Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

I hang out with three other guys, and I'm not quite sure if its changed since I started dating this girl, but I sometimes feel like out of the clique. Do you think this may have something to do with this?

2007-08-22 12:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Keath L 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a pretty simple question....

I'm 36/38D, but I wanna be a 36/38C, since I'm only 5'1" and petite. I think a C cup would look better on me.

How about you?

2007-08-22 12:52:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(without parental permisson)

2007-08-22 12:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I really really liked this guy and he liked me as well. We never went out but we were really close...More than friends ... and then I ended going out with his friend that really liked me only to realize how much i wanted this other guy. He was really mean to me and really nice sometimes. My friends noticed that he looked at me alot during our classes.... everyone thought he obviously liked me. We went out on a group date and we ended up talking for 2 hrs and he said he was insecure about relationships.... he hadnt had any. I asked him out. He never told me the answer. Fast forward a year. He told me not to like him even though i was mostly over him. Fast froward another year.... he is very nice to me and doing special things for me...no i never had sex with him so dont think that. Also I am not 12, lol...im 16

2007-08-22 12:51:49 · 6 answers · asked by Severus Snape 5 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to push for sex on the first date?

2007-08-22 12:51:48 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 12:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I have been friends for 6 years and we dated for about 2 months last Nov. and Dec. and he decided that he didn't want to remarry (he's quite a bit older than I am....I'm 27) so we decided to just be friends again. I've wondered why he's never made an effort to introduce me to his friends and last night I asked him when I was going to meet them. He said that if he brought me around, that would look like we were dating. I said it wouldn't and he would introduce me as his friend. I could tell he didn't know what to say and so he finally said "Hmm...I'll have to think about that." Of course, I know that means that I won't be meeting them, but is that something that is a dealbreaker in terms of the friendship? If he's somehow embarrassed by me (for whatever reason), then why are we even friends in the first place? These friends of his, some are my age and he talks about them all the time. Can the friendship be salvaged at this point? I almost feel disrespected by him.

2007-08-22 12:51:12 · 1 answers · asked by First Lady 7 in Friends

I like this guy SO much.

And he's in ALL of my classes.

And today at lunch he was staring at me the whole time.

And he stares at me out of the corner of his eye EVERYDAYY.

He's shy though. I know this sounds weird but he doesnt talk much haha But he was throwing spit balls at the wall and he was smiling at me lol And he said Haley Haley. And I was like what and he told me to look at the wall haha But hes always staring at me. DOES HE LIKE ME??

2007-08-22 12:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that likes me and i like her and i blew it and she got a boyfriend. what do i do?

2007-08-22 12:49:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are things in life that money can't buy, like: love, wisdom? Your friends and family?

2007-08-22 12:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by aolsuxp 2 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering I myself have been in this situation twice in my life. It seems like it made me miserable and feel like a fool and unworthy of love. It took so long to get over it! I was wondering about other peoples ideas and views. Thanks! :)

2007-08-22 12:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by Prof. Dave 7 in Singles & Dating

I was at my mates house and her mum and dad were arguing and when i came down her dad punched her mum n bust her lip. My dad used to hit my mum so when my mates dad did this i just flipped and beat her dad up. Now my mate won't talk to me but i don't really understand why, i was only sticking up for her mum. Im 15 by the way. How can i get her to talk to me again?

2007-08-22 12:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My uncle and aunt are about to get divorced. They have been married for almost 24yrs and have 3 boys. The youngest is just heading out to college. My aunt had an affair, which had been going on for at least a year, and is now moved out. My uncle didn't ever beat her, cheat on her, etc. My concern is that she is going to be getting 50% of everything, even though she is the one who had the affair. I don't know if they have a prenuptial agreement, but I was wondering if there was anyway to help my uncle keep most of everything. He was supose to be retiring in 1.5yrs, but now can't because she is going to take half of his retirement. What advice, arguement in his defense, etc. can you give me so I can help this wrong situation become right?

2007-08-22 12:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lissa Ann 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do u like bangs like these





just wondering

2007-08-22 12:45:10 · 3 answers · asked by lindseyyousilly 2 in Singles & Dating

whos bossy a bi*tch acts like a know it all treat me like im stupid gets mad at me cuz i have morals. makes me feel bad about my self and used me to get her old friends back.

i can dicht her but then i wont have any other friends.

2007-08-22 12:43:26 · 13 answers · asked by bubbles** 3 in Friends

My friend is going out with a jerk who used to like me but i just stayed friends with him because my best friend liked him and now he is going out with her and treats all her friends like crap and they have been going out for like a year and he has been treating all her friends badly and she knows it. It is hard for me to hang out with her now and i almost dont want to be her friend anymore what do i do?

2007-08-22 12:43:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 3 kids from this guy that i was with for 16yrs we never got married. so i put him in prison for hitting me & doing drugs and soon he'll be out. I finally moved on with my life found a very very good man I also moved in with him he's the best!!! but the problem is that what about visit's for the father? i really do want my kids to see their dad for weekends I'm cool with that but i dont want to see or speak to their dad at all so whats the best thing that i can do to avoid seeing or speaking to him? I know that i can be cool with him but now since i have a new bf and i also moved in with him and 2 of my kids i'm scared that my ex will put me down in front of my childern when i leave them with him. but then on the other hand my kids do need their dad. they love my new bf to death and are very happy for me alot but thats not their dad, they already have one, is their anyone that could tell me what's the best thing to do? because i know we both need to be friends for our 3 kids.

2007-08-22 12:41:40 · 13 answers · asked by valrietorres 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can anyone tell me how an (india) indian wedding works.like please tell what happens each day of the wedding

2007-08-22 12:39:17 · 3 answers · asked by HAIDAIYYABISBIKARO 1 in Weddings

2007-08-22 12:37:34 · 1 answers · asked by YatchMaster 1 in Singles & Dating

and all of the sudden, she started "joking" about her past sex life, even when I never said sth related to it! like eg. "yeah well you are not that good in bed" or "... well if I told you the kind of things I have to imagine to have an orgasm when we have sex, you would be offended"... I kept on with with the game since we were on the msn and i really tought she was kidding, but what got to me was when she said "well you are the first one to complain about my performance"... at that i told her " lets stop joking like this" and when i asked her if what she told me were true, which i consider not, she refused to talk about it... when you girls are mad... do you make up these kind of things to get even? Wasnt that a bit too much? She used to tell me i was the best lover she ever had... Am I overreacting? When I asked her again of course she said it was not true, but now i have my doubts...
BTY it al started with me joking about her IQ, a really dumb childish thing! not 4 her..

2007-08-22 12:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres the thing I feel that my husband of almost 9 years has been having an affair. he hides phone calls from me by either deleting them or by going outside to take them. he treats me differently I am so very confused. He talks to women online and I deletes them I found out by logging on to our joint email and a female popped up. He got a text message at like 10:30ish one night and left at 2:30 because he "couldn't Sleep" and went to work and has even told me that there is proof that he was at work? also a few nights later he got a text message at like 12:30 midnight and told me that it was his uncle but it wsn't it was a coworker. but he says he doesn't love me the way he used to but I have seen that spark in his eye that he once had for me when he looks at a co-worker and it ticked him off when I comfronted him about it. Swearing that he could never feel that way becuase he could lose his job, I said what about you family??? what do yall think ?

2007-08-22 12:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by manda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm being serious here, ok people. I'm not trying to show off or get attention.

I'm 24 years old, 5'1" and a size 5. I gained a few pounds during college, and ever since graduation I've been working out regularly and eating much better. Mu tummy has gone down, although it still needs more work.
BUt I also have 36/38D boobs and I feel like they're too big for my body and I want them to be a 36/38C. I'm having a hard time making them smaller. My tummy went down much faster than my boobs.

Is there anything I can do, or is it just a matter of time and continuing my cardio, so I can sweat it off?! :o\ Anu suggestions would be appreciated... and NO....I'm not getting a breast reduction, because they're not THAT big and I have no back pain.

2007-08-22 12:34:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can anyone tell me how an (india) indian wedding works.like please tell what happens each day of the wedding

2007-08-22 12:34:22 · 2 answers · asked by HAIDAIYYABISBIKARO 1 in Weddings

Like high school guys...

Because I'm shy..and I've never had a bf before.
I know alot of guys say that they do..but most of the times, guys are with girls that talk and laugh alot.
I talk and laugh...but not as much as some girls.

And I'm new to the school..so I get even quieter when I see tons of people talking and I'm just..there. I do try to not be so shy...and talk more..I honestly do..it just..doesn't work too well.

But anyways..
Do [high-school] guys like shy girls?
Because this year..I really, really, really want to go to homecoming..but I don't want to go by myself and just stand there all alone...
It's in a month and a half I think. 10/19

Thanks =]

2007-08-22 12:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by Blue-eyed Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and me have a sort of M.U... but, i'm not really 100% sure...though he's showing a lot of caring and stuff...But, we are very ggod friends also...til one day, he sent me a message thru text about a "good guy to choose".. sort of telling me that a good guy to choose is someone who's being loyal and honest coz that's the type that will stick to me til the end....i can't relly get his point, so i replied to him, asking him if it's true?... he replied back "yes. but the decision is up to me if i'll believe in it"... and i replied him again saying "WHAT IF IF I WON'T BELIEVE IT?"... it takes 5 minutes before he replied back saying "he wouldn't be bothered at all if i wouldn't"... then, i told him " ok, fine i know that he doesn't care... i was just joking"... he replied "i shouldn't play with my words.. i wasn't clear with my joke.." ... then i ask for an apology ... he answered " that's fine.learn from it."... then, i was wondering why he was so serious... serious answers pls...

2007-08-22 12:33:23 · 2 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is mad at me because when she called my friend , who i was with at the time, and i told them to tell her i wasn't there. well it turns out it was an emergency so i had to talk to her and basically admit that i lied about being in the passengers seat of the car. i know bad on my part. well the next night we were supposed to hang out with this other girl, kind of as a farwell because we are all parting ways for college really soon. well she lied to me about keeping those plans and made it obvious to me that she had
well i did my best to apologize and make time to hang out with her, but she got upset that i couldn't walk to her house at 10 pm. i wrote he this long note explaining that i was a jerk and that we are both hurting each other. but i leave at 4 am on friday and she still hasn't spoken to me. what to i do to fix things! i am worried that i have ruined everything just because i didn't answer a phone call, and that seems totally ridiculous to me

2007-08-22 12:32:28 · 1 answers · asked by sandy c 2 in Friends

I have three little girls (ages at time of wedding:5,5,and 7) And he has a niece too, 10. They have all been asked (their parents really) to be flower girls in our wedding. I know it's MY wedding but is four too many?- I want them all in it but what can I do with them to break it up a bit. Someone told me I could have the oldest pass out roses to the parents and special people and be more of a floral bearer and help the little ones out with what they're doing.
Need ideas?

2007-08-22 12:31:59 · 23 answers · asked by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 in Weddings

My friend is going to act like some emergency came up during the wedding, so he does not have to go through with it.......what should I do! Tell the bride or just stay out of it?? He told me in strictest confidence..........but...........I dunno.......

2007-08-22 12:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Celebrate 4 in Weddings

well
I wear really short skirts low cut tops and brag about how me and my boyfriend makeout all of
the time .
but Im not a sluuuuuut am I ?
Im 14 and my boyfriends 15 ?

2007-08-22 12:22:09 · 48 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

personally, i would say girls because they have to give birth, clean the house, and everything, and they get periods while guys just work

2007-08-22 12:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family