company I could call or anything.

(We live in different cities)

thanks everyone<3 =]

2007-08-23 04:18:02 · 7 answers · asked by ChikaLatta 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 04:17:05 · 25 answers · asked by carebaby 1 in Family

My boyfriend has died one year ago how do I make a new beginning in my life with out thinking him so much?

2007-08-23 04:16:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This teacher is always picking on me.I don't understand why..She's always picking on me. I didn't even do anything to her. My friends come up to me and tell me "why is this teacher always picking on you" and Im like "i dont know why" and they say that she's too bias towards me..anyways,I don't know whats wrong.Sometimes she'll say "oh,i think im exaggerating" What should I do???

2007-08-23 04:14:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is 21 and he is hinting that he is gonna propose?.. Am I too young?

2007-08-23 04:14:18 · 103 answers · asked by xox its only me xox 1 in Weddings

We have been together for almost two years and have a good laugh together and he loves me and understands me betetr than anyone ever will but something is missing. I think its the passion..he is like a best friend. We have sex often and he enjoys it but its not like random exciting sex. We are like best friends and I know he is an amazing man but I dont love him like I used to. He is quite femminie and it drivesme crazy, I like a mans man and rough. How do I end it with him without cheating.?? we never argue and I dont want to leave being a cow.. i want him to know he is great but just not for me.. he thinks we are going to be together forever. i dont want to hurt him!!

2007-08-23 04:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does your man drink beer or other alcohol on a regular basis. and if so are you worried that they will become an alcoholic?

2007-08-23 04:07:11 · 50 answers · asked by fiona t 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he does not understand... i dont want no scrub!!!! so for his sake how can he get it together?

2007-08-23 04:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by ms_kaay 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 04:01:45 · 25 answers · asked by WAAI 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel incredibly hopeless right now. I have nobody to talk to. I'm so depressed and I'm desperate to feel better just to get through the day without going insane. The one person I had left me over a month ago and I'm so alone..... I'd like to talk to someone who has similar problems and can make me feel a little better.

2007-08-23 04:01:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always wondered why tall woman have such hard problem finding the right guy? Not every tall woman tho. The majority.

2007-08-23 04:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by C.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

i am fearful from the future,from financial problems that might occur,i don't want my future wife to feel betrayed ,don't want her to hate me for money problems,i want her to live comfortably and happy with me and not in misery,i love this girl,should i marry or not?
what shall i do?
please serious answers

2007-08-23 03:59:22 · 72 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a mature guy, married for many years but she stopped love-making when the dreaded menzies came along. Since then has never allowed me to touch, cuddle or fondle her, you name it, for the last twenty ( yes 20) years
She has gained a bit of weight, no real problem, and has the most fantastic boobs, I'm a boob man. But she won't discuss her problem go see a doctor, nothing. It drives me nuts.
Been searching for a lover for years but where do I look? I've been going out of my mind for someone to hold and be with a few hours. Don't want to leave her.

2007-08-23 03:59:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I enjoy one on occasion. I've also been with many other women who enjoyed watching them with me. My question though is, do chicks dig them when not with a partner?
If the answer is no, why is that? If you enjoy them with a partner why not alone as well?

2007-08-23 03:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating