How many men out there have hidden agendas from their mates?

Question

secret lives, cheating, all that other stuff we dont know anything about...

Answer 1

All of them at this point do which goes below true love, and into the fantasy of romantic love. See romantic love isn't true love, its part of it granted, but it doesn't gaurentee that man isn't going to cheat, steal, or murder someone just because. Really understand that fundementaly all man get into a relationship for a hidden ageda that satisfies these three things

1. Not being alone
2. Someone to have sex, and feel like your a stud, yea!
3. Someone to take care of that whole raising kid thing, ewww, like most of us know how to do that. You help you to keep up with those jJones's!

Some of the same of females, but this causes problems since really were not after the indivdual there just another female, and they can be replaced with another even better for our taste female!!! And its this mentality you need to look for and stay away from, lets just say if they see you as a female, your a thing of convence, now if they see you as a female with a name, as an indivdiual, then maybe, just maybe you can be assured that there agendas are all out in the open, but its a tuff call in our society because lets fact it 75% divorce rate tells you that us as a culture have some BAD, BAD relationship problems, bad!

Answer 2

almost everybody has in this world...doesnt matter its a girl or a guy