I went out with this girl for 3 years, everything was going right until I had to leave for 2 months this summer to do research. About a month into it she started flirting with this guy in her summer class, but I'm not the jealous type so I didn't pay attention. Little did I know, she was just waitin for our next fight (however small) to leave me, she then proceeded to block me on everything and refuse to answer my calls. So I didn't even get an expanation.
I was recently voted in as the vice president of a student organization in college. She was lazy but I pushed for her to get an officer position as the webmaster. I'm usually very professional, but now I feel like I have to kick her out. I can't look at her or be reminded of everything she stands for in my life; n certainly i can't work with her at all. I've talked to the President n another officer about it, all the officers except me are girls, so I know I can get it done. But should I do it?
2007-08-23 08:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by hockeyfreak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand your pain! But honestly, I wouldn't do it. Why compromise your integrity for someone who isn't worth it!? If she was a real woman, she would have told you the truth in the first place. You may not see it now, but she did you a favor. You seem like a guy who has it together, a great personality, goal oriented, etc. People like her only hold people like you back.
Don't give her a reason to call you jealous! If I were you, I would act like my relationship with her was no big deal and a complete waste of time. I wouldn't even acknowledge the fact that we were together. Every time I had the chance, she would see that. Go out, date, have fun. Eventually, she will see that your completely over her! And when the new guy dumps her... please don't take her back.
How can you leave a 3yr relationship for a guy you barely know? How can you cheat on someone? What goes around, comes around.
2007-08-23 08:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotiq8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. Your personal feelings and past with her mean nothing to the organization.
If working around her gets to the point where it is disrupting the organization, then you should sit down with the other officers and decide what should be done, most likely removing someone from their position.
On a personal level, since she has cut you off so completely all you can do is shrug your shoulders, walk away, and move on with your life. Don't waste any mental energy worrying about her anymore.
2007-08-23 15:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a bigger man and don't.The way to get even is flirt with the other girls and ignore her...That will hurt more!
2007-08-23 15:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by jd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting a lil b.tch she will get her one day .
2007-08-23 15:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes do it....i would!
2007-08-23 15:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by socalbabe58 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋