2007-08-23 04:30:17 · 19 answers · asked by myworldwillneverbewhatiexpected 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After repeated affairs, spouse beating that has gone on longer than 6 months,
2007-08-23 04:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you can no longer be yourself and the bad out weighs the good, when you are happier without the person. This does not mean it is painless, but why go through life miserable? Some people out grow others, or find that in time they have discovered that they have went in different direction. I don't understand why people stay together if the fight all the time, sometimes they use the excuse it is for the children, well isn't that a way of making the children unhappy as well. Just what all children want to see is mom and dad fighting all the time. Why not show them that it is okay to be strong and be happy?
2007-08-23 11:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce should never be an option at any time in a marriage. Before you get married you want to see the true side of the man/woman that you are going to marry. From then you want to decide if he is the right guy. But besides that, you really shouldnt get divorced.
2007-08-23 11:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is the best option when cheating, abuse (of you and/or kids) are involved.
Try to REPAIR through a third party (like counseling, pastoral counseling, things like that). If that doesnt work...then divorce. Just never stay in a bad marriage for the kids.
2007-08-23 11:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got divorced when I saw myself 10 years down the road, still unhappy about the same things (alcoholic, workaholic husband). I remember thinking to myself that I could hang in there - it's not like the relationship was abusive - but if I stood a chance of finding real happiness for myself, I had to get out.
Good luck! (Happily married to a great guy for 15 years now.)
2007-08-23 11:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by tacka.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are putting this question up on yahoo answers, and not discussing this with your husband. You should go to marriage counseling and see if it can be worked out. If you don't have kids then fine get a divorce, but if you truly aren't happy then leave. But your kids will be majorly affected by this.
2007-08-23 11:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be the best option if your relationship with your partner is harder to fix, discuss it with him and you two can only find the solution. divorce is not everything to be last or to come over with that problem. you can answer your question without any opinions of others coz your in the situation and we all doesn't know the cause of that trouble. good luck hope you can make a right decision. and wish it to be over. thanks
2007-08-23 11:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by ryo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know you would make yourselves and others truly happy when you are split up.
When divorce is the fruit and key of happiness, then it is right.
2007-08-23 11:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are happier without them than with them. But be careful, it is not a fun ride for either person, and it will make it much harder on your life.
2007-08-23 11:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The day you get back off honeymoon
2007-08-23 11:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Grin Reaper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋