Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

...on last sunday. i asked a girl i ''liked'' to go wit me to the movies.she brought her best friend...so i brought a friend too. b4 the movies...it was like i was the only one trying to talk. it was like if i didnt say anything..it would be like silence for a long time.(did i do something wrong?)

anywayz..it was last week i went wit her to movies...but yesterday..when i saw her at school..i said hi.(she was with her best friend) well she said hi but afterwards i heard them laughing.and whenever her friend walks past. she always looks at me in a funny way.

what is she thinking? How come she laughs after seeing me?

2007-08-23 08:26:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years. We NEVER and I mean NEVER would fight until recently. Everything he does pisses me off. HE is so annoying about things, but God I love him. I want to hit him and love him the same time. He always goes out because he works until 12 at night so after he works he will go out. Im already in bed when he comes home because i have to go to work at 8 every morning. And lately i have NEVER been jealous about girls being around him, becasue i know he would never doing anything. But now it bothers me when hes out with his friends and thir are girls thier. What is that about?For some reason we just bicker ( i dont know if i spelled that right) all the time. What should i do? Just let it go and why do you think we are like this all of a sudden.

2007-08-23 08:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Dr.Yang 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's this kid in my math and english class and he's really cute. He talked to me after school today, and he also looked at me alot during class and he kept waving at me. How do i know if he likes me?

2007-08-23 08:23:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm living with a man who claims that a notice was posted in the newspaper in Boluxi, MS. . .and since he didn't respond. . .his ex wife was able to legally divorce from him.

How can I confirm that?

How can I do it FAST?

Fory

2007-08-23 08:22:55 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mum and dad always argue. And me and my dad have never got on. Sometimes i jus feel he never really wanted me around. He nags, moans, and never smiles at me, i can neve remember when we emotionally connect, thats possibly because we never do. I go round my bofriend or friends house and find things so happy it makes me want to cry. Iv even told my dad how unloved i feel. Well basically my mum cant take anymore , as her marriage is falling apart, they row aswell and now my mum has decided to break up. We stuck ina tricky situation with bills and debts and my dads walked out without telling us where he's going. Does it sound horrible when i say that i am happy hes gone? Hes my dad , shud i love him? Deep down i jus feel i really couldn't care, i feel like mayube things could get better. Should i feel guilty for this?
Any help wud b appreciated

2007-08-23 08:22:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ask out a girl you seem to share alot with also the fact she is fit but problem is wont be back to hawk conservancy till next year (shame)

2007-08-23 08:22:25 · 20 answers · asked by the don 2 in Singles & Dating

if i was sitting on the bed in a french maid outfit right now and you walked into my room, what would you say or do to me?

2007-08-23 08:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys like farm girls or city girls?
and do guys like girls that read and play lots of sports or no?

2007-08-23 08:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years and spawned 4 beautiful children. The problem is that I married for the worng reasons, and at a young age (18). I feel that I have been robbed of my youth, and my relationship is not progressing any more. I love my wife, but its not the same kind of love I had when I married her. I don't think I am attracted to her physically as I was once. I understand that having children does change your body, but we really don't have anything in common with each other to build a realtionship on.
I hear and see my friends, and they are always going on about the chicks that they have been going out with and the fun that they are having. I feel like I am missing out. Even when we do go out as a group of lads, I am the first one to go back home, as my missus has put a curfew on me, i.e. get back by 11 or else. I love my kids and will never hurt them, but is there a way I can get rid of this anger I am feeling, so hopefully I won't do something I regret ?

2007-08-23 08:18:32 · 26 answers · asked by dangermouse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you rather have a girl thats tall (above 5'8) and really thin or a girl thats short (Under 5'3) and also thin?

(dont say you'd rather have curvy, I'm just curious about these two sizes)

2007-08-23 08:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by brubabe 5 in Singles & Dating

my BF recently told me he wanted to break up,but after he said he was unsure.i told him to give it a month and think.its been 2 weeks and 1 day...im dying inside...if he does decide to break up he mentioned still being friends...i couldnt handle that...i can offer him so much more...and i could sit back and watch another woman hold his hand...he said maybe we could get back together after he had been dating awhile if that does turn out to be what he decides...but...how can i do that if he did whatever with other woman...i dont want whats left of him...even though we are different and i dont want sex before marriage...we have a good bond...we have something special...he cant throw that away...he just cant...

2007-08-23 08:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by cometlady89 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this girl for 3 years, everything was going right until I had to leave for 2 months this summer to do research. About a month into it she started flirting with this guy in her summer class, but I'm not the jealous type so I didn't pay attention. Little did I know, she was just waitin for our next fight (however small) to leave me, she then proceeded to block me on everything and refuse to answer my calls. So I didn't even get an expanation.

I was recently voted in as the vice president of a student organization in college. She was lazy but I pushed for her to get an officer position as the webmaster. I'm usually very professional, but now I feel like I have to kick her out. I can't look at her or be reminded of everything she stands for in my life; n certainly i can't work with her at all. I've talked to the President n another officer about it, all the officers except me are girls, so I know I can get it done. But should I do it?

2007-08-23 08:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by hockeyfreak 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel bad for my aunts new husband. All my aunt does is ***** all day about how a marrage is supposed to be a commitment, yet the husband works a 12 hour job and just wants to nap when he gets home.
They have a baby, and whatever suggestions the husband makes at my aunt, my aunt shreds his face with a wood chipper and says he is implying she does not know how to be a Mom. They argue all the time, and it usually ends with the husband sighing and shaking his head.
One time as they were walking inside, the husband grabbed me and said
"Listen kid, all women start out good, but NEVER GET MARRIED, or you'll end up like me!"
I was wondering if they will get a divorce...do you think so?
and what causes relationships to end up like this?

2007-08-23 08:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Falling for a guy!!!??!? help?
I am dating this guy and have been for about 3 weeks. we are really happy and never argue. I am falling for him but dont want him to know i am all serious because i dont think guys like that. i am not clingy by no means and do diss him sometimes... i really like him and i know he likes me but dont want to seem so into it ..... help?!?!? guys what do you want!?!?!? i dont understand you

2007-08-23 08:14:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married a year ago and kept my name, because we are having the ceremony/reception in 2 weeks so all our family can enjoy our happiness as well. (The first time was a court house marriage) So NOW I need to change my ssc, my drivers license, my name on my bank account, and I also need to get a dependant military ID and get registered for Tri-Care/DEERS ..... I have NO clue how to do any of this... my marriage license only has my maiden name on it, it does not have my new married name on it.... I have two weeks after the wedding (give or take) to get it all done... I have no idea where to start! I live in TEXAS-- Fort hood. Thanks everyone.....

2007-08-23 08:13:51 · 18 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So, there is this girl in my class that I just met and she has a cool personality but her personality seems very fake, and she doesn't seem to like me that much and she looks at me weird (like jealous) but she always wants to hang around me. She has given me compliments followed by a dirty looks, but AGAIN she hangs around me..I am confident but not conceited
and I can tell the difference between a real personality and a real fake one..Anyhow me bieng grown I said to myself just ignore that thought and just be her friend..Well, it turns out that random stuff would come out of her mouth (like about sexual things) and how she plays on her boyfriend and hides things from him. I don't want to be to judgmental about her unfaithful ways but, somethings weird about her and if shes trying to cover something shes not doing it very well..She like insists on hanging out with me WHATS her problem? I'm out of high school and this is very disturbing...Any life experience's similar to this?

2007-08-23 08:13:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK, my mom really likes this guy in which I have no liking towards....he has already been with a 21 year old while my mom was seeing him. At the time he was 38. I hate it and I don't really know how to tell her how I have so much hate for him built inside. I want my mom to be happy with all of my heart but I don't want her to be with him.I was going on the internet to check my email and when I pulled up the browser and there was all of these sites that pulled up .....i just don't know how to tell her.....please help me.

2007-08-23 08:08:47 · 33 answers · asked by Mwahahah!! 1 in Singles & Dating

My step daughter will be living with me soon. Her mother is dying from gout and liver cancer. She tells me that I'm the best candidate since I've raised five daughters and two granddaughters and one grandson (in which we've recently lost). My step daughter only sees her father only once a week and he hasn't changed since he was with me years ago. He's still abusing drugs and alcohol. But his ex-girlfriend trust me to be a good mother. Her parents disagree and think that the little girl should be with them. They're in their sixties and set in their ways and are just adjusting to their daughters interracial relationship. We don't think that it would me fair to her. The first example was the act of cutting off the child's hair instead of learning how to take care of her hair. Otherwise they seem very nice.

2007-08-23 08:04:12 · 3 answers · asked by ms 3 in Family

He admitted it after I found out & said he has always watched it since he was a kid. He knows it bugs me but he says it's normal. We don't have sex as often as we like because of kids, tired, etc. (we can go months at a time) And he says basically he's too lazy to make the effort to have sex with me (and too planned out if we set a date to do it) so he just watches it instead. I found out he's been spending up to $60/mth on sites. I know he has other e-mail addresses but, he refuses to give me the password so I can see what he's really looking at (he's ashamed). When he was a kid it was phone calls to girls. Then videos, then movies and Playboy, now the computer. I found a lot of videos he had downloaded on our computer when I was looking for some pictures of our kids to print. I was so po'd and hurt. He says it's not cheating (of course he'd say that) but how do I know it won't evolve into on-line sexual chats with other people?!? I am forcing him to go to counseling soon.Help!

2007-08-23 08:03:54 · 21 answers · asked by aloha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 08:03:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She had a cool, down to earth personality - not a B I T C H. She's easygoing, one of the guys yet very girlie and knows how to take care of herself.

She's not "gorgeous" but very simple and has a cute face.

Would a shy guy be intimidated? and even if they're friends for a while, would he always be intimidated by her inner and outer beauty?

2007-08-23 08:03:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am happily married with a baby, but..
last night i dreamt abt this guy whom i used to work with, am asking him whether he is attracted to me, he says yes and we kiss, am not able to take this off my mind? what does this all mean ??

2007-08-23 08:03:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-23 08:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does my sister think her life is all about herself? She told me she wants to get married with kids someday. Why does she have to be so selfish to not understand that I don't want her getting married because I don't want to be an uncle? Does she seriously think I have no feelings?

2007-08-23 08:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 31 years old and a virgin. My parents did a real number on my head using religion and conservative thinking to freak me out about sex. I later became an atheist and now believe that sex is a basic animal urge not to be feared due to ignorant philosophy.

But now I’m freaked out about STD’s. I don’t believe condoms protect against everything and I’m pretty sure that current medical science will support my belief that you can get herpes even when there is no visible outbreak. It’s scary living in LA where everybody really does sleep with everybody.

I’m also afraid of my future spouse having a problem with me having had too many partners.

I want to make up for lost time and have a healthy sex life if I can. I get a lot of responses in a couple of personal ads and there are many people whom I wouldn’t have a serious relationship with but would be interested in being friends with benefits. Some are pursuing me very aggressively and I wonder if I’m being crazy for holding out.

2007-08-23 08:01:36 · 19 answers · asked by BNW88 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Use condoms if your worried about the diseases

2007-08-23 07:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by starsdl06 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 07:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by suhana 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY GF DUMPED ME AND CAME BACK. WHAT DO I SAY?

2007-08-23 07:58:13 · 2 answers · asked by Mario11 2 in Singles & Dating

I appreciate all of your help and wanted to ask you a question.

How do you deal with comments from others about the kind of person that you are? My ex-husband keeps focusing on the fact that I was not "committed" and "loyal" in his eyes. I spoke to my father about this and he said that "I cannot be committed to anyone including myself." I did not know how to respond.

I start to think that maybe the problem was me and not my ex-husband entirely. If I had been more committed, maybe he would not be so controlling and rude.

Also, my ex-husband does not want my daughter and I to move into an apartment. He said that was the agreement when he sent her to me. He is asking her to take pics of everything in my storage to sell it so that the money can be used in for her instead. I am so confused.

I feel like why can't others adjust to their husbands and not me.

2007-08-23 07:56:53 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,

My boyfriend of 2 years went on a 2 month trip without telling me.

I knew that he was planning to go but he wasn't sure about the day. I was planning a big "send off". He didn't even call to say "goodbye". We hadn't had an argument so it wasn't like he was angry. We've gotten past bigger problems. However, this time I feel like a fool because everyone knew that I was planning send off event (including my brother who doesn't like him) and then he just disappears. After days of frantically trying to reach my boyfriend I called his cousin who told me that my boyfriend had already left on his trip.

Now, after a month without a word, my boyfriend is leaving "I miss you", "I'll be back soon, my darling" messages on my answer machine.

I am hurt that someone I love would be so careless with my feelings and embarrassed for everybody to know that I am with somebody who would treat me like that.

Should I dump him (short-term or permanently) or just get over it?

2007-08-23 07:56:30 · 6 answers · asked by ime 1 in Singles & Dating