2007-08-22 11:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by April 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
EVERYTHING. To a matched pair who are TRULY in love with each other, there are NO secrets, even "bad" ones. When you're BOTH up against all of the drama and problems and potential pain that this world has in store TOGETHER, you will quickly discover that in the "card game" of Life, a hand holding TWO Aces has twice the chance of winning over having just ONE.
2007-08-23 04:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Judaism, there is a concept known a "shalom bayit or bayis" basically "keeping peace on the home front. It forgives little white lies or even saying nothing at all IF it makes everything nice and wonderful at home. Kinda a nice concept.
My husband wants to know things UNLESS he specifically tells he he doesn't want to know, like if I ever decided to have an affair. He prefers the "ostrich in the sand" look. But maybe engage him in discussions so you can find out what kind of things he wants to know-or doesn't want to know, Each realtionship is unique. Good Luck!
2007-08-22 21:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by zechriel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something if you love your husband and man you should have a open line of communication. Some things you just don't tell if it means holding a secret from him than do so because i am sure he has few secrets of his own. And what he doesnt know cant hurt him and dont go around opening up things that will hurt your marriage.
Best of luck
2007-08-22 18:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
my husband knows everything I don't keep things from him I don't see the need to since I love him and care about him and how is he suppose to be there for me if he doesn't know whats going on in my life. If i see hes not interested in something I'm telling him I will ask him if he care if not we talk about other things
2007-08-22 19:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some will say that you can have your secrets. I will not say that. I don't think that married people should have any secrets. That is your best friend as well as your husband.
Now, saying that, there are things that I don't tell my husband, not keeping secrets, but he doesn't really care how my manicure went or stuff like that! And to be honest, s/times I even tell him girly stuff like that, just b/c he's my best friend!
2007-08-22 18:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't tell your husband everything you need something that is yours and yours alone. Besides he doesn't need to know every little thing.You can bet your life he has his little
secrets just like all men do and has no intentions of ever telling you.
2007-08-22 18:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A woman needs to have secrets.
2007-08-22 18:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My mom has always told me not to tell my boyfriend everything. She has admitted to keeping things from my father. But has made it clear that this keeps their relationship happy.
I, on the other hand, tend to tell my boyfriend everything. && I have come to realize that it's not always right. So now I am trying my mother's technique
2007-08-22 18:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by tout petite 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that depends upon the persons mentality. If he is open minded person yes you can tell all your secrets. otherwise it is not advisable ok
2007-08-24 01:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ratnam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion ... i don't think you should keep secrets from your spouse. secrets have a way of destroying your marriage or a relationship. honesty is always best.
2007-08-23 00:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by confused angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋