well
I wear really short skirts low cut tops and brag about how me and my boyfriend makeout all of
the time .
but Im not a sluuuuuut am I ?
Im 14 and my boyfriends 15 ?
2007-08-22 12:22:09 · 48 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if that is all you do, then what do u think??? Not very bright are you?
2007-08-22 12:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Celebrate 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
I wouldn't put the label "s l u t" on you (nor should you or anyone else) but you should think about the presentation your manner of dress gives off and the impressions people get about you as a result. Women and young people have a difficult enough time being taken seriously without dressing in a manner that furthers useless stereotypes. If you're tempted to think you're immuned from making snap judgments ask yourself how confident you'd feel in the abilities of a doctor who came in to examine you dressed in a similar manner when you were really sick. Would you feel as though a person's attire really doesn't matter much, or would you be desparately wanting another doctor?
2007-08-22 12:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like Paris Hilton asking if she sends the wrong message.
Yes, to the world you look and sound like a slut. Sorry, but it's true. You can be cute (sorry, I can't see a 14 year old being sexy, even if you're only a few years younger than me.), without having to flaunt all that you have. Sometimes letting things remain a mystery can be more attractive than putting yourself out there.
And try talking about something other than what you do with your boyfriend. It makes you and your boyfriend look shallow.
2007-08-22 12:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by AnarchyONtheSHORTbus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So do you really need us to answer that question? Why are you wearing Short skirt at 14? Wait at least till your 16,17. One don't brag about you and your boyfriend making out chances are your friends don't care!!! To low cut shirts!?! I'm not even going to go there. but you don't need raveling clothes to get or keep a boy if that's the case than you need a new boy!
Hope i Helped.
2007-08-22 12:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sara D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just based on the way u dress ur telling people that ur slutty...plus the fact that u brag about makin out with ur boyfriend sends the message that ur insecure and need 2 dress that way and brag about stuff in order 2 feel good about urself. now u might now b intending 2 do this so if ur not insecure or a slut then i suggest u stop now cause i guarantee its giving off the wrong impression
2007-08-22 12:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why is it that you wear the things you do? Is it to get your bfs attention or just get attention period? No matter what your intentions are people are going to judge and by wearing those types of outfits your not giving a clean impression of yourself. Not only that but you brag about making out?
I hate to say this, but its the only way I can say it without being mean...it sounds like your full of yourself. If your going to dress sexy for your man, keep it in privacy. If you just like to dress that way then do it but do realize that people are not going to think necessarily good things about you. Becareful with those outfits too, you might attract some perv out there.
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2007-08-22 12:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK honey heres the thing if your questioning your self then that should tell you somethign if you think mayeb you are sending the wrong message you probably are. On another note though You knwo who you are and what you are and it shouldnt matter what other people think as long as you knwo the truth> i know its hard sometimes when people get this picture of who you are in there head and its not no where near to being true but realy think about it who cares your you and your all that matters who are you trying to impress anywyas if they dont like you thats there problem not yours.
2007-08-22 12:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're hopefully just going through a phase in your life. Time to grow up. That isn't attractive or cute and the people it makes you popular with are not the kind of people you want to hang out with anyways. You're way too young to be worrying about boyfriends and short skirts. Take your time.
2007-08-22 12:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by buddhist_20 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are sending the wrong message. I wouldnt wear really low cut short or skirt and brag about sex all the time. It will make people think poorly of you. I sure you are good person ok. I would change a little the topic of converstation so I didnt get hurt in the future ok?
2007-08-22 12:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by lovely_lady_for_u_24 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
For one to all these people saying people are jealous of you, that could be true with girls your own age but for women that are mature and older then 14 I highly doubt they are jealous. I think you're dressing like a slut to be honest, 14 is way too young for that, who the hell is buying you those kind of clothes? If its your parents then i can see why you are asking this question.... Don't make your self look like a slut, you can still be sexy without showing everything you have.
2007-08-22 12:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but there are some people that might think so. Who cares, really? What people think is totally irrelavent. You should wear whatever you want, and if you're proud of your boyfriend, you should be able to tell people all you want. You ain't a slut.
2007-08-22 12:33:52 · answer #11 · answered by Lucky Charmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋