he does not understand... i dont want no scrub!!!! so for his sake how can he get it together?
2007-08-23 04:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by ms_kaay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a mamma's boy, ALWAYS a mamma's boy.
You will NEVER change him or her. Mamma's will always do things for their sons. It is in their nature to do so. As for him "getting it together", well, eventually he will realize that there are certain things that you can do for him that his mamma can't.
Unfortunately for you, these are not enough to make him "grow up". He will always turn to his mamma for things no matter what you say or do. What ever you do, DO NOT give him an ultimatum regarding his mamma. You will lose EVERY time.
I hope that this has helped you out in some small way.
2007-08-23 04:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out of his momma house and prove to u that he wants to be with you . If he doesn't move out inthe amount of time that u will give him then maybe it is not as serious as you may think. Dump him if he does not clean up his act in a certain amount of time.
2007-08-23 11:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by latoya r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Par with men who know dem selves and can teach him da ropes..as also, his mama must stop giving him everything he ask 4 and treat him like a man...zeen
2007-08-23 11:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to talk to him make him see his wrongs and rights.organise a day out with agroup of friends and also comminicate with his friends about it try to be hard on him he will be fine
2007-08-23 11:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by lszondi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling his mama to let him grow up and leave him to make his own decisions, mistakes and everything else that makes a man a man
2007-08-23 11:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not happening. Don't try to change him. Find someone who is already independent.
2007-08-23 11:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh let me know when you have the answer.
i cant stand this. and a lot of the time...they dont even realise that they are so dependent on their parents....
2007-08-23 11:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st get job.move out of mom's house get own apt. then girl..
2007-08-23 11:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋