Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

last week i bought some condoms at my local Target store in Chicago. This was my first time buying condoms at a Target. As the cashier, a young lady, rang me up she asked for my age. I'm 24, and I don't think I look underage.. So do Target cashiers always ask for age when buying condoms? do all stores do this? sorry if it's a silly question, but i usually get my condoms from my brothers jar, that's why i don't know.

2007-08-22 10:09:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does a person do when their BF doesn't want to get married and the other does? This is what is happening with me and well, I have no idea what to do really. Someone help me out?

2007-08-22 10:07:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 30, a divorced mom of 2. The guy that I've been seeing also works at the same place that I do. Nobody really knows that we've been dating outside of work. My bf is known to be a womanizer & is rumored to have slept with his share of women at work & rumored to have a large penis. He recently had a baby with some 20-year old college intern that worked there over a semester. He is older than most of the women at this place, including me. I always hear women talking about how they would like to take him out for a test drive & how hot he is. He recently missed a day due to passing a kidney stone. I overheard one of the young college girls say, "I wish I could have been there when he passed his stone, then I could have seen just how big he really is down there!" He is big down there & we have a lot of fun in bed. No other man has made me feel so good in bed before like he does. I'd like to tell some of these women to shut up, but then our secret is out. Is it worth letting out?

2007-08-22 10:05:37 · 56 answers · asked by jill h 1 in Singles & Dating

do u kiss guy u barely know ?
do kiss a guy after two weeks of knowing him n on a second dat?

2007-08-22 10:03:53 · 9 answers · asked by Sahro A 1 in Singles & Dating

depressed, self hatred, etc. It due from me can't get to jobs to put in application/fax resume because it not on the bus line. I leave in low income area. My gas is turn offf, I'm about to let my home phone go. I have reduced of income coming in. I was thinking about leaving town where there are jobs. I have already done some researching like what the jobs has the most openings/demand, crime area, etc. The only thing I would have to live in a shelter. I want to get out of my neighborhood. Lots of people drink, beg, use drugs. I don't want to raise my children in this area. I'm waiting on info. from agecies & personal contacts in the new area before I make any decision. It jobs here where I am at but the jobs are not accessible by public transportation. I would like to know what should I do. I pose to working with job agency where I'm current living but not approve yet. I don't think I can wait. I do get utility check it not enough to pay the bills/survive off on. Any advice/suggestions

2007-08-22 09:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to try something new with my Fiance. So I was thinking of video taping us when we have sex but I want it to look good and I don't want to just prop it up on top of the TV. How can I make it look good? With good lighting, too. Would candles flickering look good or dimmed light? Would it be better if he or I held the camera and just video taped what we want? Plz don't say get someone to video tape it for us because nobody is invited in the bedroom with us..lol.

2007-08-22 09:59:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We both decided to confess a secret we had, mine was stupid but his was that he had sex with 9 girls. I was upset, but his comment was "I was dating them" I didnt say anything else and just tried to ignore it. Well what should I say to him about it or should I say nothing. I want to wait to do it till I can say I love him...which is not at this very moment...and how do I tell him that I want to wait?

2007-08-22 09:58:54 · 43 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2 in Singles & Dating

if my father had an expartay order agianst an 18 year old boy for me not him but i love this boy just to say does that mean he cant talk to me????

2007-08-22 09:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 09:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by : 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a friend out that I work with, she said she didn't know. I took it as a no.

Since then I think she has changed how she interacts with me, she is a lot less happy around me. I told her I did not want to lose her as a friend and she said she had just been a bit quiet anyway.

What do you think am I just paranoid or is she feeling awkward, if so is there anything I can do to try to be the friends we were.

I could ask her friend that I know a bit if I am imaging things.

2007-08-22 09:52:48 · 3 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

As a guest would you enjoy this meal?

Anything I should concider adding- taking out?

HORS D’OEUVRES
(served during cocktail hour)

Spinach Artichoke Dip with White & Blue Corn Chips

Domestic and Imported Cheese Tray with Baked Brie

and an assorted of Crackers and Lavosh

Crab Stuffed Mushrooms

BUFFET

Sonoma Salad-

Mixed Field Greens, Caramelized Pecans, Goat Cheese and Dried Cranberries Served with Raspberry Vinaigrette

Fettuccini Alfredo with Fresh Shrimp and Asparagus Spears

Penne Pasta with Marinara Bolognese and Roasted Garlic

Marinated Grilled Vegetable Tray with a Balsamic Reduction

Focaccia Bread topped with Rosemary

2007-08-22 09:48:08 · 26 answers · asked by RED 5 in Weddings

this man is not from my country i even dont know him much but he says he loves me n dis n dat

2007-08-22 09:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by fkmsfgm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother says i am stupid. i graduated with high honors from college. She says i am fat so i tried bringing back everything i ate till i weighed 140 lbs. Nothing works she is just ashamed of me.

2007-08-22 09:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by henrychad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 09:40:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 09:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is it. I got remarried. After a few years he stopped wanting sex. And I wanted it...alot. But when I would try with him he would say I am too tired. Then I would wake up in the middle of the night and I would catch him watching porn and pleasing himself. well after awhile of this I started talking to guys on the online game I played. I started talking to them on the game and on the phone. Phone sex actually. I was going to leave cus I felt like because he didn't want to have sex with me or do anything with me or go out we had a chance to buy a house twice and he didn't want to. But I didn't leave he asked me not to. I stayed. He continued to get better and I did to. He aventually left and said it was cus I cheated on him (online) two weeks later I found a email from his coworker saying I love you. they broke up. This was all a year ago. He says hes not comin back but is over every day. Was I totally bad wife? I am sorry for what I did. and yes I love him

2007-08-22 09:37:50 · 25 answers · asked by youcandoit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 years old mother passed currently staying in a foster home...i live in tx i am trying to go by my aunt in chicago..but they said in chicago they have to go threw so much like she has to become a foster parent which takes up 2 a year personaly i really dont want to stay here for a year.i feel i am wasteing my teenage years and it hurts i just want to be by my family.can someone please help me....anyone have some kind of information...and if this help she said shes willing to adopt me

2007-08-22 09:36:16 · 1 answers · asked by skippy_hippy1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

DONT FORGET MY STARS, THANKS

2007-08-22 09:34:17 · 63 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I used to be together as much as possible but after a recent fight he has been going out with his friends which includes women. He has been coming home past 10pm for two weeks not everyday but enough to bother me. When I ask to join him he says no he will be home soon. but like I said he gets home after 10 even though i call to join him @7. I dont think this should bother me cause we all need our own lives and time but it just happened so suddenly that I cant help feeling sad almost like my relationship is over. He comes home to me everynight but I still feel neglected. Is it just me being co dependent? Does anyone have a fiancee that stays out late on a regular basis? Do they have opposite sex friends? if so how do you handle it?

2007-08-22 09:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Eia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this girl down the cape (cape cod MA.) and she came back to my hotel where we were stayin at. Well she was from georgia and oh my god she was the hottest chick ive eva seen. Now i didnt expect anything too happen but she was all for everything to happen!!! well im basically a dorky kid and i dont go out expecting to get ladies so u can see i was a bit intiminated, well she started to take my shirt off which i was extremely nervous cause i knew the pants were next and i was wearing TIGHTY WHITIES!!!! well when i came time i was so nervous that she would make fun of me and leave that i started to get a lil excited at the same time. Heres this hot chick about to c me in my tighty whities. Now is that wierd to feel that way? I t helped me relax i guess and also enjoy the moment and really revved myself up to get more into the action? Curious does anyone get random weird things to turn them on? I mean i before would of died of embarrasment if a hot chick saw me in tighty whities????

2007-08-22 09:30:40 · 2 answers · asked by joshM 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 09:28:05 · 2 answers · asked by PoetForPeace 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 09:26:22 · 21 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend dated for 8 months then he cheated, I broke up with him. He begged and begged me to take him back. I would'nt do it. No way no how. Well 10 months later I said yes, (damn candle light, and moon and stars!) We've been together for a month, the guy he was working said he didnt want his company anymore so my boyfriend and 5 other guys got booted. Well now my boyfriend has a new job and its in Panama City(let that speak for itself). When he didnt have a job I knew what he was doing and where he was because when I wasnt working we was on the phone together or he was at my house, now I cant talk to him till he gets off work and I wont get to see him much because he will be working 10 hours a day, and I dont know what he is doing or doing it with. And he likes to check out girls a little to much. He says he is in love with me and wants to be with me and that he wont cheat, but I'm afraid hes gonna cheat again. So should I trust him and let it go or should I being to worry

2007-08-22 09:23:56 · 28 answers · asked by florida girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 24 and i have a thirteen year old sister. and she is not the same anymore. she doesn't act like the person she that she was. she is lied to my parents. and to me. and is mean to the rest of her youngers. i talked to her about it and she said that she doesn't care and likes to be this sassy girl. after that i said that i have no choice but to respect your thoughts. but i don't like them. and that was it. do you think she'll find her way??

2007-08-22 09:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by bj123gril 1 in Friends

Okay, I really love this one guy and I know he likes me. Since we both like each other is a kiss going to make it official? I need tips and hints and flirting techniques to tell him I really want to kiss him! How do I get him to do this? I really like this guy, we both want each other, and we both know inside of us we really want to kiss. I really want to have a boyfriend I really know and love. How do I tell him?

2007-08-22 09:20:53 · 2 answers · asked by Kenzie 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl looks at other guys all the time everywhere we go. We are having a baby in 8 months. It didn't bother me in the begining, now that i'm seeing how often she does this it bothers me to the point of braking up with her. I've talk to her about this, and she says she will stop. But, she keeps doing it and makes up off the wall excuses why she does it. We have been together 6 months.

2007-08-22 09:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by ginuwine_32254 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its been 2 1/2 years my bf and I have been together....
He does not arouse me like he did in the beginning. In the beginning i could lay by him and get aroused. Now I can go a week without it!
There is this man... he brushed by me and i got so hott for him!!
What does this mean??? I try spicing up my relationship... nothing really works... Help me please...

2007-08-22 09:18:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies,when you get married are you

a) changing your lastname
b) keeping your lastname
c) hypenating your last name.


I don't want to part with my lastname, I like it too much. I think I might hyphenate it though. =) I'm too loyal to my family to drop it entirely.

2007-08-22 09:18:22 · 14 answers · asked by Megegie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are getting married next sunday and have a 3 year old son together. We wanted to have a scripture read before we say a vow to him to forever nuture him and support him and all that.

2007-08-22 09:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ask how they can get revenge on someone that hurt them? Yes, when you get hurt it sucks but it seems revenge never makes the situation better. In the end, it only makes someone look immature. Plus, it lets the person know their actions got to you. I for one believe karma takes care of everything. Is anyone in agreement?

2007-08-22 09:16:26 · 1 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating