Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

How do I convince my wife to reciprocate while having sex?

2007-08-23 10:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by just_me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my name is...im 16 years old...I have 5 sisters one whom I am very close to she is 18 she is married with 2 kids(yes I know she is young)anyways...Last monday I got a phone call from her,she was crying she said to go to her house,to not call back and to not ask questions.I worried so I rushed over.When I got there she was crying and she told she wanted to leave that she wanted to "get out of here".I thought she was having some kind of nervous breakdown.She told me that her husband had beat her up because she wouldnt go inside when he told her to, so he beat her up.he was in the bathroom when I got there so I banged on the door and accidentally made a hole in the door.I confronted him,he didn't say a word.After two days my sister got back together with him and he told her that I was never allowed in their house again.I don't know if I should've interfered.He doesn't want her talking to me either. Should I tell him he's not allowed in my house because he hit my sis or what??????

2007-08-23 09:58:29 · 37 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you a wife or husband who suffers or struggles with a spouse who is addicted to porn? Share your feelings and why. If you could tell them how you really feel about their addiction, what would you say?

2007-08-23 09:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Committed Ministries 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bridesmaid for my sister in a few weeks, and really stuck for ideas on the 'old, borrowed and blue' (she has lots of new things). It's the 'blue' part that's really got me stumped.

Do the items have to actually be worn by the bride on the day? She is getting married in red so blue won't go with anything she is wearing.

Any ideas?

2007-08-23 09:51:08 · 38 answers · asked by Ricecakes 6 in Weddings

My husbands father married a girl who is younger than my husband, (she's 27), and she keeps on calling herself grammy around my 18 m/o son. It drives me crazy. My husband's mother died just 5 years ago, and he's still very upset about it. His new "step-mother" doesn't make any effort to see my son, any time she's seen him it was on holidays or when I invited her over. My husband doesn't want me to make a seen, but I can tell it really bothers him. What should I say?

2007-08-23 09:47:08 · 6 answers · asked by misty_dawn1100 3 in Family

I'm getting married June 21, 2008 and I asked my sister to be my maid of honor. She declined and said my nephew can't be in the wedding either. Our relationship hasn't been the best growing up but for the past 2-3 years, we've been like the best of friends. Them my mom died April 24, 2007. All the children made a pact to stick together no matter what. Next thing I know, she turns her back on the family except one of my brothers.
I love her to death. She's my sister. She did my brother the same way when he got married but then asked to be in the wedding 4 months before it happened. If she does that to me, should I let her be in the wedding? or No?

I don't know what to do because she won't talk to me!

2007-08-23 09:45:01 · 25 answers · asked by 2 Legit 2 Quit 2 in Weddings

we have been best friends since 93 and now hes getting married and wants me to be in the wedding. I get alone with his girlfriend i like her alot problem is she doesnt like me because im a female and we are very close. She told him that she suppose to pick the girls in the wedding and he pick the guys unless its his sister. She said i cant be the best woman and she already has the girls she want in her wedding. Im crushed and so is my bestfriend. I dont agree but i told him dont worry bout it. Now i dont even wanna go to the wedding. Am i wrong? Why is she doing this? Is it right for her to tell him i cant be in the wedding? What should i do im lost...

2007-08-23 09:43:51 · 20 answers · asked by the truth, do you hear me 1 in Weddings

2007-08-23 09:42:19 · 19 answers · asked by Dopeboy 1 in Singles & Dating

if your guy-friend asks you out, and you turn him down because you see him as nothing more than a friend?

2007-08-23 09:41:52 · 10 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey you guys, dis is really pissin me off. I can take rejection, i swear i can. But my really close friend who i had a crush on for a while is doing my nut in. Every time i come to see him, he drags his sister out with us, sometimes she doesn't want to come. I' know he doesn't have those feelings for me, but i havent asked him out, and i dont plan to. I'm also not so desperate that i'll be forcing myself on him, and not so fragile that if he was to turn me down, i'd die and fall apart.I find it more humiliating that he has to bring her along to what..protect himself? Ridiculous. And now he's started doing nervous habbits, like biting his nails or chewing the side of his lip, yet when i talk about other guys he'll get selfishly jealous, like i dont want you, but i dont want your attention on any other guy. I need any tips anyone has, he's not interested, i accept that, but when he comes to see me..on his own might i add, i don't drag members of my family along. what do i do?!!

2007-08-23 09:40:07 · 17 answers · asked by lotus flower 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7+ years and the sex doesn't seem to be improving on my wife's end. She just does it "for me". I have tried different positions, techniques, 94% of the time give her an O, and nothing seems to work unless she wants another child.

2007-08-23 09:40:06 · 30 answers · asked by chazmat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... i just met this guyabout 2 months ago.. and i guess hes been in love with this other girl for awhile.. but when he met me he told one of my bestfriends that he liked me. Then 2 weeks ago we were hanging out and he kissed me.. Then i find out a few days later that he's going out with that other girl.. the one that he says he loves.. and i dont want to b the one responsable for their break up but i really like him.. and my friend says that he still likes me.. so should i just try to get over him.. or should i really try to make it work?? PLZ help! =[

2007-08-23 09:38:53 · 13 answers · asked by meee 1 in Singles & Dating

recently went thru a divorce and have lost alot of wieght...I'm a pretty small girl as it is...I'm 5'3 and weight about 118-120 normally well now I'm down to like 102...i've lost alot and know cant seem to gain it back....when I get depressed I have no desire to eat...I wish it was the other way around but it's not....what can I do to gain my wieght back...plz help.....my clothes even feels disgusting on me....I soo hate my body right now...

2007-08-23 09:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give my maids these earrings as their gifts. http://www.helzberg.com/hdsim/jsp/catalog.do?product_id=1625094&channelId=-8806&programId=9314. My husband to be and I both agree that they are perfect and can be worn for years. My mother in law to be says it is insulting to buy another woman diamonds. These are friends that I have had forever, and there are only two bridesmaids. If I had 5 of them, I would spend just as much on much less. I just feel that if it is in the budget then why not buy them a nice gift? What do you think?

2007-08-23 09:38:19 · 20 answers · asked by MissyV 3 in Weddings

I need to file for divorce and don't know where to start?
Someone plese help!!
Thanks

2007-08-23 09:36:56 · 4 answers · asked by kam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because the though of going into a shop and buying one is abit terrifying, i also don't want any of my friends etc. finding out...

2007-08-23 09:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just give the number please! 1 or 2

2007-08-23 09:35:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I fight constantly. Many times it's small stuff, but sometimes I just don't think he "gets it" regarding finances. He spends money that we don't have on things for himself and justifies by saying it was "leftover from our vacation fund" (the vacation that put us about $4K in debt) or "it's something we both can use".

Another big issue is my weight. Recently, I made a comment that I wanted to lose weight. Instead of something like, "I'm behind you and will support you", he said there are things "I can't wear anymore and he misses that". It made me feel like a cow, which I'm not. I was a lot smaller at one time(after dieting and losing 60 lbs.), but I had an eating disorder that went along with that size. It scares me that I could get out of control with my eating once again. It seems as if he doesn't understand that fact. He pressured me to gain weight when I was skinny and now it seems he's holding it against me.

I'm frustrated and not sure what to do.

2007-08-23 09:33:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love pink and i also love sweets. i dont want any suggestions that include ashy or ash. thnx.

2007-08-23 09:27:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is a female condom now on the market that is said to prevent rape and sexually transmitted diseases . It is inserted much like a tampon and is a tube like receprical that has hokked barbs on the inside pulling inward. You stick it in...and you pull it out and it stays on like a bear trap . You have to go to the hospital to get it removed . I am a guy and I think it is brilliant.
http://www.smh.com.au/news/world/antirap...

Any thoughts on this?

2007-08-23 09:23:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been together for 15 years, married for 3. When we married i knew him and his past. Through out the years, he hasn screwed anyone that iknow of, but things that lead me to believe so. He comes home after work, no weird phonecalls, so i have no physical evidence. I have been faithful. Nothing for him not to trust me. He lies to me and others constantly. I cannot trust him. I love him with all my heart, but no longer know if I am in love with him. How do u know? I am considering laving, and for my own piece of mind id like to know how u know if u r still in love. From his past issues,i feel i dont want to live like this for the rest of my life. But then i have ppl in is fam that say i bail when things get bad and that marriage is something that needs to b worked on. We have issues, we talk about them, he changes for a bit then goes right back to the norm. I know im all over the place with this, but my mind has been not straight for a while now. HELP PLS

2007-08-23 09:22:22 · 10 answers · asked by mizchif2729 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend since college is dying from cancer-she has fought it for ten years and now I see the writing on the wall. She doesn't talk about prognosis, and I don't really need to know. I guess what I need to know is how to best be her friend in the time we have left. We live in different states-I just want to be whatever she needs me to be at this point. Does anyone have any experience with this kind of this? I am so devastated and I just want to be strong for her.

2007-08-23 09:22:17 · 5 answers · asked by Dalice Nelson 6 in Friends

SHe doesnt stop...picking on me.. i dont care if she does it 4 times.. but now she does it all the time!! Everytime i see her.. she talks about me.. and says how much i am a bart.. im not. I help her with everything that she needs help with. i do her houswrok.. and i dont complain. she just idont... kno.. wat do i do with a crazy grandma??

2007-08-23 09:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by hope4life_2010 2 in Family

I have been friends with this guy for 10 years - he is getting married for the second time ( I have know him about 2 years longer than his wife to be) and I wasn't invited to his wedding. It is only suposed to be a small wedding family only - but some co workers were invited. I have always been there for him as him for me. I always help him out and he refers to me and my family as his extended family. Two years ago - I wasn't invited to his surprise birthday party - she made the list - he was very upset that I wasn't there and I told him that I was never invited First he blamed her then he took it back and blamed a friend who gave her the list. She doesn't like me, when she says hello or talks to me she never looks at me in the face. I have always tolerated it b/c it has nothing to do with his and my firendship - but she has always been jealous of our relationship. I used to go over his house all the time until she found out. She and her mom made the list and I don't think he knows.

2007-08-23 09:21:12 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I found out 3 weeks ago that my husband was having an emotional affair with a girl across the country he met on a website. She is married too, 20 yrs old w/ a 2 yr old son. They both had a profile stating they were single, no kids etc. After talking to her for a month, they exchanged numbers and began texting each other daily. They eventually turned only into sexual conversations. She later told me (Ive talked to her) that after the text convos for a while he said he had one child (we have 2) and that I am his ex girlfriend and I found the cell phone bill and was asking questions. After catching him, he denied it of course, but after I threatened divorce he confessed everything. Now an important factor in this is, we have a great relationship, a great marriage, great sex life, we've only been married a year and a half, I stay home with our girls, I cook, clean, take care of EVERYTHING, in my eyes he had no reason to do this. And I am a very desirable woman. Men, help me out here!

2007-08-23 09:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by Janessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok it always takes me For evvvvverrrrr to clean!

if i turn on the t.v - as im cleaning i will only clean in spots where i can watch the t v. and if i just listen to it i seem to drop whatever im cleaning to run and see what is going on on the t.v...

or if i turn on the radio - I will Dance, and i will stand in front of a shinny thing or mirror and dance. or i will be aways changing the channel cause i cant stand a songs.

AND IF I DON'T WATCH OR PLAY ONE OF THEM I WILL JUST BE BORED OUT OF MY MIND AND SIT DOWN AND SLEEP...

i know i sound crazy lazy or weird but i am just so bissy. And when i get time to clean i am so bored or lazzy

What can i do?
i cant move my t.v or radio everywhere i go.
and i cant make a c d i like cause my computer sucks...

so any tips i can do so i can clean TODAY?

2007-08-23 09:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are divorced but share custody.When my son is with me he will say he misses his dad and want to call him or go over to his house.When my son is at his dad's house he only calls to ask if he can stay later with his dad never to come home early.His dad has the same rules as i and our son gets to spend almost the same amount of time with his dad as he does me.We have been divorced for 6 yrs so this is not new to him.So why does he "miss" his dad so much?

2007-08-23 09:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by deb v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was going to take some naughty digital pictures of myself, and then e-mail them to my boyfriend while we are both at work with a message that just says, 'come straight home'. Good idea? Should I send in the morning when he first gets there, or when in the day?

2007-08-23 09:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Singles & Dating

i am just curious cuz i am 15 and exploring and tryin new things i wanna just find a guy who respects me for me an yea so back to the question ..... what are guyz lookin for in a girl?

2007-08-23 09:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by charlene h 1 in Singles & Dating

Hubby work "friend" getting married. Let me also say that I consider this guy a work aquantice not a frined. Anyway at work my husband was given a nick name by these so called "friends" Even though they all have a nick name I feel that what they call my husband is dirotory, not nice, childish in additon to being a refelction on me. The name is stinky. Hubby was working on the side doing garbage removal. So any way I really do not want to go to this wedding and sit at a table with these people. I do not find belittleing someone funny nor would I be a part of it regarless of who it was. I think it best for me not to attend and him attend alone as I do not want the focal point to be my response to there coments or me leaving and walking out. My husband told the groom we were going but I would like to call and say only he will be attending. What is the proper thing to do. My husband thinks I am being silly and says I take things to heart that it's only a joke and who cares.

2007-08-23 09:07:42 · 25 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Weddings