Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

secret lives, cheating, all that other stuff we dont know anything about...

2007-08-22 12:18:51 · 2 answers · asked by MS..B,REAL 1 in Singles & Dating

Having been divorced for 2.5 years now, I find myself constantly having sexual fantasies about my ex. Honestly if she walked in the door right now and wanted to actually get back together I wouldn't (not in a million years). But when she enters my fantasies it's all I can think about. What does this mean?

2007-08-22 12:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

issues such as finances, child-rearing, chores, etc.? Or did you just talk about the wedding colors?

2007-08-22 12:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy SO much.

And he's in ALL of my classes.

And today at lunch he was staring at me the whole time.

And he stares at me out of the corner of his eye EVERYDAYY.

He's shy though. I know this sounds weird but he doesnt talk much haha But he was throwing spit balls at the wall and he was smiling at me haha And he said Haley Haley. And I was like what and he told me to look at the wall haha But hes always staring at me. Does he like me?

2007-08-22 12:09:39 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her mom don't want her and her father is useless!!!!! what can my husband and i do???? she has noone else!!! but i don't want her living with us!!

2007-08-22 12:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by lexus 1 in Family

A little girl wrote this about her mum, which was very moving


Prayer

Dear Jesus

I heard daddy crying
He did not know
I was there

But I was
He was kneeling down
Like I am now
I heard him talking
To you

He asked you
If you could give him
Another chance

I think he wants you
To bring back
My Mummy

But I am not sure
If you heard him
Because
He was crying

That is why
I am at this grave
To pray as well
And see if she does
Come back

If you cannot
Hear me
I will wipe my eyes
Blow my nose
And speak clearly

And cry tomorrow
Instead

2007-08-22 12:05:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dave H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this boy at camp. and we clicked. we made out after knowing eachother for 3 days

we email all the time, but he lives in georgia, and i live in nc...

what should i do?

we are dating. and i love him, but i miss him like crazy and dont know if i can do this


=[

i really love him and would do anything to make it work

=]

thanks

2007-08-22 12:04:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have 2 cousins that I hang around alot we get along very well and I'm am girl and they are 2 girls too. But....what I dont get is that hey are not talking to me at all I dont know what I did wrong. I even tried saying are you mad at me and they say no we're not we're just busy but yet they'll go out with my other cousin to the movies and the mall etc. beind my back and I keep on asking them to be honest about things and tell me why your not hangin out with me but they wont tell me. they dont go to school eith one droped out and the other on is homebound so they cant be all that busy. tell me what you think because they are acting like ***** Bittches.

2007-08-22 12:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Livvie 1 in Family

Yes, it is the bride's special day, but I wonder how do grooms really feel about the wedding day. So do you think grooms should actively participate in the plans or just stay out of the way and let the bride do it all?

2007-08-22 12:01:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm a freshman, and i'm not very motivated cuz i feel dat when i graduate, my life will be like everybody else: wake up, work, sleep 'til i die. I don't want to be a slave of work! So my quesitons r this:
ISN'T WORK like a sort of slavery??????? IS it worth to live only for working? What's the purpose of living if i'm gonna work 'til i die!!!!?

2007-08-22 11:58:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-08-22 11:58:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he sent a random txt message saying "dont you want to make love to me?" out of nowwhere and i havent spoken to him all day doesnt it sound like it was meant to be sent to someone else? by the way that was 4 hrs about and i wrote what? and he isnt replying my txts

2007-08-22 11:58:23 · 22 answers · asked by crystalf 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night my husband wants me to scramble him some eggs. And I'm all excited because we're newly married and I've been practicing on making omeletes and wanted to try it out instead....Well, he says to me I didn't ask you to do what you wanted to do...I want my eggs scrambled...So we get into this arguement over all things "Eggs!" So, I tell him my feelings were a little hurt because I was just trying to suprise him with something new! And he tells me he doesn't understand that and if he tells me he wants scrambled then that's what he wants..ok then on another note,,,, I have this real issue because he is a manager at his job and his co-workers call and text him all time of night! One person in particular is this lady..She calls and text him sometime at 1 in the morning! And I tell him that I feel disrespected because why would she feel like she could call him so late when she knows he's married! I'm just venting and thought I'd share......

2007-08-22 11:57:12 · 22 answers · asked by Maddison 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating off and on 4 almost 5 months.I really love him and a few weeks ago i found out from one of my friends that his dad died.He doesnt want me to know though why is this?

2007-08-22 11:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by broken</3 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

at the party i seemed down/sad and it looked my sec. cousin might of wanted to cheer me up (hugging, telling me to stay at a certain spot0 but my other cousins didnt give a crap (their older than him, theyre 30, 26, and 30)but my mom didnt care and critized me very meanly and i cried. why?
keep in note her own mom kinda abadoned her and her grandma (rip) was left to take care of her.
my dad was not present at the party i was moody at the party not sad!

2007-08-22 11:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 11:48:34 · 2 answers · asked by Brittany D 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy who i liked and who liked me a couple of months back. We haven't seen each other for a while and things have fizzled out a bit. But something is still there as we hint about when we will see each other.

What can i wear on a night out in a couple of weeks that will wow him and bring all the feelings back?

2007-08-22 11:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 11:45:33 · 6 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend...she has been mean to me for a long time. so im not really her friend but if we hang out we have fun i guess but if shes with other people she makes fun of like evryone xcept her 2 best friends which are like her only friends. her best friend is one of my great friends. she is really nice and always trys to make everythign better. but she always takes her best friends side no matter wat. so i told her i couldnt be friends with her best friend. and she was a good friend and stood up 4 her but she said i was causing drama and i think she told her best friend that i was really mad and everything im still not going to be friends with her best friend.but i want to be friends with her. please help me feel better and assure me shell still be my friend or sumthign i feel like crying

2007-08-22 11:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by julz 3 in Friends

I asked this question in the past but the answer didn't help. I have had this 'crush' for about 2 years now! I am dating other girls and I enjoy their company but I keep thinking about I wish I was with her instead. I treat the other girls like I would treat her and they think I am a gentlemen. I like the other girls. I know this girl has flaws because I am still friends with her. Yes I always flirt with her. She's giving me mixed signals though.

2007-08-22 11:40:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 11:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by Secret 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She said something to me. I froze up and said something dumb, I couldnt even look her in the eye when i said it. So I think she might of though i was ignoring her. (I did blush though when she asked me the ?). After that the whole day i would catch her looking at me and she would turn away fast. What do you guys think she thinks of my nervous breakdown when she asked me the ? Does she get the idea i like her or is she upset with me

18 we both know each other but not well

What should I do next time I see her

2007-08-22 11:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it's somewhat of a degrading symbol. Call me a feminist if you want. But I think the symbolism behind the veiling of the bride is degrading. Is it wrong of me to think that way? What do you think? I'm open to other points of view. Thanks.

2007-08-22 11:29:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hiya everyone =]
Well I'm a 16 year old girl and from N.Ireland :]
I have no self confidence and don't like the way I look.
I mean no wonder I haven't had a boyfriend before.
I am so so shy and I can't help this so yeah this doesn't help my social life either, and I feel like a loser.
I just wanna be happy altogether.
I feel like hardly anyone likes me =[
Well I dunno but maybe part of my low self confidence and being insecure is because of my family. I don't get to see my dad that much and I miss him and well it's hard to explain.
So yeah does anyone have any advice on how to overcome shyness, or just have self confidence.
I don't know why I'm feeling so down, i've been crying (yeah i know sad lol)
Well if you could leave some comments I wouldn't mind and I'd appreciate it.
Sorrry if I depress you guys.
:]

2007-08-22 11:24:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When a couple who DO NOT have any kids get divorced, do they still keep in touch through the years???? Im in between on this one..I mean it's obvious that once you marry someone that you care for them very deeply, so I guess a card or phone call every so often would be okay you know, just to see how they are doing. But then again you clearly wanted this person out of your life for one reason or another. Im not married or never been divorced. Im just curious.

2007-08-22 11:23:50 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

look at a girl with interest in your eye and don't talk to her? The guy i liked i'm trying to really get away from liking (if that makes no sense i'm sorry, i guess i like him so much that i see nothing there so i don't want to get hurt so i'm backing away) anyways at my friends dads bday party he was talking to my friends dad, and i was waiting to pass by them, and just standing there and he looked at me ....i can't really explain how he looked since you all weren't there, but he looked at me like he wanted to talk but didn't, and so i walked away. i'm tired of not knowing what he feels which is why i've given up, but everytime i tell myself NO, i notice something that he does, like those looks...anyway if you have an answer great, if not oh well

2007-08-22 11:22:41 · 1 answers · asked by L.R. 2 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend "amanda" and I have been bestfriends for about 6 yrs now. me and her are soo close. but she also has this other bestfriend (also my friend, but not bff) name "sasha" who we've known for about 4 yrs now. The three of us claim each other as bestfriends right?.. well when its the three of us hang out i feel like the third wheel. me and "sasha" are "sopposedly close" but we're not. "Amanda" and "sasha" have their own "sayings" and talk about things i have no clue what there're talking about. They call each other's mom's "mommy" and stuff like that. and i feel that i've know her mom longer so why don't me and "amanda have that same closeness as they do? it annoys me when were hanging out because its like iam not there. This has happend sooo many times. Now its to the point where i try to avoid hanging out with "amanda" when she's with "sasha". And I don't wanna say anything because i don't want them to put their attention on me just because i confronted them about.

2007-08-22 11:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by fallbaby07 1 in Friends

2007-08-22 11:16:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 11:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by April 5 in Marriage & Divorce

can anyone suggest a love song to use as our dance song on our wedding day? must be very romantic.

2007-08-22 11:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings