Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

Dealing with drugs,money issues. Childrens well being emotionally etc. He says he will do better For the past months he has changed but there is something that I cannot get over. I might can forgive him for all the drama we've been through together but I cannot forget any of it. It is like I live it over and over again when I see him. Then he does stupid S--t that pisses me off. I just cannot stand it. I know that I have my own faults never said I was perfect. All in all I have been hurt by this man so many times i can't seem to get over those moments. So what should I do. I stated my claim to him but either he does not understand my pain or he choose not to. Why? Why not just let me go?

2007-08-22 15:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by soomuchluv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married for 15 years...Husaband has always checked out other women. We have had many fights and even a separation due to this. Well, he now saids that I do the same thing...check out men. I'm so outraged that I can't think straight...he has accused me of checking out my kids school teacher. I'm so mad because it seems like he can't or won't take ownership of his own mess without trying to make it a joint problem. My question is twofold... do most men check out women? Therefore it shouldn't be a big deal. Secondly, if this matter to me should he at least attempt not to undress these women with his eyes in front of me. Should he have some self control?

2007-08-22 15:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by twin2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like my brother to be removed from the house (he already was taken out of the house because he hurt my mom and me and my sister) he was put on medicine and it seemed like he changed but he is back to his regular self.
if he is removed from the family again he will be gone for good and i think when he doesnt live with us life is easier for my family. he even liked it sort of.
i know many of you might say he cant be removed from the family but he's hurting me and its really hard to be in school at the same time. i want him out.
he is going to hurt my grades
and hes starting to hurt me. i want him gone and we have people watching him ready to take him out of the house but their not listening to me. i want my brother gone because hes choking me and stopping me from doing my work.
so im just wondering what do you think about this

2007-08-22 14:56:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to make a family tree but i really dont know how and i want to make it free

2007-08-22 14:56:04 · 5 answers · asked by lilshadywolf 1 in Family

ok there is this girl at school named jennifer people are always mixing me up with her they call me jennifer all the time without realizing it!!!!!! i know that they are not doing it on purpose cause they dont realize it were the same size have the same hair and dont look the same in the face just a lil what do you think i should do? please help me????!!???

2007-08-22 14:55:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I broke up with my exboyfriend 3 months ago, now he got a new girlfriend but he said to me that i am the person he loves and ask me to give him time to solve the problems. now two weeks has past, i really don't know what i can expect!

2007-08-22 14:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by nan_biz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 14:50:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im going on a date with this guy tomorrow night

we've hung out a few times at my house
and we've gone for icecream..stuff like that
but tomorrow's our first "date"
he's picking me up from my house and all that jazz

i went out with his friend about 4 months ago
and it took about 2 months for me to kiss him

but now....
iv only been liking this guy for about 2 weeks
and i want to kiss him real bad :)

should i kiss him?
maybe just on the cheek?

2007-08-22 14:47:53 · 22 answers · asked by jayaaa :) 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19, and have a crush on a 21 year old girl. We've talked several times, but I can't really tell what she thinks of me. I am just hoping that I've been leaving her a good impression, but who knows. I know girls tend to like guys who are older than them and think of younger guys as immature ppl. damn.

2007-08-22 14:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 14:42:26 · 27 answers · asked by Keith M 2 in Weddings

what causes all this controlling behavior

2007-08-22 14:40:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If a guy friend said this...would it be a come on to the girl?


My guy friend was in my room using my computer. I trusted him to be a gentleman...and he was. But this part makes me wonder what he was REALLY thinking.
He saw my cat sitting on my bed. He said "Does the cat always sleep on your bed?" I said yes.
Then he asked "Is that all the pillows you sleep on?" I said yes.
He said "If I was in that bed, I'd need more pillows."
I asked him "Are you in my bed?"
He said "No, I'm just saying if I was."


So what do it sound like to you?

2007-08-22 14:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering if a woman can truly love again, after loving once soo strong in her life. It seems no matter how hard I try no one will compare to my first love, even my now hubby, how unfair that is I know! I want it to get better, and dont act on any feelings just internally I feel bad, for not loving the same as I did my first.

2007-08-22 14:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by FIT-GAL 1 in Singles & Dating

well i had this friend who will call sarah. at the end of the year sarah started talking bad about me so i just dropped her. this summer sarah moved to alabama. well last year sarah went out with this guy will call joey. long distance relationships dont work out a lot of the times so they broke up, i dont think they still talk to eachother and i no i dont talk to sarah at all anymore. well i ve been noticin joey more now, he rides my bus and we live really close to eachother and go to the gym and hang out at the pool and stuff. if he told me he liked me and wanted to date (which i think he will pretty soon) what should i say?

2007-08-22 14:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any Ideas? Ive done flowers, made diner, bought diner, surprise presents, thoughtful notes... I need some new material Im desperate!!!!!

2007-08-22 14:37:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ask out a girl an entire YEAR after she cancelled the two dates you asked me out on at the last minute, was "caught" out on a date with another guy and pretty much blew you off when you sent her a friendly email a couple months later?

that's my situation. i'm trying to figure out why this guy is still trying to go out with me a year after i did all those things.

btw: i'm attractive but am by no means super hot. in fact if i had to grade my looks, i'd give myself either a B or B-

2007-08-22 14:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by o.O 1 in Singles & Dating

it has 2 b a lady singin it...and like i wanna tell my ex i got love for him but i jus need sum space and tell my new lover that its time for some type of changes...more of like a donnel J 'say i aint right' thing / issue

2007-08-22 14:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 36 and 1999 was the last time I had s with a man. I can't
say the s word. I tried to release myself by m..........ing almost
everyday but it doesn't work.... I'm still hor...

Can't I just ask a man for one night stand... and then
I will be okay after that? I don't want a boyfriend or husband.

I just want to be fix down there. I am frustrated.

2007-08-22 14:32:50 · 24 answers · asked by Jagger Otto 7 in Singles & Dating

I asked a friend from high school who is a girl what girls liked in guys and she give the usuall answer about confidence and what not but still to be your self. she also said "youre so sweet im sure youll meet a girl in no time!" is it bad for a guy to be called sweet? Was this a good or a bad thing?

2007-08-22 14:31:22 · 15 answers · asked by Rocketman 6 in Singles & Dating

i've been seeing this guy for about 6 months everything is ok... I'm not crazy about him but the time we've spent together makes me care about him... also about 8months ago I met this guy that was in town for a week and we exchanged numbers we've been in contact since he wants to come visit and ofcourse spend the time with me... how do I see him while he is in town without letting the other know???

2007-08-22 14:30:05 · 20 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Singles & Dating

mostly sexually but any other way will help too......I just wanna do something that will blow his mind.

2007-08-22 14:29:31 · 18 answers · asked by inlove 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my dad's friend put extra emergency money in the bumper of hs car. (i know pretty dumb to put that money there when he couldve put it somewhere INSIDE his car) anyways, the money is pretty beaten up. like some of it's riped and everything and really dirty. he's going to the bank tomorrow. do you think he'll be able to cash that money in for newer, cleaner, all in one piece kinda money? thanks =]

2007-08-22 14:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by ayyyoooo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Using a weak point could be cheating.

2007-08-22 14:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just said goodbye (once more) to this guy who I've been seeing for the past 3-4 months. I told him it wont work. He still wants to keep the relationship though. I normally book my flights using his credit card sometimes I pay him other times he would say its on him. Since I want the relationship to end, I told him I will pay for all my booked flights from now onwards (and told myself I will not course my bookings through him anymore). He still insists and promised he will pay only until the ones already booked. I told him I will think about it..

This a.m. he said there's a promo for Marie France (a slimming clinic). He promised that will be his gift 2me a couple of mos. earlier n he said now is the time. He begged for me 2 take it but I am hesitant. I know he means well because i really want to get rid of my extra pounds but i dont want to feel obliged to seeing hm again coz of all these expensive gifts.

Pls help me decide, shld I accept or not?

PS He is married

2007-08-22 14:28:31 · 1 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister (22) is getting married and I need some gift ideas. I'm 15 so it kinda needs to be age appropriate if you know what I mean. (I suggested a pinata full of condoms to my mom and she about had a cow.) This is for the actually cerimony gift, not like a shower gift or anything. Thanks in advance guys! You always come through! :D

2007-08-22 14:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ Sin Boldly ♥ 3 in Weddings

They are probably scam artist and these are fake stuff. I feel dumb now! ><

2007-08-22 14:25:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl that my husband has grown up with is very disrespectful towards me.She expects my husband yo be her night and shining armor when she needs help.She also makes alot of inapporiate comments to my husband.And if i say anything about how um its not apporiate with me she just doesnt get it and keeps up i swear i just want to knock her one.So the question is,Does any woman out ther have a female problem with their husbands ?and what the hell can you do about it?

2007-08-22 14:22:38 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have several issues with relationships, but one of them is that I am very jealous. I get jealous if my boyfriend says someone else is pretty because I feel that he should only be looking at me. I've been like this since my very first boyfriend in high school. I am now in a serious relationship with a fantastic guy. He talks about marriage and we'll probably get there...that's if I don't push him away beforehand with my jealousy. Can anyone help me?? I justify my jealousy by thinking that the guy isn't any good and that he isn't trustworthy anyways..which has been true in the past. So, how do I know the difference between an untrustworthy guy and my own jealousy??

2007-08-22 14:20:51 · 24 answers · asked by Hapagrl79 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me your prom experience

2007-08-22 14:20:06 · 33 answers · asked by Kenny M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 14:20:04 · 19 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating