How do I convince my wife to reciprocate while having sex?
2007-08-23 10:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by just_me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks Valerie but I was looking for something a little more constructive. I already have direct deposit and she has the checkbook.
2007-08-23 10:07:48 · update #1
Yes Gypsy, thats what I was referring to. Yahoo wouldn't let me type that. been married 23 yrs, I guees I should give up trying? There is plenty of quality time, romance etc there, never had any complaints. Maybe Im just asking for too much.
P.S. I have found "the spot" many many times...
2007-08-23 10:25:33 · update #2
Sex for women is far more emotional. You are going to have to do more than just stick it in her. I haven't met a woman yet that has not wanted lots of foreplay before they go for the act. Oh they will go for it but you aren't going to see somebody who is really into it (unless they are a nympho). You want her response? I suggest you pick up a few magazines and read up on how to please the woman in bed... then you will get that astronomical G climax with her while you do to.... amazing stuff.
2007-08-23 10:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by HiketheWild09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to her. If my husband told me there was something he wanted I would happily do it. Sometimes we do the same old stuff becuase we're unsure as to what else the other person wants. Give her some ideas of what you wish she would do. Obviously start small and work up to things she might not be so sure about
2007-08-23 17:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try just good old fashion passion. Like you see in the movies when people first get together or when you first were with her. Tell her you love her, that she is beautiful, tell her you need her to move with you when you do this, you feel so good with her, in the instant that she does un bump tell her you love her again, that her love feels so good. Grab her hiney move it the way you want it to. Get the point....consume her with love, desire and passion. I think this is what she needs.
2007-08-23 17:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you talked to her and asked her to do X or Y? What was her response? Tell her what you like; she might find this or that distasteful, but there's gotta be something she can do for you.
2007-08-23 17:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you asking for? Oral sex? what? please be more specific. If its just you want her to participate more in general then like I said, maybe there is an emotional connection missing. A good start would be to ask her, without blaming her.
2007-08-23 17:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe approach it differently.
Try saying something like.... Hey sweetie lets pleasure each other. ..
Then do the 69er
That way it's not all about you and maybe she'll get the point and become more willing to please you more. hope it works for ya!
2007-08-23 22:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give unless you receive. Simple. Now it's up to you to give in or not. I can't help you there.
2007-08-23 17:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her to watch a porn movies with u.. and tell her what to do for u....BTY, U have to giver her first before received it...
2007-08-23 17:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Open your wallet more often.
2007-08-23 17:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋