Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

If you saw a picture of your girl at a party and one of her best GUY friends was hugging her from behind, arms under her boobs and her smiling...and him kissing (almost looks like biting her should)...would you think it was innocent?..and that they were just joking around?...FYI, i wasn't at this party because we had a fight...and she didn't want me to come after the fight because she said she needed time...time for what?

...Also, she didn't show me this picture..she left it up on her computer on one of those kodak websites of pics her girlfriend sent to her...and i saw it...

..here's the thing...she cheated on her ex hubby....and i met the guy in the pic..nice guy, but she is SUPER affectionate around him and dresses to kill whenever she is around him...hangs on him, hugging him and touching him, but not like she hangs on me...we are both in our 30's...and she still communicates with her ex's, even though she says its on a friendly level.

2007-08-22 23:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by dude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Obviously an extention of my previous Q...What can i do to make this easier....i help around the house...share "baby duties"...try to make life as easy for her as possible. Is there anything else in particular i can do to ease it up for her...How long does it usually last...etc...?

2007-08-22 23:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by dislocated_82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

From many of these questions this AM I am wondering if anybody really knows what ex means? Do we still see each other, like each other a little, sex when no one else is available? It has been starting to sound like ex is a "on hold" state of life! So, ex. Permanent or Part time separation?
Have fun with this.
Ready, set, go!

2007-08-22 23:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by duanehofner 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"When," I ask you? When?! I could really use a hand. I don't mean waking up at 4 am to get on answers while everyone is asleep.

Also, taking care of a baby, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, contrary to popular opinion is a 24 hour job. Until you've done it and done it well, you have no idea ... it takes organization & time management just like a 9 to 5.

I cannot afford a nanny and if I could, I'd still be right here. What are your tips other than waiting until everyone is sleep, in kindergarten, off to college?

2007-08-22 23:27:22 · 14 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Family

2007-08-22 23:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by arry2002uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 23:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They just talk on the trivial matter like soccer, fishing, weather etc but not personal stuff? So do they then share their personal stuff with their female friends?

2007-08-22 23:16:23 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

your ex told you that he still loves you and eveything....you then believe him and the next day he goes off and buy flowers for anyother girl. Will you get mad?...eventhough you two aren't acutally back together.

2007-08-22 23:11:34 · 21 answers · asked by sweety 4 in Singles & Dating

Most guys have someone they can consider as a good buddy/pal/mate. I've never had a best friend before, and I find it easier to relate to girls than guys. I'm not athletic or into sports like most guys and I'm quite intellectual and like reading, music and movies. I'm also quite sensitive and emotional. Most guys are so unemotional and uncommunicative.
Is there anyway I can make it easier to relate to guys and find one/two close friends? I'm only 20 y.o.

2007-08-22 23:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I become cold towards him n did not want to be bothered with what's happening to him. Am I punishing myself? or being just plain stupid to do this.

2007-08-22 23:06:55 · 21 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 22:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by arry2002uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What type of smile do guys like? with teeth showing or without?

2007-08-22 22:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says she is going to school for 8 days and wants me to look after them after they come from school. so it will be 3 hours everyday for 8 days. I am between job right now. so i will be home all the time. she says can i do it as favor and she doesnt have money to pay me. I said I will do it at that time but now I am thinking I feel like she is using me. Am I wrong? ( It's 5 kids)

2007-08-22 22:49:28 · 60 answers · asked by Jiny 1 in Friends

Though we've met in real life before, we just keep in touch through online, and I'm just another online friend to her, but I somehow fell in love with her very deeply and I finds myself in a very impossible situation. I mean, I'm not a part of her circle of friends, she have many other great guys friend and when I saw her today with other guy, it just made me realize I'm not even that close to her and I'm just a nobody to her. And yeah I admit I felt devastated at that moment, I wish I was her close friend and not just another screen name in her IM list but what can I do.

What do you guys think I could do being in this position? or am I fighting for a lost cause?

2007-08-22 22:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A month after I met my husband I found out he had fathered a child before he met me from a one night stand. The woman was 42 and he states he felt completely set up. She rang and told him she thought she was pregnant and he didnt hear from her again. The Gov then sent papers naming him as the father and requesting he sign them. He was not sure he was the but didnt dispute it so he signed. He has not heard from her since.
The child would be 3 this Dec. He refuses to contact her. He would pay support if the mother requested it. I feel so sad for the child - it is not his fault and I am worried he will grow up to have issues of abandonment and end up on our doorstep asking why his father never wanted to know him.
I feel like writing a letter to the Mum to ask if she would send pics and to send her some and make at least some minor contact via photos and letters, cards and presents at xmas etc.
What should I do???? (and no moral crusaders answer please i dont need a lecture)

2007-08-22 22:39:14 · 6 answers · asked by Olivereindeer 5 in Family

iam 22 year old and do not have any girlfriend
iam very handsome but i dont have any friends
i grow up all alone so i dont know how to handle a girl
many girls came to me but they all went away, infact i think i scared them away, and when girls try to be my friend i dont understood and later when they are gone i cry for what a stupid i am
can u tell me how to over come these mistakes?

2007-08-22 22:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what age did yyou lost your virginity.

i am a virgin, just curius

2007-08-22 22:19:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it right for a girl to marry after the age of 35????????

2007-08-22 22:16:32 · 23 answers · asked by goldielamplit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not planning anything just yet, but I do know that I would love to go to New York City for my honeymoon (if I ever decide to settle down). I'm just curious as to where you want to/are going to/did go to on your honeymoon.

2007-08-22 22:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by I_heart_geometry 5 in Weddings

i have had contact with a capricorn lady twice now and things
seem abit unstable.my feelings towards her are very good but
she is seems abit reserved towards me!

2007-08-22 22:14:16 · 3 answers · asked by menace2dennis 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I met this female online and she looks ALOT and acts ALOT like my ex. I'm hesitant to get involved for that one reason. Anyone else here ever been through this? Any advice?

2007-08-22 21:58:41 · 1 answers · asked by lonepackwolf 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 21:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs.N 4 in Friends

I didnt go to college, I married this smart handsome man when I was 19. We've been married for 7 years. I came from a very simple family, my parents are housekeepers and we really didnt have a luxurious lifestyle.

However, as i said, I married this young corporate lawyer. He comes from a very rich family. His dad owns a toy factory, while his mom was a senior accountant in a large auditing firm. He was 26 when we married.

After marraige, ive lived a life of luxury. We live in a 15 bedroom mansion. We have maids and butlers, but we dont have children. My husband has given me everything I want. It has been a fairy tale

My husband has always been respectful of me, but last week he requested that i join him and 2 other couple friends he has in a sexual activity, he called it an orgy. It shocked me. I said no.
For 3 or 4 days he hasnt spoken to me. This is the first time he has ignored me. Should I just let him bring me to the orgy? Is it immoral? will i go to hell?

2007-08-22 21:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am disabled and i need his insurance, also it would break up the all family. The finances are all intermixed, and can only run one household.

2007-08-22 21:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

baby don't hert me?

explain please what you think love is. =)

thank you!

2007-08-22 21:41:41 · 21 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

close friends for years and he's liked me since then; he's the "shy type" yet comfortable telling me things and never had girlfriend.
Beg of this yr, i fell for him deeply and we "got together" (gave him his first kiss, cuddles, holding hands, 1st base - innocent).
BUT we decided to stay friends and not rush things. After this, he was going through a hard time with tragedy and we haven't really talked.

about a month ago we texted, he heard about a guy liking me and just was asking about him (i think he wanted to hear my reaction) and after i said this line - don't know why:
(i'll try w. someone else, its too bad he's far away) that's when he started acting like an A S S and telling me how to play the game and that i should be with other
guys so they could get with me - very rude.

Someone told me it's because he was jealous and was so hurt and sad, HE THOUGHT i had moved on. The truth is, i never stopped loving him
but i don't want a relationship. If he "didn't care",why would it matter this be such a big deal to him?

2007-08-22 21:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married to a very nice girl from eastern europe. When we got married, I promised her that we would go to visit and live with her family in her country twice a year. My wife's sister (my sister in law) was with my wife when we met. The sister in law (SIL) immediately became insanely jealous of my sister. SIL dropped out of school and and cannot hold down a job. When we had a baby, SIL had a baby and became a single mother just to compete with her sister (my wife). SIL has no income, and lives with her parents (my inlaws). When we comes to visit, she makes my life hell, constantly criticizing me. When I try to discipline my daughter, she tells my daughter not to listen to me, and tries to train my own daughter to be against me. When I go to my wife for support, she basically just says "sorry my sister is difficult, just try to be nice." When I try confronting SIL, she completely flips out. My relationship with my wife, Mother I-L, and Father I-L is great. What do I do?

2007-08-22 21:40:53 · 6 answers · asked by Keith 2 in Family

My b/f and I have been seeing each other for about 7 months now. When I met him he had just gotten out of a bad relationship.. Besides that, in the past he's been badly hurt by girls where he's been lied to and cheated on. I love him to death and he knows that I really care about him. I tell him all the time how special he is to me. One day he said he felt like no one loved him, and right before I was about to say that I loved him for the first time, he told that I better not be telling him that again. He said it takes a long time to realize you're in love with someone.

In addition to that, he’s mentioned to me before that he wants to make sure that the next relationship he gets into he does not want to be a failed one. He’s 32 and he knows he’s getting old and he wants kids very badly. He’s not a bad guy at all. He’s get along and he’s very sweet. He calls me everyday, and we spend time together all the time. He’s told me that he cares about me, and I’ve told him the same. I’ve given him letters saying how special he is to me, and how he makes me happy and that I want to make him happy as well. He’s even told me that he’s never had a girl like him as much as I do. For some reason though he’s afraid to commit to me. As much as he’ll deny it, it feels like he’s afraid that I’m going to hurt him like his past ex-girlfriends. My mom even thinks that he may be afraid of how much he likes me.

These are just few theories but I’m almost positive it seems like anymore he’s afraid of getting hurt. Can you guys tell me what you think of the situation and tell me what to do. I knew from the time I started talking to him that he was the one I wanted to marry. What do I do and say to let him know that I’m not going to hurt him, and make him realize that I really do love him?

2007-08-22 21:39:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this may be bad maybe pety but i dont get pist that often and im pushed over the edge now me and my ex have officially gone to war i was willing to just end it but no he had to take this to the next level and i cant let it go my reputation is at stake it has come to my attention he has devoulged certain medical information to mutual friends not stds by the way.very personal and quite humiliating when i found out what can i do i have sent him a stern email to cease and desist but i have a feeling it will be ignored is there any law against this can i sue him how much of a b#### can i be in this situation it is nesacary believe me.ive known him for over three years so i know email home and cell phone address where he works pretty much anything but ssn i need something really vendictive here to get my point across ty

2007-08-22 21:33:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i HATE relationships. honestly i am pretty sleazy and have always done 1 night stands and thats it. and of course the occasional escort girl.

LOL. in fact during some 1 night stands i humiliate some women so badly and make them feel so dirty that they walk out the door crying!!

is anybody else like this?

2007-08-22 21:28:56 · 12 answers · asked by intestinal mucous 1 in Singles & Dating